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Sleep With Her Husband At Your Own Risk - Redux: Violence Meets Violence - Instant Karma?
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satori and I, continue to discuss….
“Thing is, she could not have expected that,” I said. These women who sleep with other women’s husbands, and she did this habitually. She did it as a habit, conscious or otherwise. She was a serial… this was her thing. But by and large they position themselves as the hot one. You know. They’re the Lolita and the wife is the dowdy wife. Even if they’re forty, they think this. They are the hot thing and the wife is the oppressive mother figure in an apron and they are going to do this man right.”
“That’s right.”
“Yeah. So it never occurs to them, that the guy they’re nabbing is going to have sex with them and go home thinking, that wasn’t all that good.”
We laughed.
“No matter what he says as he’s getting out of bed… getting out of there,” I said. “They have this idea they’re so saucy and maybe they’re not. Maybe they’re going to be criticized. Their performance or their body. And they sure as hell don’t expect the wife to be able to rise up and take them out… cleanly.”
“They expect to win,” she said. ‘When you sleep with someone’s husband, it’s supposed to mean you won.”
“Yeah. You conquered the woman, and the man. But there are people out there in nature… people like you. People like the soldier. And if you run into one of them while you’re pulling your crap, you’re going to be enormously sorry.”
“Uh huh.”
“Like you. You see a woman getting raped and go over and pull the bastard off her. You’ve done that.”
“That’s right,” she said. “That’s not going to happen. Not on my watch.”
“Well my watch is not so stout,” I said. “So I am very glad there are people like you sprinkled around. It seems very important to me. Like that guy I told you about. He’s 70 years old, on a tour bus in Costa Rica with all these other retireds and these bandits / robbers get on the bus to rob all of them. They were holding a gun to this woman’s head and this guy… he was ex-military, a passenger in the group. He got up and next thing you know, one of the bandits was dead. He killed the guy with his bare hands and after that I guess the other two backed down. Whoops! They weren’t expecting this. They were expecting to dominate and handily. But apparently they messed with the wrong tour bus on the wrong day because this guy was on it.”
“Yep.”
“Or like the serial rapist who winds up on top a woman with some self defense training who reached down and pops his nut. Whoops! Now he better get off her and get to a hospital or he is going to die. And this stuff is all incredibly violent, but if there were no people out there like this, then what? It seems to me that some people are due to meet their instant karma and other people are here to deliver it.”
“I wrote about the woman who slept with my husband, I may not be that hot, but I’m hotter than you.”
I laughed. “Yeah, I don’t think that was the feedback she was expecting.”
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I think we need more men and women like this in the world that will stand up and take whatever is coming. Sadly so many of us, myself too somedays, will allow this stuff to happen. Partly because we are shocked and are in disbelief, partly because it’s so scarey to confront someone who is doing wrong.
But we also need to say thank you to those who do stand up and do right instead of analyzing them to death (especially on tv - well, now, why did you….?) Back in the “old days” society had a standard and if someone enforced it it was “well because that’s what’s right” A damned good answer!
It can happen from little things like a conflict with a roommate that brings over that slimy guy that tries to touch you (you need to stand up to the roommate) or to the rapist that satori came across.
I do think more people need to stand up and be willing to face what happens. And I agree that some people are so shocked by what they see they can’t.
I’ve intervened before and gotten beaten. Beaten as in kicked in the head! But I have also intervened and had good results. I think this comes instinctually for some people. I have Mars in Aries (3rd) opposed Pluto in Libra (9th) and squared my Capricorn
Moon (1st). I’m not always good at knowking which way it’s going to go.
As for the husband-sleeping situation, I can’t say that I would handle it in that way. But I’d be furious. Oh, I’d be angry! There’s actually no telling what I’d do and so I really can’t decide what I make of Satori’s response to the other woman.
I’ve been working on this for a year or two, trying to stand up to situations that emotionally comparable (although not equivalent) — deliver some instant karma as it were, or just not take a crap off someone! I sure hope if I was ever attacked, I could pop a rapist’s nut… I’m squirming now but I think I could work up the bloodlust if attacked. It’s fight or flight!
And it’s always been easier for me to stick up for someone else than to defend myself (Moon/Mars in Libra), but when I started thinking of myself as a friend to protect it got easier. Kudos to that 70 year-old guy!
Bah, wasn’t finished:
Satori, kudos to you, too! For having a backbone and using it.