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Projecting Your Reality On To Others Presents A Global Threat
Astrology in real life
This came up via a conversation with Amber, on Hit On You / Attempted Rape in regards to Italians and cheating. You can read the exchange on the other blog but this point deserves it’s own space. I thank, Amber for the prodding…
I came up with an analogy which may make how I feel about this more clear. Like cheating (or whatever), right now a lot of people have cosmetic surgery. I am pretty sure this is still on the rise, however there are some of us who never will.
The people who do and have had it SAY we will. They say and perhaps believe that we will do what they did when we get to some particular point in time but this does not mean it is factual.
This is another case of believing that just because you see it happening on a broad basis, the rule applies to all and this is just not the case.
All men like big tits. No they don’t.
All men like skinny women. No they don’t.
These two things (particularly in tandem) are currently in vogue but there are LEGIONS of men who are not attracted to either regardless of how many want to insist otherwise.
The way that we (as a culture) project our realities on to other people is ultimately very dangerous. In fact it is my gravest concern on a global scale and speaks again to my ideas I outlined in regards to education on (8th House Brains).
In short, I expect there to be hell to pay for the denial of differences among people - the assumption that because you see it that way, the other guy sees it that way and this is one of the things I am trying to address on this blog at the moment. I don’t think I am having much success but oh well. ::holds one eye closed and stares::
photo from awful plastic surgery
50 Responses to “Projecting Your Reality On To Others Presents A Global Threat”
I see your Sir Mixalot and raise with Spinal Tap
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzsWuqNlLK4
(some women think curvy girls are where it’s at too) 
Another example occurs to me. Right now feminine men and in style but it has no impact whatsoever on a woman like me. I am going for the machismo bastard every time. Men so cocky they think they need no help whatsoever.
Scott was a squishy Cancer however, he was so cocky he did not even think he needed to bathe! In fact this was why he threw me out of his car when we were kids. I was bitching nonstop about his STENCH and having an Aquarius Moon he didn’t think his individual stench should be any of my concern!! And he was right!
That video about big butts is a blast. I have a big butt, and I have come to really like mine. It’s curvy, and it belongs where it belongs. To me 
well, yeah, and i finally figured out guys would be attracted to me even with barely-there almost A cups (though pregnancy changed that a little…)
but i spent my entire teen years just assuming they weren’t interested in me and denying that any attempts to hit on me were actually what was happening… talk about altered reality!
Elsa, you are conveying it very well.
My point was (only) about contemporary Italian culture which has VERY androgenous men, especially in the north (you should see these guys, they are unreal), and in which cheating is considered as ‘normal’ or more ‘normal’than in ‘anglosaxon’ culture as far as I know.
But your argument came across very well. Also I am appalled that apparently it is so difficult for people to grasp where you stand. An anonymous guy, ok, but someone as ‘intimate’ as Denis should have known and acted accordingly.
I have yet to come across a picture of an actress who looks “better” after plastic surgery. Different, yes, and sometimes plain weird, but better, no. Sort of some odd version of their former self. Anyway, I have always had men in my life, and no-one would ever ask me if I was a model, that is for damn sure, lol. I think women who go through all of this crazy dieting, surgery, what have you, do it to impress other women. Men just want to get laid
To me, she looks pretty much exactly the same in both photos.
haha I have a huge ass.
Jayzus that web link is horrifying. Just think, those folks paid lotsa $ to look like that.
Taj Mahal - Big Legged Mamas - Back In Style Again…
http://www.metrolyrics.com/big-legged-mamas-are-back-in-style-again-lee-lyrics-taj-mahal.html
I’m very skinny and practically wear a training bra (seriously).
I noticed everyone the last guy I was with was interested in cheating on had huge breast - not even good ones, the kind that looked like they’d drop to the ground w/o assistance.
So why did he pick me like Elsa would say?
If you look at any contemporary actress and see her picture from 10 years ago until now - say even Sara Jessica Parker who is unclassically attractive, everything on their faces has changed.
My girlfriend is a surgical nurse in a big Plastic Surgery practice. As a gift to me, 10 days ago, she did the affirm laser around my eyes at no charge — it’s like $1200. It’s outpatient and takes 30 minutes.
She told me, after I do this for you, no more tears… It was her way of helping me to move on.
It looks great — really no downtime and everyone is telling me ” gee you look good, (considering I’m busy this time of year) instead of saying - omg, you look like hell, which is what they normally say. I just look well rested. What an illusion!
It does appear there are less cosmetic surgeries being done, boo hoo
http://tiny.cc/KhcAr http://tiny.cc/Bbcvs
The whole idea big boobs & small butts were attractive to all men always felt like an advertising gimmick to me.
last night that was my rant, that most people don’t seem to grasp that other people are not like them. I brought up an aspect we shared and he said, “yeah, but everyone’s like that.” I think I had a stroke or something, an aneurism. his uranus is on my ac.
Thanks Elsa–
I think with this stuff you have to be very strong and vocal to avoid getting caught. I almost feel like it’s this evil Neptunian net. Having lived in LA for years, I am definitely a bit scarred by all this stuff, though I say plastic surgery is where I draw the line-and it was appalling to live in a place where it seemed to be the norm. It was important for me to stay away from certain places when I lived in LA, but I can’t say the affect didn’t completely last. But you know what helps one be strong about this stuff? Focus on life. Really, as simple as it sounds–when I’m writing regularly is when I feel sexiest- I mean, hotter than after I’ve been with a guy! And having goals and a focus in your life, whether it be activities or family or whatever I think keeps people away from being fooled.
