School Bully Update: Fate

August 13th, 2007 @ 7:51 pm by Elsa

Astrology in Real Life…

gemini charmLast year my daughter (she’s 12) was bullied non-stop. She held up extremely well considering. School started this week and the first day they were on her again… that night we hatched a plan which so far has not had to be implemented.

“How’s the picking on you girls doing?’ I asked.

“Not so bad today,” she said. “They aren’t saying much since that last time and the one who called me a dork? I happened to glance at her right when she was being a dork,” she said with a big grin.

“Yeah? Like what?’

“She had her eyes rolled back and she was doing this,” she said, making a woo-woo sound and patting her mouth with her hand like a kid playing “Indian”.

I snorted. “Did she see you see her?”

“Yeah,” she smiled.

“What’d she do?”

“She put her hands down real quick like this,” she said, crossing her arms. And she looked like this,” she said with a caught acting stupid look on her face. My daughter in contrast looked ultra keen.

“I don’t think those girls are going to messing with you for long this year,” I said. ‘They’ll find a much easier target and when they do help her out, would you?”

She nodded. Later we were talking about the soldier.

“Oh he’s a little pissed right now or disappointed I guess you’d say. He thought he was coming here tomorrow… it was very close but now he’s not.” I explained the circumstance.

“Yeah, fate. Sometimes it tricks you,” she said. ‘God, or fate or the universe or whatever plays tricks like that. Messes you up.”

“Yeah?”

“Yeah, like when I looked over and saw that girl acting stupid.”

My daughter is Gemini with a keen mind. She is Scorpio rising with Pluto conjunct and can see right through you. With Jupiter in Sadge and loves to expound her philosophy…

Ever caught your enemy pants down like that?

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9 Responses to “School Bully Update: Fate”

1.
Busted
Busted

You know, I’m sorry… Whenever people say “oh, he’s just a child…” I think, naahhhh….

Feel bad about it, but sometimes I just think it’s the person. It’s just hard for me to feel sympathy for miserable, nasty beings behaving like this just because “they’re children.”

I bet their gonna grow up to be just as miserable, nasty adults — maybe only hide it better…

Am I misanthropic? Dunno…..

B

 
2.
kashmiri
kashmiri

Yes I have. As an adult. And I tell you what, I’d rather not be privy to the pants down. I don’t want to know everything, least of all about the people who relentlessly hurt me. Doesn’t make their abuse easier.

 
3.
c.
c.

Did I mention, I’m quite a fan of your daughter. I think I’d quite like her if I met her. She’s got a good deal with a mom like you and wow… the astrology… I feel kind of sorry for those girls - they’re going to have a rough time watching Mosta when she’s a bit older.

:)

 
4.
ScorpioMoon
ScorpioMoon

I agree with you Busted.

That children are someone´s daugthers and sons and their parents have some responsability over their behaviours.

There are children with 10 years old who kills others and society says “they are just children” - well, they can be children but we need to change things.

This weekend i was invited to lunch by a guy with his friends (i didnt know his friends from nowhere) and in the middle of lunch, these adults (around 30 and 40 years) started to laugh about other persons they know, saying “she is stupid … he is boring” and all this conversation made me not ever want to lunch again with his friends (and the guy now is totally out of my consideration of a possible partner - he also gave some rude opinions about others).
If us adults dont change our way of relating to others, accepting the difference and be real kind to others(from our deep part of our hearts), children will not follow the example.
By the way, i´m taurus, with scorpio moon and ascendant cancer. My neptune (on 5th house) is opposite saturn, semi-sextile moon, semi-sextile jupiter, inconjunct sun, trine mercur and trine chiron.

 
5.
CD
CD

Yaaay! I’m glad she got to see the tables being turned, but kept to her own standard of behavior. In other words, she didn’t call out that other girl, the way that girl would’ve done if the situation had been reversed. Yet she also enjoyed that moment and understood its significance.

Yay for her!

 
6.
Lilly
Lilly

I’ve caught various ones at various times…all I can say is, it was glorious! *weg* ;)

 
7.
Daeshii
Daeshii

Yes! *big, cheesy grin*

Mosta is amazing. And as mentioned by other people already, it’s all about the parents. You do a wonderful job with your kids, and it shows by their actions, their conversations. Conversely, if you look at the parents of the kids who are cruel, you’ll see what cup they’re sipping from. *shakes head*

 
8.
Tam
Tam

The girls that pick on your daughter are terrified of being real. That’s why they pick on your daughter. Because she’s real, and beautiful and powerful. Every time they do or say something they are just saying to the world “look how small and cruel I am”.

 
9.
Z
Z

Smart kid, she’ll go far.

 


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