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Her Boyfriend Says He Is Confused - Pluto Transit: Astrology-Based Advice
Dear Elsa,
My boyfriend and I are taking time apart because he’s confused. He’s not sure if he’s in love with me and wants to get married. He loves me more than a friend. He wants me in his life always but I told him if you decide that you aren’t in love with me and don’t want to be with me again, then we would have to cut off all contact. I love him very much.
He does tell me he loves me back and misses me but that’s not what the time apart is about. He’s very confused and for the past 2 months, we haven’t had sex. It’s only been a few days since we’re are taking time apart but I am miserable without him
Double Libra
United States
Dear Libra,
I am very sorry you are hurting but I don’t think this man is confused and I can’t imagine he is coming back. What he is doing cutting you off and waiting for you to figure it out. He may be telling himself he does not want to hurt you but his game is cruel - and I strongly suggest you not only stop waiting on him and his supposed confusion, but that you cut all contact so you can cry your tears and begin to heal.
As for the astrology, you have five planets in Libra and besides your Saturn return coming up, you are facing a Pluto transit that will last for the next 15 years. Translated, you are heading into a very demanding time where losses like this will become a way of life. It is very important you learn to let go of what is not viable (what is dead) and this relationship is an introduction to this. In other words, your relationship with this guy is over. What you have is a corpse so walk away and pay attention when you do. Force yourself to be conscious of what you are doing (choosing to leave the dead thing) - This will help you.
Again, I am very sorry. Much love and good luck.
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