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1 Minute Astrology - People Who Want To Marry You When They Don’t Even Like You - I Hate That!
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I’m a control freak magnet! This is what happens when you have Uranus in the 7th (love at first sight) and Venus square Neptune (Delusion!!).
Er… excuse my fervor but I just don’t like suntan pantyhose and that is all there is to it!
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Elsa,
This video is one of the most powerful posts any healthy human could make, especially in these days of wishy washy new agey sheep mentality.
The smiling depressives are surely threatened by people with your passion. You Go, Gold Hat!
does pluto transit 12th figure here?
“Why don’t you find somebody you like and leave me the hell alone?”
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nail on the head, Elsa.
“Suntan pantyhose”?!?!?!??!!!! LOL!!!!!
LOL this is so good!
What a mess in those guys’ heads and all because of you
Well, I was raised by two Gemini and I was always able to speak my mind. Yet, I can see myself trying to adjust to what somebody else would want me to be, as sad as it feels to say it. I wouldn’t change if they told me to, but I’d try if I felt that’s what they wanted. I still have a lot to grow on these issues obviously.
Rationally I find it ridiculous and even impossible. It’s similar to the “not that into you” situation. Those men needed to understand that you were not what they idealized and move on to a more appropriate situation.
“does pluto transit 12th figure here?”
4tuna - I don’t think so. I have been this pissed off about this for many years… like a dozen or maybe 15. That little rant is yet the tip of the iceberg what I have to say on this subject!
I don’t shave my legs in the winter because what’s the point? I wear pants and I don’t have a significant other. However, you’d never believe how many people get deeply offended by this! Like, “WHAT? Gross?! Why don’t you shave your legs!? You should shave your legs!” Well, no I don’t want to. Their my legs, you can’t even see them so what’s the hang up. I don’t get why women have such issues with body hair, it’s like a moral issue for most of them, especially other people’s. lol.
Yaaay!!! Way to go, Elsa!!
As someone with Uranus in the 7th & trine both Sun & Moon, I have spent my life insisting on being me. Having lots of Libra, I was more polite about it but am extremely stubborn. Like spending a year at college in a program my mom pushed, proving I could do it, then returning to what I wanted to do in the first place, ignoring the protests.
Question, if you don’t mind, Elsa (and everyone else):
You talked about the 7th house and projection a few weeks ago. And the 7th house also reflects what people project on us?
hitchhiker - No I don’t think so. See what others say though.
Oh, sorry, I misunderstood. I saw ‘Uranus in the 7th House’, missed ‘Venus square Neptune (Delusion!!)’.
I guess the control freak’s controlling tendencies would show in his/her chart then. But that doesn’t explain why they are drawn to you… rather than project their delusions on someone else? (Maybe they do?)
This made me laugh out loud. I love the things you come out with. “Why don’t you find somebody you like and leave me the hell alone?”… great stuff, Elsa!
Any man who is vocally pro-suntan-pantyhose is going to be a gigantic bummer in a matter of weeks if not days. Run don’t walk. Same with any guy who cares about someone shaving her legs more than having fun at dinner w/her. God! As if any of us have enough time to worry about this kind of stuff.
I love this video!
This video is so funny & inspiring–I like that makes the idea of plasticizing oneself clearly as stupid & ridiculous as it actually is. Thank you.
i want a gold hat.
I had to get rid of that hat about 13 years ago and I am still somewhat sad about it… along with this one pair of boots I thought I was too mature for.
::laughs::
I was so wrong about that.
this really hits home to my venus/neptune “they don’t want to let go of the fantasy of who i might be if only i wasn’t me”
i’m still working my head around realizing that the fact i wasn’t *whoever they thought i was* doesn’t mean there was something wrong with me (that i wouldn’t change, sorry.)
anyway. the point packs a punch. thanks.
Woooohoooo! That was great!!!
Preach it!
When I was young, I married a guy who, I found out three months into the marriage, wanted a sweet petite blonde wife with a tiny little ass. Guess what? I’m tall, built like an Amazon, had flaming red hair at the time, and my moneymaker gives you two hands full and change. Nor am I all that sweet at times. Why did this man marry me?? Was it Uranus in the 7th? We spent a year in couples therapy and the therapist never once addressed that he was trying to change me into something I wasn’t. She framed it into objectification, sex addiction, etc., and dragged it out for ages. I fixed it myself and walked.
