hitchhiker22 asks regarding the men I attract… People Who Want To Marry You When They Don’t Even Like You:

“But that doesn’t explain why they are drawn to you… rather than project their delusions on someone else? (Maybe they do?)”

hitchhiker72 - They are attracted to Venus square Neptune on the midheaven. They can make up whatever they want about me and Uranus in the 7th really does make people want to marry you within minutes.

The combo is profound. Venus in Leo, I am cast in the “wife” role in literally seconds and then I show up at dinner talking loud, my voice carrying across the room and they try to contain it. They try to push me back into whatever their fantasy is and of course I don’t know (or care) what their fantasy is because I have my own agenda which is generally to have all the fun I can and hopefully sex too.

And that is who I AM. But they don’t want me to be who I am. They want me to be the Mexican maid or soft-spoken “ethnic” earth mother who lowers her eyes or some other such thing, I don’t know.

In the case of them man mentioned in the video, he liked me just fine for awhile. He had an Aquarius Moon! But he was the guy whose family called me a “nigger” and after that, well at that point he wanted me to conform.

“Can’t you be like everyone else” meant, ‘Can’t you be like my family?” I finally had to tell him I was not blond. I also told him he should have noticed this before we got married and once this was understood, I was out of there.

Now do they project onto others? No doubt! I just happen to be an extremely handy object and the control kicks in when the fantasy starts slipping away.

See, these men all think they’ve met the woman of their dreams but I wind up being a disaster. It’s all fine as long as I sit still and smile but once I start talking, forget about it. Because what is the first thing I am going to say?

“I am an astrologer.”

Ha ha ha. “Why can’t you have a normal job? Something I can get by my family?” This is the lament. “You’d be great if only you weren’t you that is.”

It goes downhill from there because I talk quite a bit and the more I talk the more disastrous I become.

Having Capricorn you can imagine the feelings of rejection, they are intense. But all of this is unavoidable because I’ve no way to wake up anything being anything other than exactly what I am so lets just all be happy that I found someone who can stand me. It’s a relief, I’ll tell ya.