Snooping, Narcissism And Libra

5 Responses to “Snooping, Narcissism And Libra”

1. hitchhiker72 says on 10/14/07 at 7:26 am:
   

   What is it about women who snoop? And men who stick with them? I think this isn’t the first you’ve posted about snooping women. Certainly I’ve read a lot cries for help in other forums. Do men snoop?

   I’m female and can’t imagine snooping though a man’s things. What can I hope to gain from that except to lose my self-respect? My brother had a girlfriend who would read the text messages on his phone, and his email. Luckily they’ve broken up.

2. Lis says on 10/14/07 at 8:28 am:
   

   If it’s a romantic relationship, snooping is almost always a trust issue.

   I feel secure in my relationship, so I feel absolutely no need to snoop.

   Sometimes I found things I wish I hadn’t, not from snooping but from everyday housecleaning. I just ignore it and go about my day. Not anything relationship-threatening)

   I have three Libra planets, including the Moon.

3. wyrdling says on 10/14/07 at 3:40 pm:
   

   pluto in libra.
   uh. i just don’t. i’ll google someone but not go searching through what’s intended to be private.

   the world needs some mystery. and people need their time and their internal space….

4. Lisa says on 10/18/07 at 7:39 pm:
   

   I don’t do the snopping business either..that’s a no no and I am pluto in libra?…it about all trust…

5. Julie says on 6/25/08 at 6:22 pm:
   

   I empathize with the postsecreter. In fact, I was just about to send a postcard with that exact same message.

   I screwed up. he told me to stop snooping. I had no reason to snoop. But I did. And I too found my engagement ring.

   It’s not about trust for me. It’s about control. In my twisted head, I think if I know everything that’s going on that I can somehow, control it.

   I too ruined the happiest day of my life.

   And it’s not about me. It’s ruined because the man I love is being cheated out of real emotion from my part. My reaction may be different.

   I feel sick and guilty, like he doesn’t deserve me. I want to tell him but that will only make me feel better. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to feel but sick. very very very sick.

   i am trying to be a better person.
   he deserves better than this.

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