So here’s to the gold hat gals. Elsa got her man and so can we.
Love it! This Aries rising and Leo Sun/Mars never believed in toning down who she was for anyone.
I’ve had the same problem over the years, and I suspect it’s the projecting as well. These guys see the Libra DSC (I also have three planets in Libra, including the Moon), and think I’m this sweet, quiet, well-spoken thing. I am that, but it’s only one part of me. A lot of them were like, “Where did this feistiness come from?” when they got to know me. I always said, if you don’t like it, walk. Saved me a lot of grief.
That’s hilarious, Elsa! Sounds like a dangerous placement!
Charlotte, hah. I used to be embarrassed in 6th grade that I didn’t shave my legs. I am so puzzled by American attitudes about non-hirsuteness and body image. Particularly (thank god you can say “taboo” things on this blog) the debate about shaving one’s private parts.
My Aquarius mom tells me people are different/you can’t change anyone or rather don’t place anyone on the Procrustian bed all the time, but it hasn’t been drilled into me yet. I feel like I should be annoyed by it.
I’m annoyed like crazy with my Aquarian friend who got mad when I used the word “don’t” in this context: “Don’t tell this secret to anybody else.” She asked me if I think friends should be obedient like dogs. It’s idiotic to rebel for no reason. I said that because she would betray me if she didn’t. I’m not the man, she gains nothing by sticking it to me. Grr, sometimes Uranian attitudes can be extreme to the point of stupidity. To the point when my friend is no longer on my team.
At the same time, I get pissed when someone is limited by authority figures. Particularly when parents make a child be something out of vanity or “knowing what’s best for them” and they just meekly go along.
‘If you don’t like me, go away and leave me alone’?
Lord, the number of times I’ve said that.
max
[’But I have Uranus in the 11th, natch.’]
AVERY:
I’m tall, built like an Amazon, had flaming red hair at the time, and my moneymaker gives you two hands full and change.
^^^^ I LOVED YOUR POST! I LOOK THE WAY YOU DESCRIBE BUT I DON’T HAVE RED HAIR. LOVED THE MONEYMAKER COMMENT. BRILLIANT
As for me, men ALWAYS want to change me but I don’t know where I can find this in my chart. I was brought up with negative critical parents so, unfortunately, have always caved into these pressures. Probably explains why I end up horribly depressed in nearly every relationship I’ve been in!!!
This never happens to me…probably because if anyone tries to put their two bits in about ‘what I should be’ I resist resist resist…I resist by leaving. In about 2 seconds flat.
To quote Mr T…pity the fool. (Taurus Sun opposed Uranus MC)
Oh yeah, and lest I forget: my SO is exactly the same: we both hate being told what to do. So here is the key, no? Find yourself a maverick?
Krista, maybe it could be a lot of second house action in a chart, issues about self worth — which I thnk can heal just by hanging out on Elsa’s blog, a self esteem oasis.
I don’t think that first guy really saw Yellow and purple Elsa. He saw his suntan panty hose fantasy and something in him assumed you would play that out for him. It interesting with Neptune on the angle with Venus aspect. I know one lovely lady with Neptune (in scorpio) on the ascendant and Venus in tenth.
Whenever she went to a restaurant the waitress always got her order incorrect. She gave up just accepting the wrong meal and instead of eating it, she sent it back. In fact she eventually would make a point to the waiter about her order, you know, looked him in the eye in the here and now. It seems that unless she clinked a glass or clapped her hands before ordering the waiter would be off in narna narna land with his or her fantasy, like being in a different reality. Interesting stuff indeed.
kingsley
Elsa,
One of your best contributions yet in my view. Still, I often wear suntan pantyhose, mainly on my head when I go to the bank…
;o))
Paul
Paul - LMAO. I saw you there and had a crush.
Elsa,
LOL! You wouldn’t without them, trust me…
:o)))
Paul
I am sure you’re right, Paul. No offense but it’s the quirky bastard I’m after.
Elsa this was fantastic! I havent had a chance to watch all the videos yet so Im catching up but this had me in stitches. And I loved how you said everything in this video so passionately and loud.
“Why dont you find someone you like and leave me the hell alone”
This one is a classic. Im totally showing this to video to mum, shes going to get a crack outta this.
ROFL. I rarely laugh out loud when I am doing blogs, but this did it. The thing about the lady not being dead was funny, but this one got the laugh out loud.