Dear Teenager,

Reading your story and looking at the five planets in Capricorn and the Moon in your chart I am going to assume you’ve had a very rough start in this life and I have a lot of empathy for you.

Now you sound like a kind and responsible person. You don’t want to hurt your husband but on the other hand I don’t think it is fair you be held to a life decision you made when you were 14 years old.

And you are probably afraid as well. Afraid of everything, that is which is okay. It is normal. I know I would be scared to death if I were you. If you do this, then that. If you do that, then this. However the universe is forcing your hand.

The universe is forcing your hand in the form of a Pluto transit to your Venus in Capricorn. This transit virtually guarantees change in your relationship status so I would do what Capricorn does best… plan and execute slowly.

If you are afraid to talk to your husband today, then don’t talk to him today. Start by committing to talk to him as soon as you get your nerve up and then look at what steps you can take each day that will move you closer to where you want to be.

For example, how will you support yourself (and your child / children if you have them)? If you need training, get it. I am thinking if you start taking the steps like this, you will in effect be committing to your eventual independence and considering you are a Sagittarian, eventually you will blurt the truth to your husband in a way that is natural.

For what it is worth, I have a lot of faith in you. Although you have and had had a very hard row I am sure you will land on your feet and I promise you life will get sweeter as you go.

Much love and good luck.

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