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Astrology and Children: My Daughter Has Been Suspended From School - Saturn Transit To Mars in Virgo
Astrology in real life..
Saturn is coming to conjunct my daughter’s Mars at an early degree of Virgo and she was slammed to the ground last week when she smart-mouthed the principal of her school who promptly suspended her for 3 days.
“Well there is your clue,” I said. “No one is going to put up with crap this year and I don’t blame them. I guarantee you if you mess with that principal again, the next time it’s going to be 2 weeks and you won’t get any sympathy from me…”
I have been on her all weekend, talking to her about authority and how she might ed to go to her butt out of a sling. Also pointing out she should not rely on me.
“You did this. You fix it,” I said. Saturn (take responsibility) by acting (Mars) to fix things (Virgo). She nodded solemnly and I just hope she means it.
“You got kicked out school in the first two weeks. Every teacher you have is new and they are forming impressions of each of each of their students. Their first impression of you is you are a trouble-making brat. You are a kid who gets suspended from school and you waste no time either.”
“What should I do?”
“If you want to pull up? I’d go to each teacher on your first day back. Go directly to them (Mars) and apologize for missing their class. Tell them you made a mistake and you’ve learned from it and ask if there is anyway you might be allowed to make up the work. Humbly! (Saturn) Because you’ve caused them a problem and for no reason. They’ve got a whole class to teach and this is extra work for them on your behalf so you best appreciate it because you can see the old way isn’t going to work anymore. People are out of sympathy. That whole school has given you about a million chances, now your goose is cooked so either clutch it up and pull out of this or expect more problems. And don’t expect me to take care of them either. I’m going on with my life regardless. I’m going to the gym in the morning and whatever else I want to do and you can sit in your room and try to figure out what you’re going to do about your life and the next time a principal tells you to go back to class maybe you won’t talk back to her, you know? That was wrong.”
I am a hard ass I know. However, my daughter acted like a punk and fact is Saturn is coming to hit her Mars and if she keeps acting out… well it is clear to me that consequences will be increasingly severe.
Who else has Mars at an early degree of one of the mutable signs (Gemini, Virgo, Sadge, Pisces)? Are you feeling this yet?
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My Mars is late Leo, so I just through with having to cowboy up and quit whining and blaming and learn to communicate in a mature way. But, I have a stellium in Virgo, a Sadge sun and Jupiter in Pisces, I figure I’m not done yet.
And as for Mosta, she’s a smart girl, I bet she’ll figure it out and as a middle school teacher I know I would be mightily impressed with a student who actually took responsibility for their actions and got on with the business of learning.
mosta’s a good kid. she’ll pull it back in and learn to use the energy wisely…
Only Venus @ 2Sagittarius - but when Saturn moves into Virgo, I’ll know it!
She’s smart so she’ll make the connection though with Scorp rising, she may have to test it a time or two . . . there really is no substitute for direct experience of cause & effect. Parents who shield their kids from the effects of bad behavior are not doing them any favors . . . IMO.
That sounds like an excellent way of handling the situation. One thing too many parents fail to do these days is teach their kids about consequences!
I know kids need to be respectful of adults. Pretty much. But dont you think that THREE DAYS SUSPENSION (especially when she ends up missing days for illness) is a LITTLE much?
Cassi - no I don’t. She was profoundly disrespectful - the principal had to call the police as my daughter refused to leave her office and go back to class. She had to be REMOVED.
I think it’s a very important lesson for kids to learn, how to take responsibility for their actions. I would’ve said the exact same thing. In fact, last year, when my daughter had a meltdown in choir and the teacher threatened to not let her come back, I told her she needed to apologize to him for her theatrics. She did and didn’t have another meltdown for the rest of the year.
Oh, WOW. She had to be REMOVED?? I hope someday she thanks you for not kicking her ass! Absolutely make her deal with this on her own. She wants to act like an adult, she can face the consequences like an adult, too.
I had zero fear of authority when I was a kid. ZERO. This was the root of my problem. I felt out of control emotionally and the only ‘control’ I had was to be resolutely calm in my refusals when adults tried to tell me what to do. However this went unchecked and it morphed into severe depression when I was a teenager.
My sister has Libra/Pluto on her Ascendant and like Mosta seems to, her resolve towards authority is a bit, ahem, steely.
I’m behind you Elsa. I think you’re a great mum.
wow, sometimes this blog really amaze me with coincidences — anyway same thing happened to me many years ago when I was in junior high. I foolishly insulted my math teacher, poor lady, and got suspended for two days. I guess some of us has to go and try what happens when messing with authority. If so, I think it is better to try early on than later on. I was staying at my mother’s back then but got no effective speech from her that I remember of (she had problems with authority too, so she probably just went mad or desperate). I wonder how planets around myself were back then (probably 1984, I don’t remember). I do have Mars in Pisces, although saturn wasn’t were it is now of course. I do remember that the following year math became the subject I was better at. Under the very same teacher.
hm. mars in pisces is going to start complaining here in a bit. a little later into the game, though.
and the jupiter. jupiter’s probably already getting slammed (early gemini.) wonder how a jupiter/saturn square works out….