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Astrology In Real Life - What Do You Do With It?

Ask the collective…

zodiac coffeeElena also asks: “How do you deal with you chart Elsa? Do you accept it a fate? A problem to be worked out?

Elena - I don’t deal my chart. I deal with my life and astrology helps. I never look at anything in my chart and think, oh that’s a problem and I don’t understand people who do.

For example, I read around quite a bit. Message boards and I have scanned the astrology mailing lists for a dozen years and it’s very common someone will be going off on something in their chart, an aspect or a transit coming up and invariably they will be asking what it is going to do to them. What doom does this portend?

And I will tell you the truth even though it’s embarrassing. When I come across something like this John Prine’s song, ‘Dear Abby” plays in my head.

Prine sings (in Dear Abby’s voice):

“Bewildered, bewildered…

You have no complaint
You are what your are and you ain’t what you ain’t
So listen up buster, and listen up good
Stop wishing for bad luck and knocking on wood…”


You see? I think people take astrology and look for problems they are not even having and there are probably any number of reasons why. But I don’t operate like that. For me it is life first, astrology second. And no way am I going to spend time looking for the doom in my chart. Astrology should help solve problems, not create them.


How do you use astrology in everyday life?

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7 Responses to “Astrology In Real Life - What Do You Do With It?”

  1. Lupa says on 5/30/07 at 2:49 pm:

    I love this post!

    I occasionally feel a bit spooked by an upcoming transit but for the most part my approach is similar to yours. Astrology sometimes helps me sort things out and understand people better. It is just a way of organizing things mentally for me.

  2. joana says on 5/30/07 at 3:24 pm:

    Astrology helps me understand myself better and I especially like to look back on things that happened to me using the astrology lense, helping me understand things in a new light - in the present this is more difficult because I get caught up on what’s going on with me.
    But I have to admit to feeling doomed sometimes - but that’s not the astrology effect, it’s just the way I feel about life in general (bad thoughts, I know!).
    That song is very appropriate.

  3. Twilight says on 5/30/07 at 3:36 pm:

    I prefer to look back with astrology rather than forward, Elsa I try to see how the pieces fit, with hindsight. Seeing that things do not always work out as per astro text books is quite comforting when an upcoming transit seems at all threatening.
    Nothing is threatening really, except paranoia!

  4. Tam says on 5/30/07 at 4:05 pm:

    I use astrology as a personal growth tool to try to see myself as others do. While some people have trouble seeing Elsa, I have trouble seeing me. I never use astrology as a type of “weather forecast” that I adjust my life around.

  5. Daeshii says on 5/30/07 at 4:19 pm:

    I use it as a guide. I religiously read what AstroBarry has to say every week, but that doesn’t mean I live by it (though I’m fascinated by the brutal honesty he writes with and also how everything he brings to light unfolds in my life).

    I also read up the different aspects of my chart (a lot of that is bc of you mentioning stuff here, so I go look at my chart and research what I find) and it’s interesting to see how all these bits and pieces really do reflect who I am.

    I will admit that I read my bf’s AstroBarry every week, too. Kinda helps me to figure out when to back off and when to push issues with him (like right now I’m backing off, and he’s surprising me :-)). HE doesn’t read astrology at all, listening to humor me when I bring stuff up. (But at least he listens, right?)

  6. Elena says on 5/30/07 at 5:57 pm:

    I started getting into astrology after a painful breakup that caused more emotion in me than the relationship warranted. I wanted to understand why I overreacted, what was going on at the time etc, and the synchronicity of the predictions blew me away! it all happened the way Lutin, Barry and Elsa divined. Of course most astrologers say that these are energies that incite you, and not decide for you. Free will is the basis of society, sure, but so is our are natal chart are to a certain extent the basis of our character : “the cards we are dealt with” otherwise we all wouldn’t be here on this blog trying to understand ourselves and why “women always hate me,” or “i get into abusive relationships” or “fall in love with unavailable men.” Those are patterns-astrological, psychological, whatever. Patterns that we become aware of only after we make the same mistakes over and over again and the pain gets to big. So there is obviously something predetermined about our lives, with an added wiggle room and variation on the theme of course. The anxiousness I have concerning astrology is summed up from many of my personal conclusions as well as Elsa comments here. I find her to be very intuitive and insightful and asking the same of herself and the soldier. I remember her posts about the “marry him already” and her thinking things might not work out between them when she looks at their synastry chart. etc etc and various other sundries…

  7. kashmiri says on 5/30/07 at 7:41 pm:

    Thanks for the post. I am going to stop worrying about Saturn entering my 8th house PRONTO.

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