I think I’d need more information about this guy before making an opinion…though I believe it would still be “Who cares if he’s parked outside a strip club? That’s where the meter is.”
So: No, we don’t really want to see this. I operate on a need to know basis, generally. I have %100 faith that if information is witholded from me, I will find out in some way or another when the time was right.
When I found out my ex was unfaithful, the timing wsa perfect because until that point I had been unable to let go of the relationship. It was my release from bondage.

If I were him, I’d feel humiliated (Cap Moon!) and grateful my parents are technologically paralyzed.