Will Her Boyfriend’s Parents Judge Her Because She Is Divorced With Children? Venus in the 10th House Trine Jupiter
Dear Elsa,
I am currently in a relationship with an Egyptian guy, and he seems to be very much in love with me. He wants to settle down but he has to make his parents aware of our relationship and in a way seek their consent.
I have been married and divorced and have 2 kids. He is aware of this and still wants to move forward with our relationship. My fear is that he will somehow be convinced by his parents that I am not the one for him considering the fact that I have been married. He on the other hand has never been married.
Am I wrong in thinking that he is different from all the others or am I going to end up hurt and alone?
Single Mother
South Africa
Dear Mother,
You’re scared and I understand why but no I don’t think you are going to wind up hurt and alone. Venus is well aspected and elevated in your chart. It is also trine Jupiter (love from a foreigner) so I can easily see this working out. However your concern is really only the tip of an iceberg that I think you’d be well advised to address.
That is, you appear to be buying the idea that having been left by a man with your children, you are somehow damaged goods. In reality, it is just the opposite. You are a responsible person taking care of your children regardless and I feel you should hold your head high. And I am telling you unequivocally, with Venus in Leo the 10th house, if you do this you will command respect.
On the other hand if you hold your head down and buy this other story (a Jupiter word) about your value (Venus), you may just have a self-fulfilling prophesy on your hands so please…
Work to replace your fear with the confidence you earned. And if this man lets his family talk him out of his love… well he’s not the man for you, is he? Try not to worry. I think you are going to be all good one way or the other. And here’s another tip and Jupiter trick:
Change your perspective! Are you lowly because you’ve been married, or he is lowly because he hasn’t? See how this is?
With Venus in the 10th, you are prone to judging love. Instead seek (Jupiter) real (10th house) love (Venus) from the heart (Leo) and you’ll have no problems at all.
Much love and good luck.
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2 Responses to “Will Her Boyfriend’s Parents Judge Her Because She Is Divorced With Children? Venus in the 10th House Trine Jupiter”
I must second HQ - why don’t people comment on the advice? This is such brilliant advice! I hope it helped this woman. I love the words.
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