It takes one to know one. First let me say I know all about becoming furious and ending relationships in a fit of fury. I did nothing buy throw men out of my house from the time I was 15 until I was 21. I got on top that but I am still capable of some hot, HOT heat, witness this conversation with the soldier from last night…

“Sometimes you piss me off so bad… so bad, my head gets hot and I feel like the whole thing is going to explode into flames,” I said happily.

“Like I don’t know that feeling. You think I don’t get pissed off? You don’t think I heat up? P, you get me to mad I find myself wishin’ you were a man. I wish you were a man because it you were, I would beat your ass. I would beat the dog snot out of you I get so made.”

“Well I find myself glad you are a man. And a green beret at that because it not, I would probably TRY to kick your ass. Yeah! I am so damned mad, I’d like to give it a shot. You know, I don’t hit people but for you I want to make an exception, I am just that damned piss off, you piss me off to high heaven. I just feel murderous…”

I bring this up because most of you know I have special interest in working with people mired in conflict. I consult with people negotiating divorces, people fighting with a spouse or partner they actually want to keep, people involved in lawsuits and contract negotiations and the like and it occurred to me today it would be worth writing about this.

What I have noticed is a little goes a long way. I think this is a Saturn Neptune quality of mine. That aspect ought to be good for something considering all the trouble it causes and one thing I can do is blur the lines that separate people. Er, before you throw that baby out with the bathwater…

Skills like these are going to be very good to have when Saturn transits Libra. Bartering skills, you’ll need them. You are going to want to know how to form a solid partnership be it romantic, business or whatever. Get along with the person in the cubby next to you because people who are pleasant and fair will be the ones who are hired and or promoted. It’s business with manners and reciprocity. Anyone trying to trounce on someone else to get ahead is going to be rejected and left out in the cold.

If you want a jump on this, start thinking about doing the right thing by the other in all cases and at all time. It was not FAIR for me to throw those men out and guess when I learned this the hard way?

The last time Saturn was in Libra of course.  This time, I will teach.