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One Year Ago On The Elsa Blog: 1 Minute Astrology - Kate Mulvey Can’t Get A Date And It’s Because Of You!
Astrology in Real Life
Pluto, Scorpio and the 8th house… projecting your shadow, a real life example.
Elsa Blog about Kate - Cock-Blocking Women - Is This A Trend?
Kate’s article with comments: “What Modern Women Want: A Beta Male”
16 Responses to “One Year Ago On The Elsa Blog: 1 Minute Astrology - Kate Mulvey Can’t Get A Date And It’s Because Of You!”
Whether or not her case has validity is irrelevant to my point. She thinks she ought to be desired and the fact she is not desired *obviously* means, blah, blah blah… there is something wrong with the OTHER, not her.
And it’s humorous. Because the projection takes place and it makes her look so stupid, I’ve no idea if her intellect is towering or not. She is not smart enough to conceive of not only the fact, but the *likelihood that her date would have a very different story to tell.
And re: the Spanish secretary one of her men, left her for… she assumes her values (Caucasian and educated) are common to all but fact is (speaking as an Italian woman) there are legions of men (and women) who go for what Bob Dylan calls, a “dark rhythm” in her soul. And I can tell you first hand if this is what you want… well this is what you want.
But she assumes the man left because he was intimidated by HER. HER!!!! Get it? It is about HER! The Spanish woman is only attractive because she is inferior. ::smiles:: Gah.
Steamrolling over the other’s reality…
Been there, experienced that (but unsure whether I’ve done it or not). Guess we all do if we have ego flares.
Looks like Kate is totally out of touch with her heart and emotional center and got REALLY stuck in her analyzer.
that and education doesn’t make you smart.
it really depends on how you use what you have, and education is just information. with a little bit of process knowledge. if you have great teachers, they might point out critical thinking skills, but you can teach yourself those things, too.
and school doesn’t teach you how to live life, but to play school. to deepen certain kinds of knowledge. but it doesn’t come close to a fraction of all the stufff one needs for the art of living, so to speak.
there’s a tendency for people to lean on education as if it validates their worth. i get the sense that she though that her degrees would make her happy and getting upset that they aren’t and blaming other people. rather than seeing what understanding she might be missing.
like you said, shadow.
No one is ever going to find a mate, man or woman if you don’t have a sense of yourself as a human being first. Anyone who keeps defining themself and the people around them by their roles certainly doesn’t know themself as a person.
I am a very competitive and smart woman, (obviously lacking in modesty) who has never had a problem “finding” a man. My husband couldn’t care less than I outshine him in the money earning department. He knows who he is and he “ain’t” no beta male.
Caring and loving each other for their strengths, and supporting them in their weaknesses is whats makes a relationship, not the role you play. This is obviously what Kate Mulvey is missing.
K -A -B = C??
Any way you look at it — Alpha OR Beta — Kate isn’t getting ANY cockadoodle-do!!
@dreamsAreality–
BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
A dark rhythm in the soul… That’s a damned fine way of putting it! Where would something like that show up in a chart, Elsa?
Fantastic! Bang on Elsa.. the simple fact that she doesn’t once consider that he may have just thought she was rude to start talking in another language right in front of her date and is excluding him but instead is more concentrated on the fact that ‘look at me I can speak another language aren’t I smart?’ that she completely misses the truth of the situation. At the same time all I can feel is empathy (pisces moon) that she is missing the mark when it comes to reading others (+self) and must over compensate with her ‘intelligence’ to boost her self esteem.
dreamsAreality - your cockadoodle-do has become part of our vernacular around here. That was toooooo funny. 
Nitpick… Even though I have no planets in Virgo :), I would like to point out that “beta male” does not mean what everybody seems to think it means.
Biologically speaking, in a group, the beta male is simply the second-in-command… he is subservient only to the alpha male, not to other males (or females for that matter). In fact, he would *be* the alpha male if there wasn’t a male stronger than him around. Think of it as a vice president or as a king-in-waiting.
This Kate person is using the term like it means “a passive, servile male”, which is not the case. I guess it’s easily confused with “Type A” and “Type B” personalities, which do indicate active vs passive behaviors.
I think this woman is obviously looking for the wrong type of man, the type that fits into her projections. But life does not end at the edge of our illusions, so I’m pretty sure she will get an opportunity to break out of this pattern. The opportunity uses to present itself as someone who we cannot but love him/her, and who is smart enough to look through the veil. She will then tear it up with her own hands. Anyone who leaves us for someone else is not the right one for us, no matter what rational explanations we use to cover up our defeat.
“Anyone who leaves us for someone else is not the right one for us, no matter what rational explanations we use to cover up our defeat.”
Conny - Agreed.
I thought this comment on a similar post humourously put it all in a nutshell for me:-
“When you are looking for a partner for life, look for the right soul not the right clothes or hair style. Otherwise you are just a nicely wrapped up piece of meat after the best looking client who will buy you, eat you and excrete you even before he gets hungry again.”
I actually think this applies to both sexes.
If I was a lesbian or a straight male, I’d go for the latina too. They’re just freakin’ pretty.
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Ok…it’s a little funnier now. But amongst all those comments were *alot* of beta males agreeing with her too.
I think she pointed out (or was it somewhere else I read) the trend of successful men deliberately looking to get women in ‘lesser’ professions - usually the serving positions. They’re leaving the tiring, assertive, ‘equal’ woman for the nanny, housekeeper, waitress, flight attendant, secretary, etc. If the relationship started with her serving him there’s sort of built-in impetus to keep it that way…
Women can do that too .. it’s just harder to keep their boy toys.