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Double Cancer Woman Suffers Problems With Male Authority Figures At Work, Sexual Harrassment
Dear Elsa,
Why have my career choices been so horrible?
I hate to play victim, but it seems at each job I am on there is some drama surrounding it. Most of the time I don’t work well with male supervisors and don’t long on the job. Either the male supervisor/coworkers belittle me, or they sexually harass me.
My current position is in a laboratory and when I took the job I was told by HR the people there are extremely weird. Boy, were they underestimating their choice of words. The 20 months that I’ve been on the job, my fellow incompetent coworkers have made several serious and false accusations about my work (my supervisor has been kind enough to stick up for me, because she is sane and knows my work is great in comparison to the other coworkers). I’ve been sexually harassed and the boss of my supervisor (male) is intimidated by my work questions and chooses to act a like a jerk, because he’s afraid of not being able to answer any of my questions accurately or correctly.
My boyfriend who also works at the same place hates to hear me rant, but at the same time he has witness the harassment I have had to endure by fellow coworkers. The more I write about the fraction of my experiences here, the more I see how bad it is. HOWEVER, because each job I’ve had becomes increasingly worse (and I’ve had many), I am afraid to step out and find another job.
I would like to know if this just a curse in my chart or are there solutions? I’ve been told I have a Kite pattern which includes MC. I thought Kites were good? Why is it not helping me now?!?!?
Trouble at Work
United States
Dear Trouble,
When a scenario constellates over and over in your life, it’s because there is something you are just not getting. There is something you are supposed to uncover or discover or overcome… or something! It is not random. How can it be random when the same situation sets up time and time again, and when the common denominator in each scenario is you? Obviously you have some play here.
If this is not clear to you, just imagine a woman who has a man who beats her. The man before this one beat her, and the one before that one beat her too. Eventually she’s bound to see the pattern and get to the point where you are now. She’ll realize that it’s a pretty safe bet if she quits this man and gets a new man, he is going to beat her unless what? Unless she figures this out!
So you are having problems with male authority figures who I would suppose are acting as surrogate dads. In other words, you’re dealing with a father/daughter dynamic here. You are also dealing with a mother/son dynamic because that’s how these things work. The players go back and forth. And considering you’re a double Cancer, the astrology supports my theory; with this much Cancer in a chart, there is going to be parent/child theme in all your relationships, period.
So if you want to resolve this and break your pattern, I would start thinking along these lines. You are recreating your relationship with your father in some way, shape or form. Figure out how and you’ll have some leverage around finding a way to rewrite this script.
Good luck.
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Elsa, you are a wise person!! I love this response. My mother once told me that if you have recurring patterns in your life–especially with fellow humans–they will repeat and repeat until you take a different course of action than you ever have before. Then the pattern shifts. I have been up to the challenge to try it but it is effen hard! I like to think that by even trying, I shifted the pattern a little. Or at the very least got to view it from another angle. It helps, it really does.