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1 Minute Astrology- Zodiac Predators aka People Who Will Jack You Up - The Venus Neptune Landshark
1 Minute Astrology
I have a client who is currently recovering from a relationship where she was deceived. Pulling this up for her benefit. Venus Neptune On The Prowl… Look Out! (from 2007)
12 Responses to “1 Minute Astrology- Zodiac Predators aka People Who Will Jack You Up - The Venus Neptune Landshark”
Does venus neptune make an illusion of themselves on purpose, or instead draw/get attracted to people who are likely to dream them up, and then have to deal with that thick layer of fantasy one way or another?
I only ask because I’m caught between my venus neptune trine and a guy’s venus neptune square (talk about feedback) and I’ve been trying really hard to not play into his triggers (’cause they’re _so_ obvious) because that seems deceitful and manipulative. (But I can never tell how well I’m doing that because I deceive myself, too, until after the fact….) Yet, he’s throwing it out all around him (and me) anyway. I’m tempted to go burn the whole thing down and see if there’s anything real left afterwards, but I think that might be a little extreme. (I think it’s pluto talking. But it might be necessary.)
yes, do keep these up, by the way. this is fascinating.
Hey Elsa-
Fantastic stuff! I love what you are doing, keep it up. We often forget or overlook the deadly side of being an incurable romantic. Neptune and Venus together are so very romantic, but they also want what they want when they want it, no matter what!
Just like Jupiter in excess, one person’s good time can be very expensive to someone else.
The real solution is to address and heal the hidden pain behind the romantic addiction to fantasy. Not so easy, but it clears the problems. Being sober (pun intended) is a lot like jumping into a cold shower.
Blessings-
Aura
Yes - this is fascinating. I hope you keep going with it.
Ha - I have the venus square neptune. I never thought about it like that. I think my match.com experience went more like … I’ll tell him that I’m not thin (pick the appropriate body type and allude to it in emails), but then only put in a great head shot. And then when I meet him (I convinced myself) he’d be so charmed by my personality and intelligence, that that little old weight thing wouldn’t matter. Oh so wrong. I stopped online dating after about 2 years, finally having to admit to myself that unless I started marketing the product clearly up front, no one was going to be happy when they received what they actually ordered through the web (so to speak).
YES! I know someone like this! A man I met online years ago who not only lied about his age online, but also his appearance (posting photos from 5 years ago which no longer look like him), listing old hobbies(like activities he did 10 years ago that he is no longer interested in), and also the fact that he has a kid from a previous relationship!
All this stuff I found out only after something like our 10th (5 hour long) telephone conversation and when we finally met in person. He also declared love and talked about marriage with me, and then 3 months later, changed his mind and decided he wasn’t in love with me after all.
When we broke up I noticed that he was immediately back online looking for another partner. And he lied about his age again…. etc. etc. (This experience swore me off online dating forever. Never again.)
He doesn’t have Venus-Neptune but has Neptune on his MC opposite his Taurus Sun and squaring his Moon.
Hi- so you all know me and I’ve talked here about the guy with this chart like Elsa P describes. Remember the guy who would always give me the bigger piece of toast even if we were under the bridge. We met on line NOT on a dating/romantic site.
I definitely believe he WANTED to give me that piece of toast and make a safe place for me under the bridge. However, he forgot that he couldn’t even make his own frigging toast let alone feed Me.
His mantra was ‘lean on me, I am your rock, I will never leave you, i will take care of you’ but when i came to his town, I saw that he cried alot in his garage and drank beer.
We were together for 7 months and at the 5th month his stress fractures started to show. The car biz craters as he begins to transition me from my big city, nice house world into his tiny town with alot of dirt. (which I loved btw) I would have lived in a tent with this guy I was so spell bound.
Now I’m right there in his house with him.
It’s exponentially harder for him to pretend there is the financial, emotional sobriety that he offered b/c i’m watching him fall apart. I’m seeing the chaos in his house. I don’t wanna see it either b/c I am in love & I love broken. I love quirky and i’m willing to work for love (we both cap moons) And I know I won’t find love easily at this time in my life. And my mars in scorpio isn’t done with the hot bod yet.
So in August we plan exactly how we will structure the rest of our lives w/ me living there b/c he can’t stand life without me. He tells me to leave all my favorite stuff and he will be home doing a few honey dews until i come back the next week.
So prob the shifting economy and the fact that he probably needs a drink real bad he calls saying exactly what Althera states almost verbatim:
Honey, I love you but I AM NOT AS ADVERTISED. I CAN NOT DELIVER. I am not the guy you think i am.
40 minutes of big snotty crying from this middle aged Texan.
Funny thing is that I didn’t even need any of that stuff he made up. Like Elsa’s girl with the chestnut hair - I kinda liked the emotional nutbag that he was– He didn’t even need to lie. The money didn’t matter.
I could go on and on here. And I will if anyone gives me the slighest encouragement.
This week I hear from him (after 5 weeks) saying how awful things are for him and how he is sending back my clothing next week. That ‘I was the ‘one’ but he can’t afford me. He doesn’t have the right furniture, can’t afford my plane ticket, blah blah blah.’ Like it’s my fault that he misrepresented himself.
This has been very tough for me.
What percentage of people do you think are addicted to love? I am certainly addicted to love, not in the same way that you describe the smoker in the video, but it is very important. I am glad that I have lot’s. I think that it would be important to me to always make sure I had lots.
I have Neptune in the 7th, closely sextile Venus.
Because I’m a Leo with Mars conjunct the Sun, and Aries rising, I’ll never totally submerge who I am. But I’m aware that I did this. I will very subtly mold myself to be the person they’d want to be with…without changing my basic self, of course.
What’s maddening is because of this 7th house Neptune, and it also being exactly inconjunct the Aries ASC, I can’t get a clear read on how I appear to other people.
Thing is, when the Leo the Lion came roaring out, a lot of men didn’t like it. They were confused, I was confused, and the thing ended with one or both people disappearing completely. (I’m definitely NOT someone who remained “friends” with exes!)
I can’t imagine re-entering the dating scene (I’m married 11 years), when I put myself through all this crap.
And finally, ouch! No one with a lot of Leo and Aries wants to think of themselves as a predator! Hurting people I care about makes me feel like shit…
Elsa, red is your color! You look radiantly beautiful, and the hair looks great as always! (my response to those ignorant critics from awhile ago)
I have been both the deceiver and the deceived. I have venus in cancer in the 9th house.
What I learned: to accept all the parts of me, do some tweaking so I’d like them all, and keep my eyes open for the one who’ll like them all too
“Somewhere, he’s out there somewhere . . .”
I am looking forward to this series too - I think I’m going to learn a lot! Again!
God you’re smart! xo
I love the video! Please make more, I need it.
This woman I know asked me about a book I had read, “Elegant Universe” by Brian Greene. I told her how good it was and encouraged her to read it. It turns out she had won a copy and couldn’t stand to read it because she thought it was boring, but she wanted to put it in her online profile as the last book she read so that she could attract intellectual men. I think she considers herself intemllectual, actually, although I wouldn’t describe her as such.
I tried very hard not to laugh, and warned her not to do that unless she wanted to spend all her first dates totally bored because the men she attracted would want to talk to her about physics. She didn’t like that. I encouraged her to instead list, “The Omnivore’s Dilema.” Which is the last book I ever heard her rave about.
She complained that she read that book a year ago. My advice? Then, read another book. 
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