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How Do You Know When You Are In Love? Sagittarius Sun, Venus Conjunct Neptune in Capricorn
Dear Elsa
How do you know when you are in love with someone?
I think I may be in love with this person. I think about them all the time, and yeah I do imagine being with them all the time. But I also used to this with my crushes on famous people. I feel anxious around this person when I see them in the flesh as it were. Can you help?
Nineteen
Wales
Dear Nineteen,
Yes, I can help. I think love feels different for each of us and your chart gives clues. In your case, you have Venus (love) conjunct Neptune (fantasy, divine discontent) in Capricorn (reality, delay, deprivation)… and there are a number of ways this can manifest.
For example, your crushes on famous people are one scenario. You imagine (Neptune) relationship (Venus) with celebrities who you cannot access in real life (Capricorn).
Your other situation is the same. You imagine (Neptune) that you love (Venus) someone but wonder if it is real (Capricorn). Or perhaps you fear (Capricorn) that it is not real (Neptune) and that love (Venus) is just a figment of your imagination (Neptune).
At 19 years old, you are getting to know yourself and your love nature and as far as I am concerned you should keep doing exactly what you are doing. And though there are an endless number of ways a combination in a person’s chart can play, I can give you an idea of some possible mature versions of your kind of love.
A lasting (Capricorn) transcendent (Neptune) love.
A real (Capricorn) fantasy (Neptune) relationship.
Sacrifice (Neptune) for real (Capricorn) love.
Taking responsibility (Capricorn) for your tendency to romanticize and pine (Neptune) for love that does not exist on this plane.
It is an extremely creative aspect and oh yeah… the guy! Of course you love him. But be aware you can love pretty much anyone you project onto. This is your gift and your curse.
Good luck.
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4 Responses to “How Do You Know When You Are In Love? Sagittarius Sun, Venus Conjunct Neptune in Capricorn”
“But be aware you can love pretty much anyone you project onto. This is your gift and your curse.”
Ain’t that the truth? Does love ever come in a “real” form or do you just get to the point where two Mutual projections find a way together?
NB
Wow, thanks. This is exactly what I’ve been thinking about. What it means to love. With Moon conjunct Mercury I am ready to doubt loving, feel guilty about it, and am never sure if I actually do. Plus lots of things (the glut of romantic comedies I’ve watched while procrastinating) have made me believe less/convinced me about the dubious nature of love.
I don’t have Venus/Neptune natally, but most of my relationships have had that in synastry. I think I like to be deluded in relationships…
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With the amount of crushes I have on in unacessible people, it figures that I should have some Venus and Neptune connection but I don’t.
It’s interesting to observe how some people analyze their feelings, wondering if they’re real, if it’s serious or not…while others dive into their emotions leaving reason behind.
Yes, both curse and gift. I’d say: If you feel it, it’s real. (what is this? Saturn in water signs maybe) But obviously, it’s not like this for everyone, especially with Neptune in the picture. Will someone stop my blabbering?!