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Men, Women and Now Dogs Chase The Soldier - P is Jealous: Venus Transit Conjunct Pluto
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“So did you hear from her some more?” I asked. The society woman this is.
“Yessss,” he groaned. ‘She sent me a picture but I didn’t downloaded it.”
I said something graphic.
“No, no. She got some kind of dog. A yorkie. I think it was a picture of her dog.”
This time I groaned.
“Look, P, she’s pissing me off. She sent that one thing that made me mad and then she sent another about a week and a half ago saying I didn’t text her back she was going to quit texting me. Well that didn’t last. I didn’t text her back and today she sent this picture. Anyway, P, I am sorry I made you jealous.”
“Right. Ballerinas chasing you. Jesus Christ.”
“Not chasing me. Just yelling at me. And hooting. And yelling. I’d have not even known they were there if they’d not started yelling. Heeeeeeeeey! You got a nice asssss!”
Another grown.
“But hey. I’m jealous of you every day of my life. I am going to be jealous of you when you’re 90. I will still be jealous when we’re 90 and we’re in the old folks home. I’m going to be hitting motherf’ker’s with my cane. You get away from her you old bastard, or I’ll kill you, I swear I will.”
What in your chart explains your jealousy (or lack of it)? Personally, I am freakishly jealous of the soldier like maybe 10 or a 100 times more than I would be typically so I think it’s triggered by the synastry. I don’t really understand it but boy do I flare. I feel just like one of those pissed off lizards being a desert creative and all.
And you? How would you describe yourself when jealous?
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I have been insanely jealous at times but I prefer not to be. I have been jealous when I wasn’t getting what I needed or felt insecure in a relationship. On the other hand, I can be very open even to the point of enjoying a sexually open relationship when things are solid and secure between myself and my partner.
Scorpio moon and ascendant, Cancer Venus in the 8th weigh in on the side of jealousy. Gemini sun, Merc and Jupiter in the 7th house represent the side that has evolved beyond all of that. Depends on the day really, which side is winning.
Yes between mild and insane. I try to back off because emotionally i don’t enjoy getting too wrapped up. I worked on my jealousy as a teen when i’d be jealous of my friends - i learned to go get whatever i was jealous of. It’s harder when it’s a person heh.
Venus, pluto, sun and mars conjunct and pluto squares my moon. Scorpio rules my 2nd. I get jealous often of what other people have, and it too is dependent on how secure I’m feeling.
Aries stellium. I’m only jealous of people who have what I want, usually a particular man.
Not. Not at all, anymore.
I was until I was 21 II’m 30), then my best friend died. I coveting everything she had and it was awful she died. She had the best family, clothes, BF etc etc plus rich and pretty and fabulously kind.
Her death was sudden and it woke me up. It’s my only real regret, that jealous-fuelled childhood…but I am a Taurus Sun/Chiron so I guess it was a lesson I was destined to learn.
I accept there are things I can’t have and relationships I’ll never have. Not a week goes by that I don’t think of my friend, who was only ever nice to me. I was a bitch when I was jealous, and I am more than happy to admit it…
I think if I felt jealous now…well sometimes when people have/do something cool, I say “OOOOOOh, love it! I’m so jealous!” But I am sure to make it clear I do not begrudge them their happiness and success. That is SMALL.
Oh, and as for my boyfriend, he’s pretty awesome, and I want ‘people to know who’s beside me,’ to quote you Elsa. Girls can hit on him all they want. He’s pretty sweet.
Overall I’m not, but there are certain things that will trigger violent jealousy in me. Like seeing some other woman putting her hands on my man. I have no worries where he’s concerned - he’s happy with me and isn’t the cheating kind anyway - but how dare she touch him! That’s MY man and she needs to get her own!
A former friend of mine once rubbed her breasts across my man’s back, then tweaked his ear b/c she knows his ears are ’sensitive’. I was sitting right beside him at the time and he had to stop me from getting into it with her. It’s not that she was after him, she was just drunk and wanting attention. *rolls eyes*
Erm… 8th house stellium in Aries. Sun, Mercury, Venus. I think that probably explains it. *lol*
When I was young & had everything progressed into Scorpio I was told that my jealous angry vibe pretty much put paid to a house party after i walked in . . . and I didn’t say more than a couple words!
Learned to stay clear of men who didn’t want to be 100% with me & now there is only the occasional moment here & there. I still have an evil eye . . . =grin=
I am not jealous by nature - I think my Neptune in Libra in the 8th house is pretty wildly open and unconditional.
However. I am jealous with one person I haven’t even had an intimate relationship with (yet?), and the only thing that makes sense in this case is the composite Pluto in the 7th house. It feels like we were meant to be together but due to circumstances and timing, our spheres touch and then bounce off in other directions again. We are friends who have kept in touch for over 20 years and mostly long distance.
Initially he worked in the sales office I ran, and we were both married, so the attraction went into some good arguments over sales leads. When I got divorced, no one was more appropriately incensed at the ugly way in which my ex basically deserted us. When he got divorced and came to visit, I was involved and we are both very polite and appropriate, so nothing… When I was finished with that relationship, he was married again.
And boy am I jealous every time I think of that…
::sigh::
DAMN ELSA!!!!!!!!
Let us see the charts…!!! You’re killing us. This is such a fascinating, even inspiring realtionship. Am I the only one who’s dying to see all these great stories match up to teh charts? Teh bits and pieces you throw at us just don’t cut it any more.
B
I can be difficult if I don’t ‘get’ something that I find to be important regarding the person I am with. If they are open and honest with me regarding an ex, present friend, etc. it’s fine. If I feel there is more to a story, then I ponder and try to figure out what it is (in my mind)….it’s more like a four year olds ‘Why?’ than anything else. Lots of fire/air…but yeah natal pluto in libra square venus/jupiter.
I picked ‘depends on the person’, because, for me, it really does. People hitting on my bf — when he’s WITH ME! — doesn’t bother me so much, because I know 1) he’s completely oblivious and 2) he’s going home with me.
But when he was out visiting his kids at their mother’s place, telling me how much fun he was having, that ugly green monster reared its head, cos she’s the only woman I half-consider a threat. Half because I know logically he’s not going back to her ever, with or without me, but when is jealousy logical?
Very jealous, but I try not to be because it makes me sick to my stomach. I hate it. I can’t enjoy life. For me it comes down to my fear of being betrayed, but what you wrote the other day about the person that was cheated on not being to blame (can’t remember the exact wording) has put a new perspective on it for me. I meant to thank you for that.
Venus and Uranus in the 8th in Scorpio, Pluto in the 7th in Libra. Sag sun/moon (which would indicate more towards non-jealous, no?) But my sun squares Saturn, and Saturn opposes my asc (pisces) and I have many other squares to my ascendant, maybe indicating lack of self esteem, therefore insecure, therefore jealous.
Mildly jealous. I just get even quieter than I normally am, because I don’t want anybody to know I’m jealous.
I get insanely jealous of people’s intelligence, the amount they have read, their critical thinking skills, their self-reliance, and in conjunct with that, how they spend their summer since many that I know travel for most of it or do something interesting.