27
Passionate Cancer Woman In Love With Pisces Man Who Likes Her A Lot - Unrequited Love?
Dear Elsa,
I’m in love with a male Pisces. He hasn’t professed his love for me but he says he likes me a lot. All of the personality traits of Pisces say we are a good match. We have not been intimate.
I can’t explain why I feel so strongly for him. It’s been 4 months. What should I do? I want to show him how I feel for him sexually. He avoids it, but from time to time talks about it. I want to let go but can’t. I don’t understand him… what exactly should I do???
Stellium in Cancer
United States
Dear Stellium,
In my experience men like to have sex… with someone. And if you are someone they want to have sex with, they most definitely do not “avoid” it. Since this is what he is doing, the odds are overwhelming that despite your passion, this man has no sexual interest in you.
The other clue here is he says he “likes” you which is decidedly lukewarm when compared to your professing your love for him. So I think what you’ve got here is a fantasy. And there is nothing wrong with that.
Fantasy serves a purpose in that it is an escape from reality. But I do think if you move on this guy, he’s going to reject you which will be no fun for either party. Rather than something you can actually have, you might consider this situation akin to reading a romance novel. It is what it is, but nothing more.
I’m sorry and good luck.
~~
Have a question? Need advice? Ask here!
Interested in a personal consultation? Click here for more info…
8 Responses to “Passionate Cancer Woman In Love With Pisces Man Who Likes Her A Lot - Unrequited Love?”
Leave a Comment
Recent Comments
- wyrdling: talked a man out of me, several times several who tried the...
- wyrdling: i think some people just aren't happy if they're not fightin...
- Elsa: bathtub conversation: "Someone wants to know where the li...
- Dina: Ah, I see....
- Dina: In college I grew to have some disgust for the need to be th...
- june: Insecurity....
- Elsa: "What is the dividing line between a criticism and an attack...




I’m with Elsa. Move on.
As a Pisces, I’m very aware of who moves me. And who doesn’t. I have a handful of male friends who have expressed an interest in getting into my bed, and I told them basically the same thing your Pisces did. I like them, usually a lot, but I don’t want anything beyond what I have. Cos if I did, I’d be all over them, and there would be no second guessing my motivation.
Unfortunately, the mystery of Pisces is well-equipped to assist in building the fantasy. Most of us enjoy it just as much as the rest, but we know it’s a mask (if we don’t manage to get ourselves entrapped as well). A double-edged sword when we really just want fun.
I wish you luck.
In my experience with Pisces men, when they’re on, they’re ON and when they’re not, they really, really aren’t. You deserve better than a fantasy man, hon. I vote move on and find a Pisces that will bite (if that’s what you want).
Hi Stellium in Cancer,
I’m a pisces, I agree with Daeshii about how pisces work. He problably knows it’s not a good idea to be intimate with you, because of all that it may imply. The fact he talks about it from time to time problably means he is tempted about it, as any men would be, but he knows it wouldn’t work, or else he would be all over you by now. The fact he is being strong and keeping his limits is an expression of respect for your friendship, it’s problably hard for him to do this, unless this pisces is very saturnine. if he gives in to his temptation to have sex knowing it will lead no where, things would fall downhill quickly.
I’m doing this very specific prediction of things just because this sounds very familiar to what happens to me very often. boundaries are blurred for pisces as is all reality. It sounds like he likes you enough to keep some boundaries but he knows it wouldn’t work.
Hello,
I really understand what Viv has said in regards to a Pisces male I am Cancerian and was moved to respond.
Hello,
I really understand what Viv has said in regards to a Pisces male I am Cancerian and was moved to respond.
I and my Pisces whom I call a very close close friend, have just been through that same thing that it would not be a good move for us to be together, for very real reasons although we first met when we were 19yrs old and our recognition of each other physically, spiritually, mentally, telepathically, emotionally and sexually was truelly there! unforseen circumstances occurred and we never saw each other again until 4 years ago, the same feelings and all came to the surface for both of us which was quite powerful and frightening for both of us,although we have always thought of how the other was doing and where! but hes married with 3young children and I have divorced, sad but we still have each others respect and friendship which is so important I am not sure why our paths have crossed again after all these years, we have never forgotten each other the feelings are still mutually deep, his marriage is in trouble but not through me it was that way 4 years ago, but I dont get involved, and we live in the same town which we discovered 4 years ago, and my grown up kidz work with him in the tourism Industry.
