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Speaking Of Projection…
Astrology in real life
Someone wrote me yesterday to tell me what a lousy girlfriend I am.
Um…yeah. I am also no good in bed, 20 years old and my hair is blond. ::rolls eyes::
Not only that, it’s 8:30 AM and I am going to the bar to have a drink and then I’m going to sell my ass so I can buy some crack.
Neptoooon
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“8:30 AM and I am going to the bar to have a drink and then I’m going to sell my ass so I can buy some crack”
*ssssnickers*
Yes, that’s right. The man (he’s old!) has never been happier in his life and the reason is because I suck!
The evil, P! Beware the eeeeeevil, P!
There are bars open at 8:30 AM… lol… not here
*giggles*
There are bars around here that open at 6 AM, and every time I see a sign to that effect I think about your bar-tending stories, Elsa.
WTF? Too bad there isn’t a market for freaks as many as you attract!;-)
Well, but I can parlay them into blogs, Tam. So really this stuff is valuable.
I have a question and I’m in no way insinuating that this person is right about you being a bad girlfriend but I’ve been wondering for awhile: how do you differentiate between projection and the truth? Is there ever any truth when Neptune is involved? Are people constantly projecting their crap or is there any fact to any of it? How do you know when to say “Well, that’s their shit, not mine” or “Maybe they’re right”. Again, NOT agreeing with this person, just wondering.
Charlotte - it’s a hall of mirrors so who knows? This person thinks I am a crappy girlfriend - this is their reality… their truth.
I disagree, the soldier disagrees but I doubt this impacts this person’s perception, “I am a crappy girlfriend”.
As to what is real… well I suppose none of it is real.
If I stand next to someone 50 pounds heavier than me, I am thin. If I stand next to someone 50 pounds lighter, I am large.
One person thinks if you sleep with a man you love unmarried, then you are a whore.
The other person thinks if you marry a man for money - well that’s whoredom.
So there you go! I don’t know.
But specific to this situation, I would consider the high IQ’ed man who lives with me and who has known me for 30 years to be in a better position to judge my quality than someone who reads my blog.
“The man (he’s old!) has never been happier in his life and the reason is because I suck!”
LMAO!
“Can you imagine someone contacting you to tell you they think you’re lousy to me?” I asked the soldier.
“No, because I am not a public person.”
Neptune on the midheaven…
(and I can’t imagine contacting someone to tell them they suck either. what the hell is that?)
Elsa, (post #2) I guess you meant what I thought you meant?
:::snickering:::
Totally agree with you on post #9
No, Snap - You’re a perv!
I’m laughing my head off!
You know, you might see the humour in this as well. All these times, people have been addressing their posts to me, starting with snap. And I’ve been trying to picture the relevance of someone snapping their fingers before they speak. Just wasn’t really getting it. Ahhh, my face is red. It wasn’t til your post just now that i finally realized it was just Snapdragon, shortened. Good grief. It’s so easy to go above my head, sometimes.
:::and yes, I am a perv. thank you very much:::
I think that at some point in that man’s life he lost his power to a woman that he described in the email. I seriously doubt that you are the only stranger that he has ever attacked. It’s easy for people to attack a stranger online because there is no visible consequences for their actions. Just a thought.
Geez, I feel like I’m slacking, ’cause Snap caught the perv angle and I totally missed it.
My husband asked me if I love him even though he’s a perv.
I respond quite honestly: “You say that like it’s a bad thing.”
Bwahahaha…and that’s too funny on missing the “Snap” references. Totally sounds like something I’d do.
Oh good, I’m not the only one then…
:o)
Tam - it’s a man?? He said he was a man which makes me (us) pretty damned sure he’s a woman which gives an excellent (projected) image for us to work with. You know. A woman with a beard pasted on crooked - stuff like that.
He (?) also said he was a friend of the soldier’s.
The soldier said, “I don’t have any friends!”
Ha ha ha ha
He says it’s no friend of his, he’s thinks it’s probably Nurse Betty.
“Betty is going to show up here, look at me and say where’s the soldier? Over there, I’ll tell her,” he said, pointing away from himself. “And they’ll go where I say because I just don’t look like this soldier you write about…”
He also recommended I write them back and tell them the soldier was actually Napoleon and I was reading his diaries…
Maybe it’s that damn judge! LOL
tam - Yeah, maybe! In whatever case it’s a hall of mirrors fer sure!
He says, “Napoleon” and my Neptune trots off on some fantasy, LOL.
Bottom line, it’s all about unintended consequences and in whatever case, Betty gets a Saturn in Virgo lesson - That is, careful what you say and who you say it to! “Did you think before you sent that?”
Goddess: Duh, eh? Must be all the Pisces in my chart - do you have any Pisces?
What’s wrong with some people, huh? You come across to me as a great girlfriend, Elsa! Fun, hot and extremely capable:)
Another Neptune story (from family lore - Neptune again?): My mom has Neptune in Libra on the MC. She started working as a stewardess back when they were still harassed more or less on a daily basis. With her 4 planet stellium in Aries trine Pluto/8th and Scorpio rising, she opened a can of whoop ass on many an astonished businessman, LOL!:) Whoop ass concealed in heavy doses of charm, I might add;)
Who are these people that email strangers to tell them that they suck???
(Whom?)
Jilly - Whom knew?
Tell you what, E, call me up when you get home after your last john and we’ll go find some kids to beat. Yanno, to let off steam.
Jilly, it’s “who,” you were right the first time. [Who (subject) is projecting onto whom (object)?]
SaDiablo - LOL
This whole deal reminds me of Bob Dylan;s song:
Lily, Rosemary and the Jack Of Hearts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lily,_Rosemary_and_the_Jack_of_Hearts
Though i LOOOOOOOOOVE the song, I wonder if Dylan even bothered to be amused when people tried to figure it out.