And about tits- no kidding!! A high number of guys aren’t that into them-it’s SUCH a myth! I feel especially sorry when girls under their mid-twenties get implants because honestly, in much of the world, sexual experience is what helps you get a clue about this- the messages are too strong, and these girls will be like 17, have only screwed like one person or no one at all, and then they assume, hey, guys like tits, and then they start dreaming of having their chests carved open and balloons put into them. Gross.
Oh, and there are still plenty of guys who don’t mind hair down there. That needs to be addressed, especially in these difficult economic times lol ;P
“I think I had a stroke or something, an aneurism.” LMAO
i was having a similar conversation last night myself.
sonah22 - LMAO Funniest thing I’ve read all day!
There are also men who COVET hair ‘down there”.
What about a big gut??? LOL
ps- I was betting large that I’d be the only one to post about having any procedure, even though its not ‘nip tuck’… But I am an in Los Angeles
Also, can you tell me why its okay for people to tell me all day long… Oh, you are so (too) thin.. Even people I barely know and that’s totally acceptable while they just reach over and squeeze my well defined arm.
How would it work if I approached my friends and said — ‘oh you are so fat” and just grabbed one of their rolls of you know what.?
Mz Scarlett, I have a friend who is very thin and people come up to her all the time and say negative stuf about her weight. I think it is rude.
I am going to make an appointment for a consult at my moms facial gal. I need some laser stuff or maybe something I don’t know. I am open to procedures. We shall see what the future holds.
I think there are all types of body types for all types of tastes but when one is style is vogue, the other gets dissed.
one day everyone is getting perms / curly hair - these days, straight hair is in style. Being unlucky, I had straight hair when people wanted curly and now it’s the flip. Damn hapless Capricorn!
And just for the record, I don’t care who gets cosmetic surgery, I just personally cannot imagine lying down to let someone cut into my face. This is personal… totally personal to me as an individual. Plus, I have never bothered to wear makeup except maybe 3 times a year so I just don’t think this is part of the make up of my personality.
oh what I wouldn’t give for a bigger ass.
*sigh
Shell, I am soooooooooooo willing to share :::)))
I told a friend that my mom was criticizing Michelle obama for wearing a size (???…..) [You fill in the blank, it was my mom's hypothesis].
Anyway, I told my friend my mom said that, meant to be a criticism of her, and my friend, he goes:
“I like her big ass.”
I responded to him, “me too.”
Trying to get us to focus on the point you’re actually trying to make is like herding cats isn’t it? Or maybe shiny chickens.
Elsa, your last comment on this thread could be interpreted so many different ways, expecially for those of us with Neptune/Venus prominent. he he
oh yea man, what was the point again. some of you might laugh if you knew how much I totally forgot what we are even talking about by now…
I would do almost anything to have a curvy badonkadonk. How many squats and leg raises have I done? And my behind is flat as can be…sigh. All this thin, heroin girl stuff is from the fashion world which is ruled by gays. They don’t want to be near anything that looks like a real woman. Don’t go screaming that I’m homophobic either. I have lots of gay friends and lived in gay neighbourhoods. Many, many gay men just cannot stand women. Period. Try walking into a bear bar and you’ll know what I mean.
“I would do almost anything to have a curvy badonkadonk.”
hallelujah, now we’re in my territory of mastery!
doughnuts. bacon. biscuits and gravy. and doughnuts.
oh and it helps if you eat them in front of the television.
I watch the sci-fi channel and House reruns.
@ Lupa “shiny chickens” :::LOL:::
@ Loonsounds — hahah, and @ ur 2nd post - i’m laughing, and i’m not surprised ;oP
@ Satori - yes, beautiful daughters! (FB)
how could i forget, Lupa?
Hahaha, Lupa!
Wow - Elsa’s fast!
;oP
hahahahahaha!!!
This comment thread is just hysterical!!
Snapdragon,
You gotta admit, with all the water in your chart hun, it is just about fuckin impossible to surprise you…
That’s prolly a big part re: explaining why I am so fond of you as a human being… you reckon?.
r u still up?!!
can you hear me laughing, Loons? it’s pretty loud in here!
yep - lottsa water here - nope, not too easily surprised
;oP
ps but i thought it was my Taurus moon making me all soft and fluffy and snuggly? :o)
MzScarlett if anyone grabbed my arm and made a comment about my body I’d punch them in the fucking face. Just sayin.’ I have Aries Mars opposed Pluto so that’s what that’s all about…In other words it is not okay. Like, ever.
The only person that gets near my face is my dentist and some crazy indian lady who waxes my eyebrows and, um, the beard that seems desperate to take root. ‘Cause I’m not going to the bear bar, ha!
My bf’s family used to say every time I saw them “you’ve lost weight” until one day I snapped “If I lost weight every time you said I did I’d be dead of malnutrition and by the fucking way I was born like this.”
Now they just tell me my skin looks better, though we all know that is a LIE! LOL!
Perhaps we are like shiny chickens ourselves and if not then maybe we are distracted by them.
i’m sorry for coming on your blogs, Elsa, and getting the chickens all worked up! lol
(Lupa, you behave yourself now…)
:::grins:::
Oh I am laughing so hard.
I love the Mixalot video - especially the “Cosmopygian” title on the magazine. That gets me every time. Smart humor. http://www.answers.com/callipygian
I also like “Big Legs, Tight Skirt” by John Lee Hooker - it’s pretty much one of my theme songs.
Now I’m distracted by the shiny chickens. Hehe.
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