Oh, yes. You are good at those things, Elsa.

I find that people can be incredibly if they’re focused on something they’re both good at AND enjoy doing. The difference in quality of finished product is emmense!

It is sooooooo much work to try to please someone you’re not going to be able to please, simply because they are looking for someone who is not you!

and you’re very very good at it

seems the responsible thing to do… if you know someone’s going to find what they want more readily somewhere else, to send them there… seems like good business too.

Once you can see what is you or what isn’t you, life seems much easier to deal with. It’s like getting in tune with your own sense of time (in terms of life and career) - a concept my Capricorn aunt introduced me to.

jenfullmoon, there are people out there who routinely destroy their relationships due their inner conflicts. When you can help them, understand, manage or resolve these things, it opens doors.

In other cases someone may routinely pick partners who will never marry for various reasons and if they want otherwise, becoming conscious of what they are doing, of their own desire for love, and other things along those line, shifts their perspective which allows them to have a new experience.

Some people just need a reality check - ‘hey, he’s not perfect but either are you” and that goes a long way to allowing people to maintain a relationship that is real rather than constantly chasing a carrot that does not even exist.

This is why I like you Elsa. You are COMPLETELY HONEST. I don’t like to be dicked around. Thanks for the NO B.S.

Thanks everyone. I really appreciate it and I appreciate being able to nail this down. The more I can refine the more satisfied everyone is going to be in all directions.

I do think there are astrologers who thrive with a multi-pronged approach, I know of some. But I am more of a distiller, I’d say.

I can see the epitaph now… “Elsa P, cock-blocker extraordinaire”