He became very close to my kidz not knowing at the time they were mine. My kidz did not realize we knew each other til2 years after I moved to the same town as him my kidz have worked in the same industry with him for 6 years now, but to all of us involved with each other having that deep bond is most valuable to us and always will be.Everyday is a new day it has its ups and it has its downs.
hey I completely relate to u Chadwin…I being a Cancerian myself always n ALWAYS have a very strong affinity for all Pisceans i have ever met till date. my frndships n relationships wid them have been strikingly different, bonding deep and respect mutual.smetimes..no most of the times we dnt even have to say things to each other. we just understand.i have been dating a guy who i am reallly in love wid. its been two years now.from the very first day we got in touch, we have this mutual fondness for each other.we have met only once till now, but have been pulled into a relationship.and all these years even if we have disagreed, fought n sulked a lot..andhave drifted apart for particular periods, we come back to square one. its like i just cant get him out of my mind.and HE too keeps coming back to me.when he wasnt in love wid m..even then he found it hard to ignore me..and now tht he is in love wid me…he is still the same. no matter how much we fight and sulk..i know for a fact…that we end up coming bck to each other.and yea, when we r far apart we keep wondering wat the other one is doing n where he/she is.we think the same things at d same time, behave similarly for core issues, know each others strengths n weaknesses, and know theres more than just love between us.its like a cosmic connection. he told me once he smetimes get scared n speechless coz i instinctively know wats going on in his mind n ask him qs or tell him things that bring his thinking process to a halt.he can ignore ppl easily..and fool them, but i dunno why on earth he keeps coming bck to me.all dis has been going on..given d fact tht we have met only once.dunno wat wudve happened if we wudve been meeting regularly…but all i can tell u is tht..if u have touched their hearts at sme point of time..n i mean like-soul searching business..they will NEVER EVER forget u..no matter how far they wanna go to escape fom u…they will keep coming bck to u.their weakness is their inability to resist true love..with that mist of fairytale endings and spiritual, deep connection.sexually they can get attracted to a few people, but for love…u just have to strip ur soul..n theirs as well..wid gentleness!!
I to have deep feelings for a Pisces man.. He is a well to do business man that could sell the stars and clouds in the sky if he want to.. We have been good friends for a couple of years now.. He was raised like myself.. Mid class family.. his was not a good family enviroment - mine was a very close christian family.. Not to long ago I told him how I felt about him.. Next thing I know he was giving up Vodka and needed his space.. So I did.. I let him come to me.. Now 6 months down the road here he is knocking on my door and telling me he wants more of me.. Well now I am at the point of stepping back and to see if he really means business or not in this relationship.. Now he is wanting to tell me I look nice, wanting to touch my face and do lil things like that.. None stop looking at me.. Where before it was like a buddy thing.. so I have no idea how to take him.. I agree with the above statement..They are either ON or OFF.. He told me the other night (which I am trying to figure out what he means by this) “I have come to realize that I don’t need a fantasy person, then he went to say ” I come to realize how such a great person you are and you have been there for me” then to boot ” I come to realize that I miss you” ” I want to spend more time with you” well with all that said.. He is a very busy man.. He barely has time to breath.. So I basicly have to move my schedule around him if I want to see him.. Now he is telling me that he will have to make his more flexable.. I don’t know what to make of this man… His job requires him to be a Bull S.. and I know this.. but this last time we were together I seen a different look in his eyes.. He does not like to talk about relationship emotions.. (and I know most men don’t) I don’t know weither to wait it out or push that issue with him again.. lol.. So to make a long story short.. He is a true Pisces man from what I have read.. He has been thru a lot.. His wife left him for a younger man and skipped out of the state and left him to raise to wonderful girls.. He is a wonderful father to them.. Oh and the last date we had he said “do I make you nervous?” Which he doesn’t.. I love the times we have.. He has me laughing till I am crying.. lol.. so how do you know when a well to do business man that is a pisces is really truly in love with a person that is a Cancer? Well I wish the person that posted this comment the best.. Cause Pisces are hard to read and they are ON or OFF and for some one like me that is a Cancer it can be hard to figure out..
There are Two Types of pisces, The oTher one and The oTher one. Well, The oTher one is weak(sushii), so They say, and The oTher is sTrong(jaws), so i know. Sushii don’t see when it’s coming, on The oTher hand, jaws smell iT miles away.. WhaT i mean is, iT really depends on whaT kind of person ThaT pisces really is, we all have differenT BACKgrownds. PEACE!!