Astrology And Conflict: It’s Another Day In Court And The Gambler Shows Up

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1. shell says on 5/15/08 at 5:55 am:
   

   I usually fight first, then comprimise in the end. I have nothing in Aries except the 6th house, but I have Saturn, Jupiter, and Pluto in Libra.

   I sure wish I had more of that Arian tenacity.

2. Rkkggg says on 5/15/08 at 7:22 am:
   

   My chart is heavily Libra. My Sun, Mercury, Mars, Pluto, and Uranus are all in Libra, and my Venus is in Virgo, but just barely, it is nearly in Libra, too. I tend to hold back from a fight with another individual until I’ve fought it out within myself first. (Unless it is my husband, then I just go BOOM.)

   I can sit and argue both sides, as much as I can see them, which is, imo, rather well, and then, if I find that I can’t come to a satisfactory understanding of the other person’s point of view all on my own, then I will either decide that it isn’t worth a fight, or I will engage the person and see what they have to say about it.

   The biggest difficulty for me come when I feel very wounded, because I feel like my hurt clouds my ability to see the other person’s point of view, or I’m sometimes embarrassed that I’m hurt, because the hurt comes from realizing that my expectations of a relationship/friendship were significantly different from the other person’s and it embarrasses me to find out that I had more stock in it than they did, so I will often just let those issues go unaddressed, maybe even when I shouldn’t, because the pain of addressing them seems to outweigh the pain of not.

   I’m going on and on here because I actually had a very hurtful interaction yesterday with one of my closest friends (a Virgo) where she was outright nasty to me for reasons I can’t fully understand after spending hours last night trying to figure it out on my own, and so I think I have to talk to her about it, and I’m kind of dreading it. I’m completely unsure of what i did to deserve her wrath, and thus I’m pretty sure I’ll invoke it again.

   My grandfather just died and I’m emotionally fragile at the moment, so I’m kind of scared of dealing with big, bad Virgo with all of their invisible and often unrealistic rules and regs right now. *sigh*

3. Becca says on 5/15/08 at 7:32 am:
   

   Compromise! I’m not happy unless everybody’s happy. Sun, Jupiter, Mercury, Uranus and Venus in Libra, nothing in Aries but Chiron.

4. Lilly says on 5/15/08 at 8:05 am:
   

   Aries Sun/Libra Moon - I’m actually pretty good at both. I tend to compromise a lot b/c I prefer making other people happy. But, when there is an injustice of some sort, my Aries goes into full-blown mode & there’s no stopping me. What’s funny is that it feels SOOOO good to FIGHT! I’m on a “high” for days afterwards when I’ve had a good one. Like the time I got to tell off my man’s evil ex-wife…ooooh, that was a glorious day!! LOL

5. Stephanie says on 5/15/08 at 9:27 am:
   

   Aries Stellium here. All I know how to do is fight. Funny thing is, I blame my Cappy Moon’s high standards for my inability to compromise. Sometimes I get tired and just want to stop fighting, but Cappy Moon just can’t sell out.

6. Heather M. says on 5/15/08 at 9:35 am:
   

   Fight and then compromise? That’s in my personal relationships anyway.

   Publicly, I can get along with people and finesse like a Libra. *If* I remember that fighting with people for my own purposes is totally my self-undoing.

   12th house Aries Venus/ Chiron w/ south node opp. Pluto Libra north node. It’s hard to keep that all together.

   Rkkggg~ So sorry about your grandfather and the wrath of a friend. <3

7. Dim says on 5/15/08 at 9:46 am:
   

   .. if something or someone’s important enough I compromise. Otherwise I run for the hills. Not much into fighting, unless someone tries to tell me what to do… lol… you can ASK and I’ll usually comply… but never, ever TELL me what to do.

   I blame my heavy Sadge and Cappy energies on all of this…

8. wyrdling says on 5/15/08 at 11:21 am:
   

   i do both. it depends on the situation, what i have at stake, and what my best options are. i tend to save the fighting unless it’s the only way to accomplish something… and i avoid full frontal assaults. too darn costly. don’t give anyone the opportunity to adjust their perspective. compromise can be useful at any point as long as you don’t bargain away something you need.

   least, that’s how i see it
   (oh, and i have a venus/pluto aries/libra opposition as well as a libra north node opposite my sun….)

9. Togi says on 5/15/08 at 2:26 pm:
   

   I’m kind of scared of dealing with big, bad Virgo with all of their invisible and often unrealistic rules and regs right now. *sigh*

   Snicker.

   I think I am changing. I used to spoil for a fight and can sucker punch with the best of them, but I am finding the older I get, the less I enjoy the battle and would rather just let it pass me by…unless it’s a full moon because I go batshit crazy when they come around.

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