Dear Libra,

I don’t want to be insensitive to the challenge of being a lesbian in your culture but I think you are missing the plot here.

Your girlfriend is incredibly self-centered. She is setting out to use a man so that she can have a baby with the intention of leaving him which will deprive both the father and her child and why is she doing this? Because she is incredibly self-centered.

She goes on to dictate what you can and can’t do and what you can and cannot feel while she pulls her stunt and I think her character (or lack of it) is apparent.

You want to know if you should wait for her or better put, collude with her on this scheme and I would say no. Not unless you want to sell your soul as you are lying down with a dog here.

This is woman is distinctly setting out to hurt everyone around her. She is telling you of her plan in plain language so if you opt in you should expect to be miserable as none of this can come to any good in the end.

As for the astrology, there are two main points:

First, you have a lot of Libra in your chart so you very much want to be partnered. Some Librans want to be in a “relationship” so bad they don’t care the quality just so long as they are partnered and you seem to fall in this group.

Secondly and even more concerning, you have a lack of self worth and are prone to depression and I am afraid your partnership with this gal will do nothing but exacerbate both situations.

I say run for your life or in Libra-speak, that would be, “Thanks but no thanks.”

Once clear, check the character of the next woman you get involved with because you want to be happy not sad, yes?

Good luck!

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