Astrology And Love: Dating Aries…. Venus in Aries

18 Responses to “Astrology And Love: Dating Aries…. Venus in Aries”

1. Dina says on 2/19/08 at 8:51 am:
   

   Hahahahaha! With Gemini, it’s similar. You have to keep talking and pulling back once they think they have you. Or they won’t want you.

2. kashmiri says on 2/19/08 at 8:52 am:
   

   Yes, I can relate…not in the same way (I don’t mind who talks to my SO) but in the same way!
   The thing is…I rarely RARELY entertain the idea, but I never feel challenged/vibe-y from outsiders in this way. Perhaps my innate knowledge that I’d take them out if the time came, so why worry about it? LOL

   I rarely take shit from anyone and have always felt like I wasn’t obliged to. If I have, I am acutely aware of it, and it can give me a weird sense of ‘playing my hand’ when that happens.

   Venus/Mars conjunct Aries opposed Pluto

3. joana says on 2/19/08 at 9:22 am:
   

   Yes! I know I can relate when I find that story sexy. hhehe

   I have Aries rising and Moon and also Venus in Scorpio so…let the games begin (meaning War)!

4. ewinbee says on 2/19/08 at 10:20 am:
   

   Dina: I so wish that weren’t true. *thud* My problem so far seems to be that the only people who pull back from me are the ones who genuinely want to get away from me.

5. Neith says on 2/19/08 at 12:14 pm:
   

   This post cracked me up because my Libra self has been happily married to an Aries Sun/Moon/Rising for over 17 yrs and he’s never shown the slightest inclination to wander . . . ever! May have something to do with me having Mars/Mercury conjunct my ASC in Scorpio. He knows on some basic level if he pushed, I’d walk. We very rarely argue either - it’s sorta weird actually.

6. Stephanie says on 2/19/08 at 12:16 pm:
   

   Yes! I totally know this feeling, but I have an earth grand trine and Saturn on my Aries Venus, so I’ve got weird issues about acting on it. I’d probably refrain from winging the chair b/c I don’t like behaving too impulsively, but I’d think about it, and he’d definitely catch shit for the flirting. Mars and Venus are in mutual reception in my chart, so I maintain a nice balance of love and war.

   Boredom is the eternal enemy, however.

7. Grace says on 2/19/08 at 6:06 pm:
   

   I’d brag on her too. Does she have a sis- oh, right. Never mind.

8. Elsa says on 2/19/08 at 6:18 pm:
   

   Grace - ::snort::

9. wyrdling says on 2/19/08 at 6:26 pm:
   

   i can’t respect someone who won’t push back. sometimes i wish i could. hard to find a “nice” guy who will.
   but they exist.

10. june says on 2/19/08 at 9:29 pm:
    

    haha, reminds of something that happened today. When I come home from being away all day, I like to go around the house and spend time with my animals, make sure they still know I’m here to make their lives interesting. Today they were all sitting in one room, so I decided to just make a huge, unexpected noise to get everyone’s attention. Everyone (including the person in the room) jumped and looked at me like I was about to express my desire for mass murder… except one of my cats who initially looked shocked, but quickly changed expression to where it looked like he was just about to burst with happiness. He’s an Aries, I’m a mars-conjunct-ascendant… We get along.

11. Ana says on 2/19/08 at 11:31 pm:
    

    hahaaa…yes definitely. Challenge draws me in each and every time. Love being challenged. But I don’t like being over-challenged…there has to be some give to it or else I get discouraged and stop trying. And I do love a good fight too, it gets me hot (and connected?!) for some reason. You don’t know someone until you’ve seen how they fight, how they act at fever pitch.

    I’ve never thrown anything at anyone before though…my capricorn moon would object to that. But I do love verbal sparring, or so says my gemini rising

12. Ana says on 2/19/08 at 11:55 pm:
    

    Funny though, I just realized that only those really close to me ever see this side of me. I don’t show my Aries in public, or to those who I don’t know well. Usually afraid they’ll take it the wrong way! Especially around men. I’m friendly/happy when they first meet me (gemini), distant/cool when they get interested (capricorn), giving and nice when I’m interested in return (Libra/neptune), and a challenge when I’m comfortable and know he cares (aries). Brings out my t-square, and the sun/mars/venus conjunct in aries comes out to shine after the cappy moon feels secure. Lol, I only challenge a guy when I know he won’t get scared and run away. Otherwise, I prefer to be the one challenged!

13. Z says on 2/20/08 at 7:51 am:
    

    I have venus in aries and its true in the first flungs of love i am pretty ardent, you are my world and nothing comes before that. Its a few years in that i get restless (in my youth it was weeks) and if things get too stale i start acting up, often without even realising. At the start of r’ships i am the pursuer and you are the challenge. At some point it flips and if i’m getting bored i switch off. Then they either get bored too and leave or they become the pursuer and i am the challenge. My venus in scorp partner is a challenge cos scorp keeps himself to himself and that challenges my arien openess. Both being mars ruled venus’ we fight alot, its almost like we get a kick out of it, fulfils a need of some kind. Luckily we’re both very loving too so we’ll fight til we cant stand to be in the same room then 5mins later it’s blown over and we’re back to normal. We’re both too reserved to ever do this in front of others. If he was chatting to someone too long, he’d know about it..but later, grr. If it happened again & again then thats a challenge too far and i’d see that as a sign he’s bored so i’d probably show him the door. Venus in aries wants to be the one and only, first on the list in your heart (love me me me), mock that at your peril.

14. nycgirl says on 2/20/08 at 8:08 am:
    

    Venus in Aries here, too (not to mention Mars and Moon in Sagitt). And all I can say is: Yes, yes, yes. I also have lots of earth, though (and progressed Ascendant of Libra), so at some point *I* am the one it all becomes too much for..

15. Alma says on 2/20/08 at 9:00 am:
    

    Z - yes, that sounds like Aries to me. Ardent is a great description for Aries. I have Aries moon/jupiter in the 7th, and I act exactly like you described. The chase, the challenge, getting bored and stirring things up……

16. Alma says on 2/20/08 at 9:01 am:
    

    Moon in aries want to be first and best.

17. seekingzen says on 2/20/08 at 12:06 pm:
    

    I’ve always loved that story! And I agree completely with all but one thing… I insist on total devotion and leave when it isn’t given. (Aries Sun, Merc, and Venus here.) But I want to be challenged, too. Lucky me, I’ve got an Aries man who can keep me on my toes while making me feel loved and adored!

18. satori says on 3/5/08 at 10:41 am:
    

    yeah, I have aries venus and I threw a steel tipped dart at a guy. well, I threw it at the dartboard next to his head. I also threw a beer bottle at his crotch (from across the room). luckily for him he was already holding another beer bottle there. pretty dramatic tho.

    I’ve mellowed in my old age. now it’s just metaphorical darts/beer bottles.

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