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Cancer Friend Has Gemini Confused
Dear Elsa,
This friend of mine is a Cancer. I find her confusing once in a while, because she has these moods sometimes and she acts cold to everybody and won’t tell me what is wrong. She just doesn’t feel like talking.
Most of the time we connect so well and have great conversation and I can tell she probably likes me. But when she talks to another friend, she doesn’t act the same way to me.
I don’t know what to think! Please help me! What should I do?
Seventeen
United States
Dear Friend,
It sounds as if you like this girl, so I would recommend you familiarize yourself with Cancers. For example, they are moody. And they don’t have two or three moods either. They have 12 moods and there is nothing anyone can do to stop or change this… take it from a Capricorn who’s tried!
Cancer is associated with the Crab, which withdraws into a shell at times by its nature. And nothing and no one is going to be able to stop a crab from doing this however if you will respect a crab’s way of being in the world, you should have no problems
Now more personal to your situation, it sounds like your friend likes you during most of her moods (which can be tracked by the Moon by the way… a mood change every 2.5 days), so you’re in pretty good shape here as far as maintaining a relationship with her. You only need not take it personally when she retreats, because she’s going to do it no matter what. Just think of a beaver or a polar bear. It goes in the water, it comes out of the water, it goes in the water and it comes out of the water.
You will never cure this kind of animal into living on land (or in the water) full time, nor should you try.
Good luck.
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6 Responses to “Cancer Friend Has Gemini Confused”
This is right on the money. I’ve got a fair bit of Cancer, and sometimes I just don’t want to see -anybody-, not even my best friends. Don’t take it personally - it’s not you.
ROFL
Thank you, Elsa–I needed that piece of wisdom today!
I wish I could get my mom to understand this…
Being a Cancer can be tiring. ![]()
This Cancer sez you can’t go wrong reading this.
Solitude by Anthony Storr was also very helpful, but that’s a much bigger read.
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I’ve been surrounded by Cancers my whole life. As impatient an Aries as I am, I’ve had to learn the hard way that you have to respect the crab’s moods and let them do their own thing. They are very strong and self-possessed underneath all that emoting.