“I’m sorry you’ve have such a hard time,” I told the soldier, finally able to head home after 21 days on the road.

“Yeah, well I always have a hard time like this,” he said. “My whole life has been hard.”

“Do you think it will always be that way?”

“Yep.”
Continue reading Accepting Reality…

Lupa writes on Projecting Your Reality - Global Threat

“Trying to get us to focus on the point you’re actually trying to make is like herding cats isn’t it? Or maybe shiny chickens.”

Lupa - thanks. It’s such a struggle to communicate on this blog, . I don’t know how I do it. Or how I continue to so successfully fail to do it, I mean.

I am the most successful failure you’ll ever meet in your life but never mind that. This is for the old timers… and the new timers too, who want to get on board.
Continue reading I Don’t Make This Stuff Up, Ya Know

Hi XXXXXX! You’ve got a crazy problem here. It is a million times more of a challenge than I’d have imagined and I hope this is more validating then upsetting to hear. I want you to know, I am not losing sight of your original note and the word you used, “despair”. I have total compassion for you. I see that Saturn is transiting your Moon and squaring your planets in Sagittarius and I know you are bound to be depressed and in pain even when your voice is upbeat.
Continue reading Free Email Consultation: Desire For Stability, Reliability, Depth, Change And Excitement In Relationship, All At Once

The Mercury Mars conjunction in Aquarius is exact today. Saturn is in tight aspect to the conjunction and this is probably for more good than ill because while people are going to be very prone to express themselves aggressively they will have awareness of the consequences or at least the possibility of negative consequence for their action so they’re liable to use some restraint.

You can consider this on a personal level but if you look at it in terms of the world at large you can see this might be considered a great fortune. Basically there is a brake on this thing and if you notice around here, people (including me) are managing not to drive into ditches after all.

Maturity is underrated.

This came up via a conversation with Amber, on Hit On You / Attempted Rape in regards to Italians and cheating. You can read the exchange on the other blog but this point deserves it’s own space. I thank, Amber for the prodding…
Continue reading Projecting Your Reality On To Others Presents A Global Threat

qasseia asks on The Age Of The Sound Bite, regarding Facebook:

“Hmmm… you don’t strike me as a “dark heavy object” over there but maybe that means most of my friends are even darker and heavier. I’d be really curious to hear more about why you feel that way in relation to the Facebook-o-sphere if you ever have insight you want to share — it’s turning into an academic interest of mine on top of my personal addiction.”

qassseia, with a 8th house like mine, there is love of research so I am happy to discuss this for your purposes!
Continue reading Astrology, Psychology, Facebook And Various Impressions And Perceptions

Someone just asked me to offer my ONE sentence impression on their chart and I liked the concept.

The other day, I summed up Victoria Beckham’s expression of her Sun and the next day I had a client ask me to do the same for her. I didn’t know if I’d be able to do it but I did.

I think this stuff has a lot of value and reflects Saturn’s transit through Virgo. It is an economy of words see? Sum it up!

I would like to see more of that on this blog in between the longer pieces. There is just no such thing as too much variety as far as I’m concerned. But I think if I went to an always short format you guys would miss the longer meatier posts, am I wrong?

I hope deep thinking doesn’t go to far out of style or I’m going to be hosed. Facebook is interesting. It’s been less than a week but I already feel like a dark heavy object over there. Obviously wherever you go, there you are.

Seems things have slowed down around here and I wish it wasn’t the case. Writing has just become really difficult for a myriad of reasons.

I finished up the consultation by email that I am going to post here today and I could not possibly have picked a more difficult chart. It’s a fairly brave thing to do - make your work available to the public to be scrutinized and whatever. I didn’t think about it much because I do this on other levels every day, but that was before I saw the towering challenge I faced when the gal’s chart popped up on screen.
Continue reading Saturn In Virgo: Work Stoppage… Slow Down: Update On The Free Email Consultation

The Moon in Aries catches a lot of support from all the planets in Aquarius so we’ve got another smooth on tap where independence is strongly favored.

I’d warn you guys about something but it’s just not there so here’s a happy song instead.

On the cheating theme and hoping I don’t start a riot, I thought I’d tell you guys a story and in the process, catch you up on someone I used to write about on this blog, Denis.

Now I liked, Denis a lot. I used to see him in the gym and we always enjoyed talking immensely over a couple of years. We eventually started talking on the phone when we found we were in similar (odd) situations and we also started spending time together. Not a lot - a little.

I used to write about our conversations and you may have noticed that posts about Denis stopped, abruptly and this was because Denis hit on me.
Continue reading Remember Denis? One Man’s “Hit On You” Is Another Woman’s “Attempted Rape”