Isn’t that the basic premise of astrology?

but a lot of it depends on hw you choose to “do your job” there’s positive an negative expressions and i think we have the choice in how we express the energy we’re given.

I strongly believe in having a lot in life, as you describe, for the same reasons as you describe. The hair is not suddenly going to turn red, for example. I think, the sky has limits, and I’m generally called a negative sour-ass for it. I believe it is because people mix it up with the lack of wanting to invest hard work in something, but I also attribute it to an enormously sheltered life in the West. There really are no real limits to the mostly young people, I have gotten criticism from. They are in their 30ies now, and I can see a split between those, who still have no family obligations, and who went into the working market without any problems, and then those, who came to this Earth with physical limitations, which break out now and those who have families and mortgages. The latter group does see, what I mean. The other group are either Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, or they will understand when they hit their 40, and suddenly they can’t act 17 anymore.

I have the Sun in Fifth House. And I think, the best way to make oneself a splendid person is to reach the sky within the set limits. For example, to wear clothes and make-up to bring that black hair out to its fullest potential, to stay with your example. I also believe, most people _can_ reach the sky within their limits, which is, where the work is to be invested.

But as a Moon in 12 house, I also know, that there are a few, who have been given such a hard lot, that it almost resembles a cosmic birth defect of sorts, and they need all the help and compassion for their situation, they can get.

This reminds me of something you wrote a little while ago. You said that your natal chart gives you potential energies that you choose whether you want to utilize or direct in some way. You manipulate what you’re born with to achieve what you think your lot in life is.

I believe less in the idea that no one has a calling than the opposite. I think that people are equipped to do certain things and choose whether or not to do them. Then again, I think I have a lot in life. And that’s not dying young. Because of this, I’m more chilled out and less scared of dying at this time. I also believe that I’m going to fall in love once and for good. This is why I’m not that worried about finding a mate in the future like some girls are. Especially the kind that come from a culture where you marry early.
The most minimal conception of a lot in life helps you live without being afraid to die every second of the day.