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Cancer Woman Getting Divorced And Has A Flighty Gemini Boyfriend: Astrology-Based Advice

Dear Elsa,

For the last few months I have become involved with a Gemini. We get along fantastic but we are both in the middle of other things. I am in the middle of a divorce and he says he is in a “shaky” relationship and doesn’t know which way it is going. But he very much wants me to be a part of his life… which is questionable to me, being that I sometimes can go a week and a half and hear nothing from him, and then he calls like he just saw me yesterday.

I don’t understand the flightiness. It makes no sense to me - but when we are together it seems so comfortable and easy. I am hoping for a future with him but I have read so many “Bad” things about Gemini I was wondering if I would be smarter to bail now while I have some wits about me or trust this man - I have major trust issues.

Cancer Stellium
United States

cancer Dear Stellium,

It makes no sense to you that your boyfriend who had another girlfriend is not around all that much? Well it makes nothing but sense to me. He’s with the other woman!

I would definitely recommend you bail but not because of anything he is doing. Bail because you are 45 years old, not yet divorced, have self-proclaimed trust issues and you are possibly dating someone else’s man 0 - who it seems can ultimately do nothing but give you even more “trust issues”.

I am sorry to be blunt, but it doesn’t sound as if you are ready for a new relationship in any way, shape or form. Shouldn’t you take a minute, a week, a month, or a year to ponder what went on in your marriage and what might be the root cause of your “trust issues”?

I would not make this kind of judgment if you were involved in something that seemed even remotely reasonable but dating another woman’s man and calling him “flighty” because he is not around smacks of someone profoundly confused. I think your best bet is to stop what you are doing and face the real thing you are doing - getting divorced. And the astrology?

Saturn is transiting your natal Pluto. Time to learn just exactly what is driving you.

Good luck.

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Advice, Astrology, Divorce, Astrology, | Posted at 4:14 am

2 Responses to “Cancer Woman Getting Divorced And Has A Flighty Gemini Boyfriend: Astrology-Based Advice”

dreamsAreality

And even if you were both in the ‘ready’ position, I don’t think most Gemini’s would give a Cancer Stellium the kind of indepth feedback that you need. Of the ones I’ve dealt with they just don’t get the NEED we water signs have to go deep. If it isn’t going to be all surface and lightness of being, they will most likely skip off REGULARLY to where no one asks them to perform deep sea emotional diving.

11/19/07 @ 8:14 am (reply)

moonpluto

I partially agree with you Dreams - but if a gemini has a venus in cancer (hopefully well-aspected), that’s a nice combo. The light fun essence with the deep sea diving love nature. And imagine that with a sweet taurus moon. I’m building a man! LOL

My ex, on the other hand, was cancer sun with venus in gemini and mars in aries. Mars in aries and mars in cancer (mine) are a strange combination. But I digress…..

Perfect advice given here: reality check but also warm.

6/9/09 @ 6:56 am (reply)

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