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For Venus And Mars In Scorpio: What Does POW Training Camp Have To Do With It?
Astrology in real life
“A gal came on my blog talking about going to a party. She asked someone’s husband how to fix a lawnmower and their wife got pissed. She complimented someone’s grilling and that wife got pissed too.” (graphic language below the break)
“Did she have her tits out?” he asked.
I laughed. “Well I don’t know. She didn’t say. She didn’t say anything about how she was dressed.”
‘Well if she did… look, P. If a woman comes up to a man and she’s got her tits out, it’s really hard not to look at them. It’s damned near impossible. I can do it but most men can’t. The only reason I can do it is I’ve had POW training and I can barely do it.”
I snorted.
“I mean it, P. If a woman comes to a party and sashays around the wives are going to get pissed.”
I imagined a floozy. “I suppose so. This gal gave no information like that. She might have just been at a party.”
“Yeah, I know. Single women have to remember to tone that down.”
“Remember? I don’t think it even occurs to them. I don’t think it crosses their mind, why would it? They’re going to a party. They probably hope they might meet someone so they are going to want to look their best. That’s what I’d do.”
He was surprised but recognized the logic.
“Yeah hell. If I’m single and going out, I’m going to look my best and I’m going to be personable no matter who is there. What else would I do? I wouldn’t have my tits out or be looking for someone’s husband but you know. I would want to be attractive and if I was a wife at something like that I would understand a single woman coming to the party looking good. I would expect nothing less and even if she had her tits out I don’t imagine I’d care.”
“The hell.”
“The hell not. Look. It’s true I’d have gone crazy back in the day but I was 17. I was incredibly insecure back then but I don’t feel that way now.”
He was listening.
“I realize you have not had the opportunity to see how I would react to something like that in this day and age but you should have some idea. The AMF had naked models coming over all the time and I didn’t care. I wasn’t worried about them as you are well aware. And I realize I have a different reaction with you… I am more easily inflamed due our chemistry but I am telling you some gal walking around with her tits out at a party is not going to bother me.”
He stood waiting to be convinced. He could not really argue as we used to go to stripper bars back when we kids (long before women ever walked in those type places) and I never reacted. I was always nice to those girls and he spent his life puzzling over it.
“For one thing, you would never hook up with someone who had their tits out and even if you did, so what? I’m old enough to know I am irreplaceable. I know there isn’t another woman like me in the world.”
“No there isn’t.”
“Right. And if a man wants to leave me for some tits, then go ahead. Nothing I can do or would bother to do about it. I don’t even think it would hurt my feelings I’d thing the guy so dense. But I’ve never run with anyone stupid enough to leave me for tits in my entire life. You know that so if tits walk by and you follow them, I’m not going to give it another thought after a day or two and you know this is true. The guy left with some tits? Bye bye, dumb ass. I would see it like some dumb ass walking the plank after a pair of tits. It would be comical to me but really I don’t even know why we’re having this conversation seeing as you’ve never been taken in by a a pair of tits in your life. Some guy might go down over a gal like that at a party but it won’t be you by any shot of the imagination.”
“No I have never been taken in by tits.”
“Okay then. And that was before you even had your POW training. That training helps you not look at tits does it?”
“Yep. Yeah, it does.”
I snorted.
20 Responses to “For Venus And Mars In Scorpio: What Does POW Training Camp Have To Do With It?”
Touché!
This is some funny shizz! If I was left for tits I’d probably feel the same way. You know, “we pretty much all have them, dumb ass!”
Oh. And. Well. Asses.
Now how about a nice ass? Gals with good a good asses can’t stay home now, can they? 
Jessica,
This doesn’t answer your question really, but it’s an interesting exercise. Take a sheet of paper and make four columns: one labelled “positive male,” one “negative male,” then “positive female” and “negative female.” As you think of a word that describes sexual people, put it in one of the columns. For example, “gigolo” would be negative male, “floozy” would be negative female, and so on. Once you’ve thought up all you can, count the words in each column. Who has the most positive terms and who has the most negative?
Hey Elsa, hilarius discussion around that post I made about asking how to fix the lawnmower and wifey got pissed.
I love your rationale that if “I’m single and going out, I’m going to look my best” cause I just might meet someone nice on the day, as I did dress my best. Because the soldiers comment on “did she have her tits out”…is just not fair! Do I have to shrink my real self to make others feel secure?
However that particular day was hugely complicated and I returned home emotionally drained (and very drunk). The strange neighbor husband was shuffling steak knives around, to suddenly turn and hold a knife against my leg. I froze. The great grilling husband, rescued me and talked the guy down. Phew. Then anothers’ hubby was doing everyone’s drinks all day, to find he’d been adding some clear spirit to my white wine. I got very sick. I don’t hang with those people any more.
