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May
7

30 Year Old Man Craves For Love: Astrology-Based Advice

Dear Elsa,

Many people think single men don’t crave love. On the surface, people all think I have it all: a swinging bachelor with a good career and a loving family. The truth is, I need love, to find the woman who feels the way I do. So far, there’s only one relationship that I went on for about two years, in which I was cheated on eventually. I just don’t seem capable of meeting someone who will treat me seriously.

Those that I fall for take me for granted. Many woman tell me I am kind, attentive and loving but none would really want to love me. In the end, I feel resigned to staying single for the rest of my life.

Disenchanted Man
Singapore

saturn old man Dear Disenchanted,

Although you did not specifically say so, I am going assume you want advice on how to solve your problem - and if not, there are plenty out their who do so I am going to address this non-question.

Per the astrology model, when you are 30 years old (post your Saturn return) you are considered to be completely grown-up and responsible for every aspect of your life. As an adult, you are no longer able to blame others for your problems such as your parents who mistreated you or whatever.

This does not mean your parents did not mistreat you. It simply means whatever the result or inheritance of that is, it is now your problem and your problem alone to solve.

I feel your challenge in relationship falls into this same category. You have a pattern here, it is your pattern and your problem which you may or may not address. If you do address it, you can expect things to be different; if you do not, you can expect things to be the same. But the idea you are a victim of this life is never ever going to get you anywhere and unfortunately with Neptune tied up with Venus, you do have this tendency.

Bottom line is this: sober up and get to work on your negative patterns in relationship or expect to continue to feel “divine discontent” for the rest of your life.

Good luck.

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