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Holy Cow - Pluto In Sagittarius… Get Yourself Free Courtesy A Prostitute
Astrology in real life
Holy cow! I am just back from getting a massage, I’ve mentioned the therapist before. I know she is a Sagittarius or Sadge rising because of her prominent overbite, her happy disposition and her tendency to laugh loudly with her head thrown back but today she threw me for a loop with her other Sadge skill - Leaving.
We are both chatty and talk during the massage. I briefly updated her on the happenings in my life and asked about hers. She said she was doing well too and then caught herself as if she caught herself in a lie or something. She backed up… “Well, let me think about that,” she said hesitating. She paused a minute. “Yeah, I’m doing good.”
“What happened to you?” I asked. “Something happened to you, I can tell.”
‘Well…”
She told me she found out her husband was cheating… with prostitutes no less. She’s leaving.
“I told him I was done. From now on I will do what I want, when I want, with who I want and you aren’t going to have anything to say about it.”
Now she has 4 kids… the oldest is his daughter who wants to stay with her. I’d want to stay with her too because she’s great. But anyway, get this:
She’s been married for 10 years and with the man for 13. She is only 33 which means he got her when she was a baby. She has been completely loyal throughout the relationship.
“Elsa, I can’t go to the grocery store without men hitting on me, at least 3 of them if not 5 of them every time I leave the house. Here he’s not even taking care of me, but he’s going to go fuck a prostitute? Uh uh. After what I have done to try to work with him? He cums in like a minute. He takes care of himself and never does anything for me.”
She went on to tell me of her supportive friends and family. It was great! Don’t hear a story like this that often which is why I am telling it.
“I have wanted to leave him before but my mother has always talked me out of it. But this time? This time she’s supporting me. She said to tell him he should never darken her door again. Even if he is dropping me and the kids off, he should stay away. My brothers? One of my brothers is really close to my husband and even he said he is done with him. He told me he’d go kick his ass!”
She went on to explain that since she met him, every lousy thing that has ever happened to her, every lousy feeling she has ever had is directly related to him - delivered to her by him.
“I am getting a divorce, the papers will be ready by the end of the day. We are taking a trip the first week of August for his brother’s wedding. It’s paid for, they want us there, they want the kids there so we’re going. Place nice until then and then I am leaving.”
“Where is the wedding?”
“Virgin Islands,” she said.
“Oh!”
“Yep, it’s a big island, I am going to have no problem avoiding him. I know it’s going to be hard but there is no way. There is NO WAY he’s going to treat me like this.”
She the first day she had to go home from work. Couldn’t do it. Could not work she was so devastated. Day two and three she cried during massages unbeknownst to the clients. Said she was scared… she had no idea how to start a life but she was going to do it.
“I can’t go back to a life because I never had one to begin with. I met him when I was living in my first apartment…”
Towards the end of the massage (she gave me a great one, she is strong as hell like a racehorse) once she got most the story out, I could tell she was emotional.
“Hey, when I leave here?” I said. “I don’t you thinking about this and worried you should not have said anything.”
“You know I’ll do that,” she said.
“Yeah, well don’t. This doesn’t bother me at all. I am very earthy can you tell?”
She laughed as in, hell yes.
“Okay, so just dump it all into my body, don’t worry about it. Doesn’t bother a person like me at all. It’s like being watered, okay?”
She laughed because come on. What else can a Sagittarian do?
When I left she asked me where I got my dress, she had complimented it on the way in.
I told her I would give it to her and I will.
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Good for her. *sends mojo*
wow indeed!
Just dawned on me, she’s been married to this guy since Pluto went into Sadge. She is such a righteous person. Truly kind, generous and giving.
I’m so glad she got free and glad she got to talk to you about it. What a great story.
Wow, such a Sadge! Sounds like a really strong, good lady. Reminds me of my triple Sadge mom. She loves massages and loves them hard and (to some) painful. She went to a massage therapist once and kept asking her to do it with more force, to really grind in her fists, and the therapist said, “Sorry, we don’t specialize in abuse”. She laughs with her whole head thrown back too. You really gotta love people like that. I’m sure she’ll pull through such a shitty situation.
Well she said she was shocked to her core. There is such a thing as “crossed the line, buddy”. I’d have done the exact same thing. She found out in the most stupidest accidental way - Just a bizarre turn of events - she found out this weekend by the way.
