1 Minute Astrology - Elsa P On Synastry: The Main Techniques? They Work But Not Really!

9 Responses to “1 Minute Astrology - Elsa P On Synastry: The Main Techniques? They Work But Not Really!”

1. midara says on 4/14/08 at 1:41 pm:
   

   Oh, thank goodness someone is addressing this. My fiance nearly had a heart attack when he saw that most of the planets in our composite are involved in a big fat grand cross, and Pluto and Saturn are involved on top on that. But hey, we’re together, right? And obviously happy, so why worry? Yes, our relationship is Plutonian, but that gives us deep connection. Yes, Saturn makes hard aspects, but at least that means we’re committed. And sometimes the challenge it what brings us closer.

2. isabelle says on 4/14/08 at 2:13 pm:
   

   well I totally agree, the best looking synastry won’t matter if the individuals are immature! Also, at least a few challenging synastry aspects are needed for action to take place: hard aspects offer growth and are stimulating. (just like natal with tons of flowing aspects /potential but wont much be actuated.)

   On the other hand, really challenging composite are red flags, and explain unlikely turns of how the relationship will express. Everything else being equal, if for example saturn opposes both uranus and pluto, and all 3 have no other aspects to personal planets- that’s it, no ways out, no other routing available, you can bet that the tension will generate enough frustration and disruption that such relationship at best will not stick.

3. joana says on 4/14/08 at 2:16 pm:
   

   I couldn’t agree more.
   Even the other day I was saying to Neith how having good synastry doesn’t function as a magic potion, nor does it bring people together.
   On the other hand, having what appears to be difficult aspects can be worked on.

   But there are some amazing synastry things that I’ve seen in charts too so I wouldn’t discard it altogether.
   Overall I find that having lots of aspects, good or bad, is usually found between people who have a serious relationship.

4. Neith says on 4/14/08 at 2:24 pm:
   

   Yup, good starting point! Looking forward to more from you on this topic.

   There are so many layers to determining compatibility between people and I still have to say it starts with the individual. If someone doesn’t have a good relationship with themselves, there is little chance they will be able to have a good one with anyone else . . .

5. Lynn says on 4/14/08 at 3:16 pm:
   

   My husband and I have been married almost 25 years. We have the text book relationship. His moon conjunct sun, his ascendant conjunct my sun, we both have mars and mercury conjunct, our venuses trine etc etc. Works for us! He makes me feel like a phoenix rising from the ashes each morning he brings me a cup of tea in bed! Ahhh that’s love!

6. wyrdling says on 4/14/08 at 5:12 pm:
   

   thanks. i’ve been trying not to freak because of an exact cancer/aries solar square -i’ve got lots of practice being gentle with cancers anyway so i shouldn’t freak out, and that particular cancer is conjunct my vesta so it’s more like…. well, hard aspects either make a person strong or they fall apart, depending on how they respond to them. i would think a similar dynamic would work in relationship. only it’s generally less catastrophic when a relationship falls apart. generally.

   my parents have a pair of sun/moon conjunctions in gemini/leo between them. my grandparents’ suns were (loosely) square each other. guess which marriage is the one that actually gave me faith in the possibility that “love” could be real? (it’s not the easy aspected one….)

7. wyrdling says on 4/14/08 at 5:19 pm:
   

   (and sometimes you need to fall apart to be strong. i think it depends more on how you put yourself back together, a process i think just as useful in relationship as to the individual….) (well, so says my eighth house, i think.)

8. Kharma says on 4/14/08 at 9:58 pm:
   

   Thank you for addressing this Elsa. I’ve been in a quandry for a time now regarding two good guys and with one I’ve excellent “charts” with but with the other a tad frightening composite. Yet, he’s the one which I feel a deeper yearning for but am afraid to fully commit myself to for fear of being hurt and losing the devotion/dedication of the other man whom I have a deep affection to. Part of me wonders if the composites will play out more as time moves on and that if I should seriously consider fully committing to the “good” composite chart guy. Of course I then frustrate myself for letting chart calculations influence possible future actions on the part of myself. Dunno, I guess I’m just pretty confused … sigh

9. Skye says on 4/15/08 at 8:26 am:
   

   Oh Yay Elsa! When I saw the title of this video my heart just did a little jump…Im so excited about this series. I just cant get enough of learning about this subject. Im insatisble says the 8th house Pluto conjunct Venus in Libra.

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