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A Triple Pisces I Don’t Know Anymore: Pluto Conjunct Uranus In Virgo
Astrology in real life
Shaina writes on the Scorpio Strikes, Itty Bitty blog:
“Oh, do I know someone like this? OUI. My boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend is president of the fencing club. It is unbelievable how she can be cutting, rude, spiteful, and not understand how her actions affect the people around her. She is a Cancer sun with a Pisces moon, a Venus in Gemini and a Merc in Leo, a combination of energies which I have noticed can lead to bullying…”
Shaina, I get it. There are people who are supposed to be compassionate but are anything but and this reminds me of a story. I once knew this gal, she was a triple Pisces and she was a friend of mine. She worked in the healing arts and she was enormously kind and helpful to me. She was kind and helpful to all kinds of people, however she treated her boyfriend terribly.
Now her boyfriend was an extremely nice man who treated her like a queen. They were both kind, they’d been together awhile but when he wasn’t around she’d tell me stories.
The first one I recall… well this poor bastard had gone to the grocery store to get her some toilet paper and come back with 1-ply. “1-ply! Is he an idiot? How stupid can he be?”
She went on to tell me how she beat this guy up for 40 minutes over his incredible phenomonal stupidity. She was quite sure it was not possible to be any dumber and I stood there and listened to her feeling befuddled.
End of her rant, I questioned her. I had to. She was a friend of mine and I don’t hide the type of emotions I was having from my friends.
“Don’t you think you might have overreacted?” I asked. “Jeez man. The guy isn’t used to shopping. He went in and grabbed the first thing he saw, comes home and it’s world war III. I can’t believe you berated him like that. Would you have done that to me? If you did, I’d tell you to kiss my ass!”
Well she started crying. Crying hard. And she completely got it. She said she considered herself a compassionate person and she specifically said this was true to the extreme. “Elsa, I can forgive and feel compassion for a child molester on death row,” she said. ‘And then look what I do. I go crazy over toilet paper….”
So that was that, except she did not quit. She continued to come to my house and tell me how lousy her man was… how stupid and lowly he was. The guy was just a fuck-up is all. He was a piece of crap, he was a simpleton where she? Well she was a Pisces!
Being me, I gently tried to tell her I thought was was at it again. Gently because if I see you get something once and then go into denial, well another thump on the head is not going to do it. And though I was becomming sickened by how she treated this guy, once committed I try very hard to hang in with my friends. Very hard. But then came the last time..
It was Christmas and like I said, this gal had all kinds of friends. She was enormously popular and she came by to tell me that her Christmas tree was overflowing with gifts from all the people who love her. Family, friends. They are all so generous.
“Yeah?” I said. “That’s cool.”
“Yeah. I have at least 20 presents,” she said gleefully. I will probably have 30 by the time Christmas comes. It’s only December 15th. I may even have 40 or 50 presents the way it’s going, but Kevin (her boyfriend)? He doesn’t have much. All he’s getting is the two things I got for him.
“What?”
“Yeah, he doesn’t have friends like I do and he comes from a broken family. He has no family, they don’t love him so that’s it. All he gets is what I give him and he’s lucky to get that. If it wasn’t for me he wouldn’t get anything for Christmas!” she said brightly.
“Whaaaaat? You’re going to sit in front of your boyfriend and open 30 or 50 presents from your friends and family while he does what? Watches you?”
“Well yeah. I have people who love me. He doesn’t so…”
I never saw her again. I specifically told her there was no way I could look her in the face considering how she treated this guy. “I just can’t stomach it,” I said. She was stunned.
“But I’m a nice person,” she said.
“Not to him.”
This was about 14 years ago. This gal had the Pluto Uranus conjunction in Virgo on the 7th house cusp opposite her Sun and Moon, Rising in Pisces and she stands to this day as the most stunning example of a projected shadow I have ever come across.
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17 Responses to “A Triple Pisces I Don’t Know Anymore: Pluto Conjunct Uranus In Virgo”
My pisces friends and SO can cut me to my core. And if I defend myself, I’m ‘arguing’. I’ve been questing astrology lately….I’m in that ‘know enough/not how to apply it’ stage in astro learning. So I don’t know anymore either.