I have a huge amount of Sag & this is so familiar to me in a Sag—you’ve got a lot of energy & laughter & can see that really all this penny-counting, petty, tit for tat stuff going on (in relationships, tallying up the check out to dinner with a bunch of people–whereever!) is ridiculous, and you become the one to buoyantly smooth things out by laughing, you lift everyone around you by radiating “benefit of the doubt.”
But when the truth comes out–if the other person has been very, very clearly, undeniably playing unfair (and, for me at least, this means it has to be so obvious, chronic, to the point of being exploitative, not just cause the person’s worn out or something):
See ya!
I find this to be a pretty effective move.
Although, I have to say, the last few years of this Pluto action (it’s right on my Jupiter now, still, in the first house) has been about me spotting this habit BEFORE it’s so hugely obvious and a big betrayal.
The Achilles heel I guess is that leaping & laughing don’t ALWAYS work. But I am very grateful to have them as my base, still.
Elsa told me to learn from the Capricorns, and this helped: my dear friend who is a Cap thinks, “What do I need?” the second she wakes up.
Her husband has the same sun & moon I do, and is a similar fireball, and it drives her nuts that he never thinks that. His good nature & charm & talent gets taken advantage of at work because he uses it to keep the entire show barreling forward, he pulls it off, but it’s a constant overwhelm. Me too.
It’s so funny–that little phrase makes all the difference. It’s like an inoculation to the Sag Achilles heel for me.
But I have to really really work at remembering to ask myself that question! I’m usually too busy & entranced planning big amazing things for 3 months from now. . .
Also!–Beverly Sills documentary on tv tonight—what an amazing Sag she is! I was loving every minute of it. It’s her moon.
She said:
“You know, I’m not a ‘goodbye girl,’ cutting a lock of hair from my last performance here or there”–she was doing her last year of singing & everyone ELSE was turning into nostalgia, etc.,which was alien to her.
Her saying that made me realize that when a goodbye arises, I still wonder if I am supposed to be more concerned about documenting & sort of pre-nostalgizing as I proceed in life.
And then it set me free from that–Sagittarius just doesn’t want to do goodbyes that way and that is totally okay. I’m not doing “goodbye” wrong.
Other people do all that stuff around leaving because they WANT to. I always just thought it was a rule I was breaking, but people do it from desire, not some rule they’re following.
That barely ever occurred to me before.
:weeps: I am her age and I have just gone through this thing only, honestly, worse. And people have helped me, like you helped her, and that’s why I cry, for the goodness of people. I sure do love the Sagittarians for never getting taken down, though!
Wow, that’s really wierd.. I have sag rising and I just split up from my partner of eleven years, it happened at the weekend.
At the moment it doesn’t feel like freedom, but it will, as soon as Pluto leaves. Can’t wait for November.
Freaky huh?
wow…i’m a sadge and i feel this story to the bone. kudos to this brave positive woman. jupiter’s gonna shine some bright blessings in her life.
and you elsa are a sweet angel, i just know you were a real source of comfort to her. btw did i mention that i am dating a special operations guy? a taurus with venus in gemini…i thought of you, it’s just too uncanny! i saw him two nights ago and am seeing him again tonight. he’s got mars in leo so i guess he’s doing a bunch of chasing right now, laying it on all thick. i’d welcome any thoughts you have, lol.
That’s wild. Good guy friend is in our guest room right now after a 20+ marriage. Wife was cheating for a year and contributing nothing to the marriage. He’s been struggling for 7 years as all the friends watched and just this last week we got a phone call “can I stay there for a bit until I get an apartment of my own”
Of course we said yes, and bring the dog if you want to. I don’t know his chart beyond the fact that he’s a sag. sun.
Good for her to get out. Stories like that we need more of. Not for the “he’s a slimeball” aspect but the part about her reaction and her ability to deal. Good example for the rest of us.
yeah!
Saggies saying goodbye and moving on is a big theme right now! My sag friend (woman) just left town too! Not from relationship break-up, but new job opportunities. As neighbors (and single parents)we bought a lawn mower together and the sharing of it worked well. Over a few wines the other night we flipped a coin over who gets to keep the mower…it was the fairest way to decide…she won!I helped her load the moving truck yesterday and today she’s gone. Damn! I’m going to miss her and 4 kids.
Double sag here, husband left last thursday.11 years.No papering yet, but it looks quite definite.Venus cap frets.
oh Bluemarine, I’m so sorry! I’ve been there and it SUCKS. as a sagg, maybe a trip would help take your mind off things? or immersing yourself in a good book on philosophy? Leo Buscalia’s books always help me feel better.