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The Soldier and P - 29: Uranus in the 7th House, Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry

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uranus Someone wrote me the other day asking if a 7th House Uranus meant they were “doomed”. I have a 7th house Uranus (or 8th depending on which house system you use) and have never felt doomed in any way. I will say my love relationships (7th house) manifest very quickly, and i n the case of the soldier and I… his natal Uranus (fast) is conjunct my Venus (love) so this energy definitely plays and this is how:

“Well we slept together the night we met,” he said.

“We did? I thought it was the next night. Didn’t I kick you out?”

“Yeah, you kicked me out. You kicked me out and I was leaving but then you decided you wanted me to stay and I wanted to stay so I stayed and shortly after that we decided to go to bed together so we did.”

I laughed. “Oh brother.” I was on the phone, but I was blushing. “That doesn’t say much about me, does it? I am not a very nice girl, sleeping with you like that,” I said.

“Yes you’re a nice girl!”

“Yeah, I am a nice girl. I just know who I want to sleep with is all. And if it happens to be you, then let’s go. Why waste time? And we never had enough time together anyway so it makes me feel sort of good, we never wasted any of it even from day one.”

“Nope, we never wasted a minute.”

“And I guess it did us no harm. Apparently not.”

“Harm? How is sleeping together going to harm us?” he asked.

“Well it didn’t, that’s the point. It did us no harm because now it a million years later and we’re still talking. We still like each other. We love each other. But that means… well let’s see. I met you in the afternoon. Had to be 3 or 4 in the afternoon because I was getting off work and there you were. So then I ask you to dinner that would be 5 or 6. I get pissed and kick you out, probably around 6 or 7 which means we’re in bed together by what? 8?” I laughed.

“Yep. 8.”

“Well I don’t know what to say,” I said. “I should probably be embarrassed but I’m not. It seems like that was a good idea. That was a good choice I made.”

“Hell yes, it was a good choice, P. We had a good time. I don’t remember much of it, that first night. But I do know when we got up in the morning you were my girlfriend.”

“I was?”

“Yep. And I was your boyfriend.”

“This is what happened overnight?”

“Yeah. That’s what happened overnight. We woke up in them morning, it was already like we were married or something. We were happy as hell about it I can tell you that. We were glad to have found each other. We were ecstatic. We both knew what was going on.”

“Cool.”

“Yeah, we knew. There was no confusion at all. There was no thinking about it. What was there to think about it? We wanted to be together and we were going to be together. Because as soon as we were together we had it all. Everything you could possibly want in this world, together we had it, so yeah. I was your boyfriend, and you were my girlfriend from that… within those few hours and see P, I just don’t think there was anyway to stop this. From the moment we saw each other this was going to happen and whoever doesn’t like it can just go talk to God about it. Go complain to God if you don’t like what you see. We were a couple almost from the second we met.”

“I can’t argue. So all normal then. It all sounds good. I can sleep with whoever I want and I am sure glad I did that. That was a damned good idea of mine,” I said with a devilish smirk.

“Yep, P. You’re a wise one.”

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Someone once told me my relationships started to fast. He specifically said that relationships should be like a pot of water boiling on the stove. It gets warm, the hot, then steaming…

And this sounded right when he said it but it has never worked this way for me. All my relationships boil… they actually boil over within 24 hours of the first contact and I can pretty much say unequivocally if this does not occur within that time frame, it never will.

How do you partner? Fast or slow? Do you have Uranus mashed up with Venus in your chart?

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10 Responses to “The Soldier and P - 29: Uranus in the 7th House, Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry”

saggal says on 3/22/07 at 11:45 am:

Eckk. Uranus and Venus in Scorpio in the 8th. Always fast.
SaDiablo says on 3/22/07 at 12:32 pm:

I partner apathetically. =P

That would be “slow.” It’s actually hard for me to feel physical attraction to someone without a prior mental connection, so I tend to be friends first. In general I know whether someone is worth my energy within the first meeting, though, for forming friendships and the like.

Venus in Libra, Uranus in Scorp, I think 4th and 5th houses respectively - but I don’t have my chart handy. Needless to say, no interactions between them.
Daeshii says on 3/22/07 at 2:22 pm:

Uranus in Scorp for me, a very interesting read as I researched it. I tend to partner fast and furious, not always using my brain until it’s too late, but this new guy? Yeah, we got together fast, but I am using head and heart? Still crazy, but good crazy.
Heather says on 3/22/07 at 2:52 pm:

Physically I always hooked up very quickly, I think I made my husband wait til the 2nd date, mainly because I had a feeling he would be around for a while and I didn’t want to appear too easy. And the three men I’ve loved in my life were almost all instantaneous. Eyes, body, heart, boom, boom, boom. A few I tried to force, taking the slow route, but it just didn’t work that well for me. Uranus 3rd in Virgo, Venus 5th in Scorp…but they don’t seem tied together. Maybe I am just easy
anon. says on 3/22/07 at 6:40 pm:

2nd date? That’s quite a high standard. I always fought that these days you should wait at least 3 dates before putting out. That’s what classy girls do.
I know some women who take that much time deciding what shoes too wear. Well, good to know that deciding on what penis goes inside you is less complicated than what shoes to wear.

Amen, to easy women! If it weren’t for easy girls we men would end up putting out a lot more cash for dinner, dates, flowers, and jewelry. Must have been pretty hard for a guy to get some in the 1950’s without going bankrupt.
Amber says on 3/23/07 at 5:40 am:

Being ‘easy’? Now that is one thing I do not worry about and is just complete bullshit if you ask me. I hate the expression too: why are girls ‘easy’, and men not?! And it has zero to do with being classy. I consider it classy to know what you want. And a guy ‘buying’ sex with flowers etc. Come on! As if a bunch of flowers is going to help. Give me a ring and I’ll give it straight back to you. Let’s have some fun instead. I do have a venus uranus conjunction (in scorp) though.
Heather says on 3/23/07 at 8:38 am:

I wasn’t saying that just any penis would do, I was very choosy, just that I knew within a few hours whether I would bother with you or not. And that was also 15 years ago, once I found my husband I was done looking. I’m not sure how I would handle dating now, but I’m thinking I wouldn’t waste a lot of time and someone else’s money going on dates with guys I didn’t feel any connection.
Elsa says on 3/23/07 at 8:47 am:

That comment came in late at night. I think that guy was drunk! ::snortles::
Korellyn says on 3/23/07 at 4:42 pm:

Fast, but very picky. I don’t like most people, but when I find someone I like, I know it.
kashmiri says on 3/24/07 at 12:32 pm:

I partner infrequently. I have only had 2 long relationships (that lasted beyond 1 month of dating).
I have, however, dated a lot because I find people fascinating and like to get know all kinds of people. So public partnerships, like friendships, it happens very quickly. I have a few friends I have known for years and I would protect them to the death.
I have Saturn in Leo, 7H. Currently in a serious relationship with someone who also has a 7H Saturn. We both like to feel free and autonomous at all times, but in my case I think this has to do with Uranus conjunct my MC (Scorpio), because Uranus doesn’t hang with Venus at all.