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Astrology and People Who Grow On You: Water Signs and Houses?
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I have a friend who is struggling in a new environment and although it’s no fun I think he will be fine longer term. It seems he always gets off to a rocky start and has a struggle but invariably people grow to love him.
I have a similar experience. I grow on people, often against their will. And I am thinking this is a function of the water signs and houses. You know. Shut the door all you want, we’re going to seep in anyway and once we do you get used to us.
Do you grow on people?

20 Responses to “Astrology and People Who Grow On You: Water Signs and Houses?”
No, either you love me or hate me. No in betweens
Always. I get alot of projections for good or bad (pisces asc)and so it takes a while for people to really get to know me. Even took me a long time to get to know me. I can be painfully reserved which people take how they want, so i think people are just grateful that someone comes out at all. I like people like that myself, layered people. Most of my friends i haven’t clicked with straight away and we’re tight as. Other people who i have, tend not to last so long.
Hi guys,
I’m starting to feel awkward posting my opinion without having to introduce myself, since you guys seem to be a tight bunch. So, hi everyone! My name is Elena, I’m from Macedonia, currently finishing my MFA in Graphic Design, and am currently suffering from astrology fever. Virgo Sun, Moon and Venus, Asc in Gemini. It’s very nice to be here among you!
Cheers.
About making friends…I usually need and instant spark, approachable chatty people always have a green light! Sharing quirky stories of embarrassment and jokes a must.Women friends are Sags and Gemini, men…Gemini and Aquarius. In all instances it was love at first chatting.-)
I don’t know. I always know when people don’t like me right off the bat…but there are a few people that I am not sure of and find out later they like me/don’t like me.
Sometimes. Depends on the person. Generally it seems more like other people grow on me than the other way around.
I grow on people, I think, but I don’t have water signs much. I have air signs. Does it work the same for wind as for water?
Becca, don’t you have a packed 12th house?
Also Moon in Aquarius, so a total of six planets in air signs. The only water I’ve got is Neptune and the Midheaven in Scorpio.
ditto to MahEggo’s answer…I know right away when they DON’T like me…but there are often ones I’m not sure of & don’t find out one way or another until later…
Hmmm… Not exactly. It’s more like they realize I’m likable after I’ve gotten comfortable to let my guard down around them. Until then, they sometimes find me too cold and/or abrasive to get near, I think. *shrug* I’m not bothered by it though… I’m very Aries with a very cardinal chart. *lol*
“Nothing is softer or more flexible than water, yet nothing can resist it” –Lao Tzu
I just assume everyone does like me to begin with.
Most of the time, I think they do, although I know I can sometimes be intense and this bothers some. But I think I project enough of “me” out there that the folks that wouldn’t like me tend to stay away…
hm, over a year later and Becca has definitely grown on me! I always look for her comments and blog posts.
Wow, thanks, Satori. I’m honored.
And over a year later I’ve finally noticed Elsa’s reference to water houses as well as water signs. I’m slow, but I get there.
yup, I just keep liking you better and better. ![]()
I just noticed the water signs thing too.
I like Becca too! She is an unique entity, totally distinctive and forthright, my favorite kind of people!!
Well *somebody* needs to be polite around here and welcome Elena…
Hi, Elena!
(chuckle) My bad. Sorry that welcome came a year too late, Elena!
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That’s really interesting!
I don’t know. Maybe a little because I’m usually shy at first and it’s really hard to get to know me.