Best to all.
-leo gal
Finally!! Proof that being Piscean doesn’t guarantee niceness!!
More proof:If ever someone made me feel victimized, dejected and mistreated, that was a guy with pluto cj uranus cj mars in house 6 Leo, opposed to a stelium in house 12 pisces:Sun chiron venus saturn altogether.
He certainly was not very nice…
Lord… I probably would have had to physically restrain myself from bonking that triple Pisces on the head.
Speaking of “projecting the shadow,” I just realized I have been doing that myself with Neptune opposing my descendant at the moment– I don’t know if you remember, Elsa, but early this year we did a phone consult about my Scorpio ex-fiance with all the Sagittarius. You were right… he’s been sleeping with other women while saying “oh, I still love you.”
So I’ve been bitter because my current boyfriend keeps trying to get me to be friends with this girl, his ex (they were affianced, too), and by being forced into the role of “man-thieving whore/new girlfriend” in the situation I’ve become fiercely resentful of everyone involved, with this situation salting my own still-fresh wound. And I sent out an email telling her, him, and her new boyfriend (my bf’s old best guy friend– what a tangle) that I was done with all of them… but he came back for me and thus begins the Neptune cycle anew…
This girl told him on Friday that so long as we were together they couldn’t be friends, and I’ve never seen a guy cry so hard. Now she’s sent me an email wanting to work it out between me and her, and at first all my Libra was so pleased… but I realized, no woman with that much water loses anything she thinks she possesses without wanting to take the “thief” down. That’s me, isn’t it?
I’ll be hiding out until Neptune shimmers off.
Gah! My Taurus brother is acting the doormat to his Pisces wife that is bullying him this way. Somehow she feels like she should publicly humiliate him in front of his family to show that she is the boss of him or something. It’s not the first time I’ve seen a Pisces being an asshole.
Triple Pisces You Don’t Know Anymore - What a douche bag!!!
Interesting. Are you kidding? Of course being a Pisces doesn’t guarantee “niceness.” I’m AMAZED to read this whole, “She’s a triple Pisces, and she was awful! I guess you never know!” thing from people who are so comfortable with astrology!
I’m a Pisces, and I can give you a long list of my own “not nice” flaws, as well as many examples of Pisces/strongly Piscean people who are beyond awful in lots of ways, including several serial killers. Jeez - Pisces can flake on people exactly when they’re most needed; undermine people who love them; be as sarcastic (and hurtful)as the day is long; play the victim even when it’s clearly not so; use people in their lives to do things for them that they “can’t” do themselves, or to prove how “good’ they themselves are… the list goes on & on.
On the other hand, you know what? Not all Scorpios are deep, spiritual, highly perceptive & wholly noble people, people who are “on to” every phony & whiner, etc. - and all the other stuff I endlessly read in this blog. Unbelievable, I know - but lots of Scorpios are harsh people who actually greatly enjoy judging others (even people they’ve never even met or talked to); insist on playing seemingly inexplicable games with people for years on end; take pleasure in seeing “certain” (or “certain sorts of”) people punished, and in freezing out the “unworthy,” and who are stubborn to the point of harming both themselves and others - even the people closest to them.
But - news flash- not all of them do. I’ve known Scorpios who are the most understanding, loyal and resourceful people I’ve ever met. Some Scorpios make everything around them better & more meaningful; many take people who are in terrible trouble and “champion” them when no one else bothers. I’ve known Scorpios who have changed the entire arc of a person’s (or group of persons, or a community’s)life/lives for the better. I know one who did just this and made it look like nothing - never took a drop of pride or accomplishment away from the group she helped - another instance of the good that Scorpio is capable of and that no other sign can do in the same way.
Above everything else that I’ve gotten from astrology has been learning that everybody has different strengths, weaknesses, values and tastes. I hate the insistence that only the vision of whomever I’m talking to, or reading -whatever - is right, and the assumption that this MUST be obvious to any right-thinking person. But that’s just my opinion.
