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Venus vs Mars… Men and Women - Can They Get Along? POLL
Astrology in real life
“I said I was a man’s woman,” I told the soldier.
“You’re a woman’s woman,” he said.
“You think?” I said, because I think I am a woman’s woman too. I help women all day long never mind I sued a man for sexual harassment when I was 17 years old and the concept of sexual harassment was on the absolute fringe of society. What is that if you a woman’s woman?
“P, you’re a woman / woman. You’re just a woman all the way around.”
I was pretty sure I knew what he meant. Women are nurturing. They are caretakers. We may be able to do all kinds of other things but at the heart of it, there is estrogen in the equation and I don’t think it can be denied.
a asked: “Can one learn to be a man’s woman?”
I know for sure a woman can learn to be a man’s woman if she prefers this. For many it’s a simple matter of having permission because many women were raised to oppose men… to fight with them rather than align and I’ll tell you one thing I know for sure.
People who hang around me learn astrology. They (women) also learn to get along (better) with men and I am sure there is at least one person around here who can testify to this.
I’ll go further to say I believe these skills (getting on with the opposite sex) are going to be very necessary in the coming months and years because as thing get more difficult, we will need each other more than ever.
Are Venus and Mars in aspect in your chart?
18 Responses to “Venus vs Mars… Men and Women - Can They Get Along? POLL”
There is no aspect between Mars and Venus in my chart. I voted for avoidance, though I usually get along OK with those I can’t avoid.
I voted pretty well… I think it truly depends on person to person then sex but yeah I like men a lot but I like women too
Mars sextile Venus however both of them a highly influenced by Neptune Pluto and Saturn but Im glad for the sextile because its one of the very few easy apsects i have so Im totally grateful for that!
I voted very well. I get along w/men about 1,000 times better than I get along with other women. I have Venus & Mars conjunct 
Aries Venus and Taurus Mars. Gives me a nice balance of male-female energies.
i have Venus in Leo and Mars in Cancer. They are close to the same degree….
i asked that question because i am interested in the topic generally and also because most of my life i have been surrounded by and friends with women…. these days i have a few more men in my life…
and i would like to keep them! And acquire more…
Hmm, maybe that’s part of the problem…. that i want to acquire them….
(i think i keep spelling aquire/acquire wrong…. )
I get along with men very well. My venus and mars are both in Libra, though not conjunct. My best friend of 10 years is a guy. In college I hung out with a group of male friends.
venus and mars aren’t in aspect, but i have venus in aries. i get along better with men than women, in general.
Venus/Mars conjunct in Aries. I voted very well. I get along extremely well with men, and with women too.
I like the circles I travel in…they make me happy to be equally mixed in gender as well as sexual orientation. Balance is VERY important.
any Libra talking there, kashmiri?
I have Venus in Cancer opp. Mars in Capricorn. I think it might have less to do with men than how I deal with my dad. I tend/ed to avoid or fight with him I noticed, earlier than the “difficult” age. I think it stems from discomfort. As to men, I think the 11th house might matter in this question also, like who you end up being friends with and whether you can be friends with men. I have Uranus/Neptune in the 11th house. I welcome and have been friends with many. Some of those people, I am fortunate to say, have included men.
Yeah, I get along pretty well. Venus sextile Mars by sign.
I voted very well…. Mars/Venus trine
I have massive “one of the guys” energy. Mars conj asc, sextile Sun etc etc. I had 2 female maids of honor at my wedding & my rock band mates - guys - as my bridesmaids. I forgot what we called them. Bridesdudes or something. 
I may have Mars and Venus conjunct, but I only voted “pretty well.” That conjunction also includes Pluto, though, and hits everything in my chart. Bluntly, I’m a powerhouse and it intimidates certain men; I’ve found no amount of effort can overcome that.
Plus, I’ve got a murky impression; there’s lots of water and Neptune going on, and I prefer to float along, silently, not making waves the majority of the time. So a lot of people are very unprepared for when I actually open my mouth and knock them over.
Eh. It’s a living. 
I REPECT WOMEN TO THE POINT OF STAYING AWAY FROM THEM, BECAUSE I WILL NEVER BE HURT BY THEM, I DON’T TRUST THEM, OR DON’T BELIEVE THEY CAN LOVE YOU UNCONIDITIONALY, THE SAMES GOES FOR WOMEN THAT ARE NOT WANTING TO TRUST MEN, FOR THE SAME REASONS.
DON’T GET ME WRONG HE, WOMEN AND MEN CAN GET ALONG IF THEY DON’T GET INTO RELATIONSHIP AT ALL COSTS.
IT’S IMPOSSIABLE TO PLEASE SOME ONE ELSE, JUST PLEASE YOURSELF, YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY NO-ONE ELSE CAN.
THIS GOES FOR BOTH WOMEN AND MEN, THAT’S IT IN A NUT SHELL.
I clicked yes, I do get along very well with the opposite sex.
Elsa, I think you are a nurturer of everybody, especially the people who need it the most at any given point in time. I think you once said you have Cancer on the DC, which represents ‘the other.’ you give and/or attract those who give. That is what I think anyway.
“you give and/or attract those who give. ”
Boy that’s wrong. I do attract some people who give, this was the point I was trying to make. I attract a few - VERY FEW - people who give me very important things and I attract a MOTHER LODE of people who take. I am telling you, I attract takers in DROVES and they come dressed in all kinds of clothing to the point it’s ridiculous.
venus in scorpio,mars in cancer squares my sun in libra…I’m not really good with men,especially my dad
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