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Attracted To The Unusual? Uranus In Relationship
Astrology in Real Life
Ben and I have tracked each other for 25 years. We keep each other filled in as to what we’re up to, the turns we make in our lives and so forth. We were talking about the soldier, and the various ways my association with him has been impacting and influencing me. I have a 7th house Uranus. So does Ben. It indicates a strong attraction to the unusual.
“Well Ben, he’s extremely acute. He’s a specimen at the end of the continuum and on more than one level. And although it’s enormously uncomfortable relating to him at times, ultimately you cannot hang around someone like him and not learn all kinds of things. So I have been learning all kinds of things and a variety of things too. The things I learn shock and alarm me at times but ultimately please me. I don’t mind the discomfort. How else am I going to find this stuff out? I’m learning things about him, things about life in general and things about myself of course.”
I quit talking but Ben didn’t say anything. It’s his MO to listen and absorb everything and then comment when it’s all been said. But I still pause in case he has a question even though he almost never does.
“He’s potent and very unusual. But I am not talking about the soldier stuff. There is that, but he doesn’t need any of that to be interesting. He has other things going. For example, he’s not really from this world. Well he is, but he’s definitely not from this society. He does not belong in the society we live in today. It is literally as he comes from some other time in history and was airdropped here into the current age. And he’s just walking around like that, with his alternative… he has views from another time and place and he has them hard core and for real so you can imagine my fascination. It’s endless. There is just no way I am not going to want to find out everything I can in a situation like this and I can’t imagine anyone who knows me thinking I would do anything but.”
When you meet someone who is OUT THERE are you attracted? Do you have Uranus mashed up with Venus or the 7th house?
8 Responses to “Attracted To The Unusual? Uranus In Relationship”
I love people who are OUT THERE, who make me think or offer alternate views of the world and am their biggest advocates. I need them to exist to help me feel normal. I have moon in virgo conjunct uranus at O’libra in 7th house which makes a wide opp to venus (9′aries)and it’s my only planet in air so is quite potent.
All of my relationships have had something different about them and i’ve never had a type as such although i have noticed over the years that i tend to be attracted to those with sag/scorp/aqua energies, which would fit with having jup/plu/ura in 7th, so i guess theres a type of energy i’m attracted to. I have Ceres in Aquarius (in 11th) too so i kinda nurture the unusual or different. Most of my friends are from differing backgrounds and all are unconventional in some way. Misfits united.I come from a line of unconventional relationships too - my mother has moon in aquarius and uranus in 7th, my father (with mars and merc in aquarius trine uranus) being much younger than her and my grandmother was ostracised from her family for marrying outside her faith.
I don’t have any Uranus/Taurus, but I have Uranus in the first house, so I suspect I AM the unusual and normal people are frightened of me. Ergo, I only date other weirdos.
My Uranus is in Scorpio, so does make me the attrator or the attracted? 
My date has Venus in Scorpio, I have Uranus in Scorpio in seventh house and conjuncts his Venus. I can tell ours was love at first sight and it’s is a very strange, intense, passionate and conflictive relationship. We’ve been dating for almost 6 months, with lots of problems and unusual things but we can’t stop to see each other. We’ve trying to break up many times, but we can’t. I don’t know why! I believe this intense attraction will end as suddenly as it began but definitely he makes me burn in lust and sometimes I get angry because he’s unstable. I’m supposed to be the unstable one because of Uranus!.
There is a huge misconception regarding natal uranus. My stepfather has a venus conjunct uranus in his natal and he is about as inflexible and unconventional as you can get. What the uranus does, however is make him unfaithful and prone to be a cheater even to the point of not respecting ‘emotional’ bonds. he was also a child molester and horribly abusive in every way. he was a dogmatic religious man and a diehard conservative. he was not interested in people who ‘out there’, he was interested in “dominating” people who he saw as being different from himself. he valued his freedom but totally disrespects others rights and freedom. it’s almost as if it was a cheap con to pretend he was hip but he just used people and saw them as objects.
i on the other hand, have sun conjunct pluto and uranus and am extremely liberal, creative but still understand the emotional implications and subtleties of relationships.
you have to look at the overall chart to get the deal on a person’s overall real character and true personality.
i meant ‘conventional’ to mend the above.
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