Selkie - I am not sure if you are specifically referencing what I say when you say you read about stereotypes on my blog. In this case, it was the gal herself who went on and on about how compassionate she was… after all she was a triple Pisces. I was her shadow, see? I was the unevolved not-a-triple-Pisces who unfortunately could see her.
Anyway, I made a video about the negative stereotypes around Leo and have told many people who have written for advice they were being played by Scorpio and how they best disarm them.
Thing is, I write a lot and hardly anyone reads *everything* or could hope to retain it but due my style, people routinely read things that stick in their craw and whatever it is stuck there, I am going to be tagged.
I’m not saying you’ve done this because frankly I have no idea. I just want to defend the assertion that I stereotype the signs on the chance it was directed at me because it’s just not the case. I will call a piece of shit a piece of shit no matter what it’s sign is and I think people who read her regularly are well aware of this.
I am a sun moon rising piscies I also have venus in aries and mars and merc in aquarius. most in my first or twelth house. I am not at all nice, I speak my mind bluntly and too the point. I pay nor more attention to accolades than to detractions. I am excellent at communication and I am quick with a come back which is most often meant to be thought provoking unless my emotions become engaged at which point my reply will most likely be a cutting barb directed intuitively and correctly into the biggest insecurity or weakness you have unwittingly revealed to me. The one you most wanna hide perhaps even to yourself.
There is a myriad of reactions to this… slander campaigns, denial, aggressive verbal justification, keelhauling and burlesque. The point at the end of the day I am only responsible for myself and my reaction, my words, thoughts and actions. I do not give personal responsibility to others by blaming them for my character. Nor do I accept responsibility for them by accepting theirs.
I am extremely articulate and an avid listener, but if I don’t like you or the way you present yourself I will seek to get a reaction from you that will answer questions I have. Knowledge and assessment of your character to classify you as friend or foe and to see to what extent you play in either context.
I have sun mars mercury in pisces oppose pluto conjunct uranus in virgo. I also have moon in capricorn. I do not find pisces people to be truly compassionate or sensitive at all. Many are sensitive only to their own problems and if they do show concern for you it’s often only because they want to make sure you’re able to continue being there to commiserate with them. The only truly positive pisces people I know are the artsy, creative and slightly mad ones who’ve had the courage and financial acumen or luck to do what they most want to do—avoid the daily grind that most others call reality. It’s amazing how wonderful these folks can be when they’re being true to who they are. Trouble is, Neptune isn’t a weekday kind of energy and many under its vibration are unsure of how to turn life into a day at the amusement park.
”Gently because if I see you get something once and then go into denial, well another thump on the head is not going to do it.”
”“But I’m a nice person,” she said.”
Do you mean that if she paid more attention and admit her shadow side, then she could have changed it?
Hmm
”was her shadow, see? I was the unevolved not-a-triple-Pisces who unfortunately could see her.”
Because it was her shadow…
Do you mean that it was her blind spot? she couldnt really see how awfull she was to her boyfriend?
I am really sorry 
I am a bit confuse today and I am asking the wrong questions :))
“she couldnt really see how awfull she was to her boyfriend?”
yeah, she could see it intermittently and she felt awful when she did but then just went right back. Same as an alcoholic who knows (at least part of the time) that they are destroying their family but pours another drink.
Thank you Elsa! I am figuring out how the shadows work in real life
what a bitch that girl was. sorry, but that is just rude. don’t care how nice she was to thousand other people, if she was that rude to her man, she’s not nice. and all that smugness and how she’s sooo loved, and how many presents she’s got. that’s not something you brag about. sounds like a child in a kindergarten “oh look I have many frineds, and you don’t”. just in that little thing you can sense what kind of person she is. seems like she’s nice just for the sake of being nice, and liked.
I’m Pisces, and there are really all kinds of fish in the sea. But I don’t get pisces most of the time. I just don’t connect with other piscean people. I’m mostly of martian and uranian nature…
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