Hey Elsa! Are blonde jokes as bad as bald jokes? Whats wrong with blonde, hmmmmmmm ?
LOL Snap and double LOL. You actually made me laugh out loud with the snap your fingers comment. That is fuckin’ hysterical.
This Taurus is going to leave the post #2 commentary alone heh heh, it’s for the best ;-).
I agree with your implication Goddess, namely, if I am called a pervert I take it as a compliment, and that is definitely a prerequesite in the partner, too.
My response to the person who actually had the time (and took the time) to write you a comment like that? “Get a life dude, quit smokin’ so much crack, and don’t walk to the therapists office, run!”
Anyway, obviously that person is not a Taurus or else he/she/it would know that you are the dream come true girlfriend, because you know what the priorities are.
Loonsounds - there is nothing wrong with blonds… it is just I am obviously not one of you… I think this is as obvious as the fact I’m a first rate girlfriend. An yer right on the priorities.
Feed ‘em, fuck ‘em, make them laugh their ass off - What more do you want?
Oh yeah. Loyalty, kindness, affection, character, ANNNNNND the shiniest hair in 18 states!
Right on, Elsa
It just occurred to me… someone insults me and it gives me the perfect opportunity to talk myself up.
This is what I mean when I say, “If you stab me, I get the knife.”
::smiles crazily::
AHA! I’ve always wondered if I understood that phrase of yours correctly.
Nope. *lol*
LOL
Hey Elsa, you forgot one of the most important ingredients!!
*must be a Perv.*
Only 18 states? Are they still running the ballots in the remaining 30+?
Well, Foxxy, I am vain but not that vain! There is a limit to my vanity because I have Capricorn in aspect to Leo!
And because she hasn’t checked out the competition in the other 32 states. *high-hat*
obviously that’s why he moved cross country to be with you.
well, maybe that Nurse Betty’s one less person you have to worry about wanting to be your “boyfriend” eh?
wyrdling - there is only person in the world who wants to be my boyfriend - Guess who?
Snap-Yep, got 7th house pisces, lots of Virgo.
Off to join Snapdragon and Loonsounds in the Perv Club…lol
Can I come?!
Goddess, in my 7th house it’s Virgo all the way. Hmmmm, wonder if someone is trying to tell me something.
They need to be more clear.
Not sure what the astrological specs would be for a perv, but whatever, I must have them! LOL
Perv Club - sounds good to me. Do we get a special handshake… clubhouse in the Mediterranean, or anything else “cool” like that?
Wellllll, I don’t know June, what are your qualifications?
hahahah
LOL @ Snap for checking qualifications of the Pervs at the door….I’m thining if she asked to join and therefore wants to be associated with the rest of us pervs, she’s probably qulaified. Also, I would assume any Mars or Venus in Scorpio folks would be well-suited for the Perv Club….gotta love that Scorpio sex, huh?
So Goddess, are you thinking I oughtta take it easy on her? Figure we should let her in?
But she still hasn’t verified that she does have any Scorpio….. I mean, maybe she’s not weird enough?!!
Are there any other signs that are perv.’s like Scorpio?
Several references have been made, over the years, to Mars in Gemini, which I have. Also, I think that along with Scorpio we should take the polarity into consideration and never underestimate the perv potential of Taurus the raging horny bull. But I also do have some eighth house Scorpio energy which receives trines from 5th house Jupiter/Uranus in Cancer, and with Pisces rising there is a lot of water energy in the chart overall. I think water and earth energies have the most qualifications for the club.
Yeah, Loonsounds, I also have Taurus, so I know what you’re talking about with the whole “raging horny bull” thing.
Well, maybe if anyone wants to join, they should just plead their case before the court? What do you think - I mean are there any that just won’t cut it, period? I guess the heavier the better, eh?
I don’t encounter (vibe) a lot of pure hot sexual energy in strong Aquarius energy people, Aries like sex but too fast and bossy about the whole event, (so, unless that is the persons thing, Aries probably doesn’t qualify). Taurus moon are very horny; sensual, great perv club potential.
Mars in Scorpio (I would think), people with a lot of Virgo energy are very good with their hands
(but lame candidates for a perv club, trust me on that and spare yourself a whole world of embarassment). Leos with a Taurus moon are fabulous and do anything you suggest (but I have sun Taurus with a Leo moon, so that is a good match for me).
*Big Smile* @ loonsounds
I’m a Leo with a Taurus moon
I think everyone has their own perv streak . . its about gettin’ it matched up.
The best sex of my life was a pisces w. pisces mars, I consistently have incredible sex with a gemini - but I attribute it to the way he hits up my uranus/mars sextile, As for myself I’m capricorn mars but its square pluto and sextile uranus and . . Well many adjectives apply. I’ve never ever lost a game of ‘I have never’.
Smile to Foxxy, do you have a lot of Pisces yourself perhaps? Pisces can be anybody or anything for a while anyway.
Well (@Loonsounds), yeah, I guess it depends on what things are matched up with. I do have a lot of Virgo, as well, and you know I have always said that I am good with my hands (heh, heh) - so I guess that explains it.
LOL! at Jimmy
Foxxy, what are your Sun/Moon/Venus (anything else applicable) signs?
I dunno about Virgo. Virgo can play a pretty good Persephone and often has a secret life. It is sometimes secret from themselves, LOL… projecting Neptune and all.
June, I caught your other post - if you’ve got Moon in Scorpio, I’m sure you’re good to go.
Elsa, I do try to stay in touch with my inner…..ummmm…..
Don’t worry, I’ve got enough Scorpio and Taurus qualifications for the club!