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Hair! That Damned Hair Of Mine! Astrology, Obsession, Scorpio (Moon) and Hair!
Just Blathering…
Speaking of hair, here’s an old story…
I was dating a guy once, a Sagittarius with a Scorpio Moon. He was a very good example of both Sadge and Scorpio. He was well traveled and he read everything, particularly psych and self help up to and including Dr. Laura which pretty much floored me.
A Dr. Laura book in someone’s bedroom might normally indicate a conservative bent but in his case it was expansive. You don’t have to agree with someone. It can just be interesting to read their views. That right there is textbook Jupiter. It’s how you stay out of a vacuum which is the job of all Sagittarians but anyway he also has this Scorpio Moon all twisted up and bent.
Now for the record, I was completely devoted to him. I’d never cheated on anyone in my life - this is still true today. But one day he was in my bed and I went into the bathroom. I came out to find him sitting on the edge of the bed with my phone list in his hand which meant he’d invaded my privacy. But it quickly got worse. There were three pages of names and phone numbers and he started going down the list pointing to each one and asking, “Who is this?”
He ran through the entire list skipping the women and the people who had the same last name as mine.
“And this? Who is this, Elsa? And who is this? This one right here,” he asked pointing his finger accusingly. He was checking the names off with a pen.
Well, lemme tell you. Forget being outraged, I was scared. He was intense and accusatory and I got that guy out of my house and I never saw him again.
Now chances are he didn’t go home and think, “I had no right to do that.” I bet you he went home and in between the waves of agony thought “I bet she was screwing half the people on that list.” I bet he validated his paranoia and proved to himself that as he’d suspected, no one can be trusted.
I didn’t see him again but I did speak to him and he told me he was saving my hair. Yup. I have a lot of hair and I drop them now and then. Turns out this guy had gathered the fallen strands of my hair. He told me he was keeping them in a special place and that, ladies and gentlemen, is obsession.
Has anyone (to your knowledge) ever held onto your energy like this? How did you feel about it?
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I laughed out loud… man, some people are creepy.
Eliza (pseudonym) was on vacation, we had a fling… and she ended up sending me a $7000 camera by post… because I’d mentioned (in passing) that I was sort of into photography… along with letters saying things along the line of “I’m going to come to blah blah so that we can be together. I’ve been meaning to make a move…”
Needless to say, I sent it back the same day I got it…
I don’t know that I’ve ever been stalked or held onto like that.
On the subject of Dr. Laura, I listened to her quite a bit before I left my first husband. I was MUCH more conservative then but still never agreed with her really. I listened to her because I knew she was adamantly against divorce and I thought I would see if I felt like her opinion had any merit before I went ahead and left. I decided that living in a house filled with anger was NOT better for my kids than leaving and making a new life. So I get that part.
The hair thing is just creepy.
someone broke into my house and stole all my underwear. I never did find out who. I was cocktail waitressing at the time so it could have been any number of people.
satori??? omg my mouth is hanging open. who would do that? and what on earth did you do for underwear the next day?
I don’t remember what I did! funny. I was more concerned that they broke out a window to get in. they could have just climbed in the unlocked bathroom window like I always did when I was locked out. pish.
I’ve had far worse stalkers. one cut my phone lines and left the knife stuck in the front door trim. I used to be a stalker magnet.
ewww! to elsa’s hair picker and to the stalkers, satori! that’s…oh ha ha ha i just saw jessica’s comment!
wow, that sounds horrifying satori and elsa. i guess i’ve been relatively lucky to avoid the weirdos. except once a guy slipped me roofies at a party (nothing happened, besides me being REALLY sick all night long, because i had the good fortune to leave with friends. a psychic friend had actually warned me to ‘watch what you drink’ but so much time passed btwn the advice and the event that i forgot. besides who can be that vigilant in college?) god, the world seems like a scary place sometimes!
I had a stalker/exboyfriend for years, I still don’t list my # because of him. He was harmless, really, but creepy, very creepy.
well.. (ahem!) I have a Scorpio Moon in tropical Zodiac and I confess that I have a thing/mild obsession for beautiful hair on a woman..
Mine is joined Neptune.. pretty closely..
I never heard this Scorpio/Hair thing before..
satori thats creepy. it reminded me of about 20 years ago I broke up with a guy and he demanded all my underwear. It’s not like he had bought any of it but he demanded it and he asked a lot and I always said no and it was awkward. He also collected swords and held a big curvy one up to his own wrist saying he would kill himself if I didnt give him my underwear. He had Moon in Aries in the 8th square Mars and Mars in Capricorn trine Pluto in his first house.
ye gods! you win, woman!
I dont know about that, but if you compare our underwear dudes, the feeling is pretty the same.
I have a Scorpio Moon and so I am pondering my stalking abilities…well, let’s just say that it takes an age to get people out of my system and one way to do it is to totally piss them off. Then they leave me alone. Maybe that’s what stalkers are actually doing - pissing you off so you will leave them alone. Ah, anyone thought about that!!!
satori and deirdre, wow! My stalker wasn’t that bad. He did follow me to a different country and broke into my house and tore apart my diary, but hell, at least he left my underwear alone
I had a guy TRY to tear up my diary. then he tried to flush it. I still have it. it was one tough diary; I guess it was a refusetodiary. all these stalkers sound bad to me! but I’m used to mine so they seem funny to me while the others’ seem tragic. I guess I’m just goofy that way.
man, i guess i’ve lucked out in the stalking dept- i’ve never been. it sounds way creepy.
lol @ satori’s “refusetodiary” - that took me a minute to figure out.
I had a stalker too, many years ago. Guy was a Scorpio Sun, conjunct Neptune, and he was a psychotic alcoholic. Don’t know if he was on drugs, but it was entirely possible.
He tried to break into my parents’ beach house, and he kept my whole family up all night. It was my birthday, to make the mess even worse than it already was.
I dumped him the day after, and he called my house for months afterwards (never getting me–I was at college and he didn’t have that number), and bothering my dad.
He finally gave up after a few months, and I didn’t see him again until 3 years later. I was on the beach, he passed by me, and I felt a cold chill go down my spine. I’d never felt that in my life, and haven’t since. I left the beach and didn’t go back for the rest of the day.
I never saw him again after that, thank God.
I’ve never had any issues with the other Scorpios in my life. They were all straight shooters, except for this one creep…I think the Neptune conjunction skewered the honesty and morality “my” other Scorps have.
i sure hope not.
there have been a couple of stalkers, though. creepy stuff.
Nope, I don’t attract that type of attention. Thank cheeze!
I have my moon in the 8th trine Pluto, but I also can’t say I engage in this behaviour. Once you’re gone, man, you’re gooooone. I ain’t gonna pine or cry, or waste energy stalking you when you obviously don’t want me. *shrug* The only thing close to this at all was my relationship with a friend of mine, it was really like an addiction on both our sides. That took a while to flush out but we’re still friends to this day (with healthy boundaries, I might add).