I was coming back on a long road trip day today and thinking about that Saturn Uranus aspect that in my chart and in the sky at the moment, and I have write this now because I spy an opportunity for all.

With the Saturn Uranus aspect in my chart I am prone for good or ill, to suddenly (Uranus) break commitments (Saturn), throw off restrictions or break (my own) rules. In other words, the structure of my life can change very suddenly as is what I think is real.

So heading out on this trip I was chatting on the phone with a pal who is in a godforsaken situation with a couple of people in her life. And these two people are going to gang up on her for sure. There are two of them, one of her and they are going to be out talking about her.

“Not to be catty but there are some things I could say about them,” she said.

“I bet. But if you don’t want to be catty, then don’t be catty. It would be far more effective to say nothing than it would to explain anything to anyone and try to get them to choose sides. Um… that would be gross.”

“Hmm….”

“Yeah. You can just say, oh well those relationships have shifted and that’s it. You don’t need to offer any more information because it’s very personal and really no one’s business. And this would be classy, not catty. I say the less you say the better because people are going to figure it out and think what they want anyway. Everyone will know you are through with these people and they will make up the reason why they think that is.”

“That sounds like a good idea,” she said.

“Yeah, it works. And it does far more damage then if you go out there blabbing. The less you say the better and this way people also find out they can trust you. If you have a falling out with them, you are not going to hang their underwear out there.”

“Yep.”

“Yep. And since you don’t like catty anyway, you won’t be catty and as a matter of fact, you may as well decide right now to never do anything catty again in your life.”

And the point is I bet this gal never does! And how long did that take? Her whole structure of defense (Saturn) was revolutionized (Uranus) via a 2 minute conversation.

So there are opportunities like this out there right now, for everyone. You need only recognize them.

Anyone else have an experience like this over these last couple weeks?