“I would see it like some dumb ass walking the plank after a pair of tits.”
oh, if i were a cartoonist
“I’m old enough to know I am irreplaceable. I know there isn’t another woman like me in the world.” Hell yeah. And really, it IS true - you are *not* replaceable. Being unique, one of a kind (which we all are) is the best source of confidence in the world. There is only ONE of you, so proudly be yourself 
“Single women have to remember to tone that down.”
Lol, assuming she wasn’t flashing anyone, why should she have to tone herself down? What if she was married, should she tone herself down? I wouldn’t tone myself down, single or married. I like to look good! As Australia said “Do I have to shrink my real self to make others feel secure?” I think we have a responsibility to be our real self, and if that self likes to look good then so be it. It’s your nature, and you are just being yourself afterall. Their insecurity is their problem, and why should it control you?
I think this is cool.
I do go to a party dressed my best whether I have a boyfriend or not, and yup, I talk to everybody, men and women, and I don’t ever want to take any shit about it, because I am nice to everyone, and have never even come close to cheating. I think if you can’t relax at a party and have fun with everyone, then you need some new friends to party with, because I hate insecure uptight everything.I come correct with my boundries AND I want to play and have fun.
Well said Omie
SaDiablo, I already know the answer but I just can’t bother myself! I know you’re not endorsing the disparity by any means. I just totally wash my hands of any notion that men are any more inherently sexual than women, or whether or not it’s socially appropriate. Again, that doesn’t mean you.
Besides, yeah, it’s not about the *words* that are used. I was waiting for a man to pipe up and voice whether they’ve ever been insecure that a woman might wander away just because they followed another dick.
I am one of the women who shows her cleavage (I am 50 and was badly influenced by Barbie in my clothing choices). If I talk to someone’s husband and she reacts in a hostile manner, I feel sorry for her. I am certainly not flirting with her husband. I am talking with him. I don’t think women should dress down to compensate for the insecurities of others.
I have never been jealous of my husband. Never.
I think men do get insecure over their dick, they just don’t believe a woman might *value* that enough to actually leave them over it. But I know plenty of men insecure over money, thinking a woman might leave him for another guy with more. People get insecure over what they believe the other party wants, what they think motivates the other. Women believe men want tits, men believe women want money. It’s insecurity at its most basic form.
Yeah, I was curious if it boiled down to something like that, AnaBanana. Hard to know.
I have Venus conjunct Mars, Pluto and Mercury (in Libra) - and the exact same thing happens to me:P Can’t talk to men about the most mundane things when their partner is at the same party.
It’s like this even when I’m in a relationship and my partner is around; just baffling to me.
And I’m quite plain and not even particularly flirtatious… I have come to realise that I must have a certain charisma!
I’m currently single, and I always approach the woman first, (unless I know the guy and not her; then I might avoid them altogether…) If she seems ok with me turning to her man for some chit-chat, good. If not - I’m off to mingle. A bit stressful; my Moon in Taurus wants to find a comfy seat and stay;), but this is the way it’s got to be. I’ve Saturn in the 7th and relationships are deadly serious business; mine or others’;) I know I’m overly catious, but I don’t want to push any buttons and stir up trouble with stuff that’s not my own:P
“because I hate insecure uptight everything”
Me too! ha ha ha! That was great, omie, thanks!
Littlemisshermit: I think your venus/mars/pluto is the cause of your appeal.
I think this because I have VenusMars conjunction opposed Pluto and I have come to parties in the manliest outfit EVER and I experience the same thing.
I am as into men as I am to women. I’m a woman’s woman and a man’s woman. I generally steer clear of situations where I feel I can’t be myself and talk to who I want to and so avoid a lot of trouble.
I’m also adept at extracting myself from situations that make me feel bad…eliminating guilt and shame is the first thing to do…
Jessica, you didn’t need to work so hard at not offending me. You’ve been around enough that I know that wouldn’t be your intent. That social disparity is a kick in the ass, innit? *le sigh*
“Women believe men want tits, men believe women want money. It’s insecurity at its most basic form.”
Unfortunately true. And these stereotypes are so unfair, too! Well, any stereotype, really. . ..
I have a friend, male, who’s been cheated on by every major girlfriend he’s had (with the possible exception of one, I don’t know that much about her). Suffice it to say, he’s rather worried about his woman walking the plank for some dick.
This blog is great. I like the soldiers comments. If you are looking at a women, best to look at her face. You never know if she will call you later and ask you a trick question like. ‘What colour our my eyes?’
omie- I agree 100% with your comments. and, ‘I am nice to everyone, and have never even come close to cheating’ either.
all of the comments here are great.
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Haha! “Tits” count = 14! Now this: “I’m old enough to know I am irreplaceable” is truly great. It’s too bad this knowledge takes a while to get. Is this because society teaches us once we get tits, that’s what we are (i.e., a body)? (Not that I’m into blaming this on “society”, just looking for a starting point.) I mean, guys don’t go around worrying that they’re just a dick to their woman, do they?