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Double Aquarius Caught In The Thicket After Straying From Path
Dear Elsa,
I have had a rocky marriage for the last five years or so. Here lately things have been on the up and up for the most part. But I can’t help but dwell on the things he has done. And it’s made me stray off my path. It’s made me vengeful. I’ve always been the bigger person and done what’s right. But recently I’m tired. I’m tired of being “good”. And for this I feel bad. I am doing things that I normally wouldn’t even think of doing.
I’m trying to find my way again, because I know me. And the person I have been lately is shameful. So my question is, how do I reclaim myself?
Lost
United States
Dear Lost,
I don’t think reclaiming yourself is the answer because it implies going backward - and with your Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Aquarius, you’d be much better off if you think along the lines of reinventing yourself. You are supposed to be progressive, see.
The way I see this, you are just winding up a massive Neptune transit. You and everything around you has been taken by the tide, but now the tide is receding. You find yourself standing on land but disillusioned and this is normal. I bet you didn’t know what a flood could do… sort of like New Orleans. So what if you are New Orleans?
Well there is no sense beating yourself up for getting caught in a hurricane. No sense feeling bad about it, you must rebuild. But to rebuild the same thing in the same place in the same way makes no sense. You were washed away for a reason so look ahead. Forget what stood before and look to the future and how you might innovate and make this next phase of your life more vital than the last.
I really think this is why you are stuck. Look forward not back and you’ll find freedom, I’m certain.
Good luck.
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Elsa’s advice is spot on. The only thing I would add is, if you’re having difficulty getting out of the mire, consider seeing a therapist. I was so hurt, so angry at my ex-husband for our past that there was just no way for me to move forward on my own, I was in no position to rebuild something solid under my feet, but my therapist showed me better ways to cut through the muck and brush, and I was able to find my path (albeit it looked completely different than the one I’d been walking!!) again.
Good luck!