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Capricorn Man Eyes Scorpio Woman Sending Mixed Messages: Astrology-Based Advice
Dear Elsa,
I guess being a Capricorn male, it has taken me a while to get over my break up (over 4 years). But now I have set my eyes on a Scorpio women (yes, like a moth to the flame). And being a cautious Capricorn, I don’t want to move too fast and show my hand.
I have known this women for over 8 years (she is recently divorced too). I have always fancied her, but we have both been unavailable. I have suggested that we go out, she always seem to shrug me off. But when I see her (I only see her when she is at work), we always have a good connection. As soon as I feel like I should forget about her, she will drop a hint. She recently gave me her phone number, but when I call her she is always busy. But she seem to always dangle the carrot in front of me.
Is this a typical Scorpio playing hard to get? Is this the game you need to play to get a Scorpio women?
Capricorn Man
Untied States
Dear Capricorn,
It may interest you to know that you have your Moon and Venus, Mars and Jupiter in Scorpio. This combined with the fact your Sun is in the Scorpio-ruled eighth house would indicate that rather than being “Capricorn”, you are predominantly Scorpio yourself. So if you want to know games Scorpio plays, well, you’re very qualified to answer the question yourself.
As to your situation, you and I have similar energy and I don’t favor games in relationship at all. So I would be trying to close this deal and I would do it in a “balls to the wall” type fashion.
On the extreme ends, you have two choices. You either withdraw completely and see if she comes to you (very likely) or you hunt her with your pure intensity, which may also bring a good result.
What you don’t do is project all the desirability onto her, which is where you are failing. See, all your Scorpio is in the seventh house and you think she’s the sexy one - but in reality it’s you. You’ve got the cards, you’re just playing them wring and it may take you awhile to figure this out but I am telling you, I am right.
Good luck.
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So scorpio in the 7th = sexy?
Rox - not my point, really. The 7th house gets projected and this guy has all this Scorpio of his own (in the 7th) and believes himself lowly Capricorn up against this dynamo when I bet he has more energy than she does.. or at least the equivalent. If he were to own and become aware of this, I suspect he could have most anyone he wants including woman in question.
Ahh yes, I did get that from it.. I was just interested in the connection between the 7th (and scorpio in it) and coming across as sexy. I guess scorpio just about anywhere would have that effect though - death/taxes/sex
If she doesn’t want him, tell him this Scorpio rising, Cappy Moon would LOVE to check him out.
Ha ha ha, Togi sniffin’ around and can smell same thing I can, LOL.
Hee! We love men around here, at least some of us do!!
Damn straight. He sounds delicious. Come to mama big stinger boy.
I’ll take a piece of him after you’re done, Togi. Nothing I <3 more than Cap men with a lot of Scorp.
Not to make you feel like a piece of meat, there, Cap Man.
I think it’s that we all know he’s been in desert for awhile. Nothing like built up pheromones!
HA HA HA! You gals are freaking hilarious!
I was the one who post post. I did ask her out He responce was “that would be great…..i will call you someday”
I got the feeling she was blowing me off. But 2 weeks later she called me and we have a date next week,
sweeeeet! take it from a gal with a man with significant amounts of Capricorn and Scorpio: you’re energy is like gold fairy dust for some (as if the above comments didn’t attest to that already
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