Dear Un-Partnered,

There is nothing wrong with your ascendant. That’s like saying there is something wrong with the nose on your face. There is nothing wrong with your nose. It is your nose! How can it be wrong?

But a person who believes their nose - sitting right in the center of their face - is flawed is going to feel they are not desirable and the nose is not the problem! It’s the attitude! So if you want to resolve, this you are going to have to completely revolutionize your thinking. Because what you’ve got is a belief about yourself that has become a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Now there is all kinds of scare-astrology out there and whatever you’ve heard, you’ve got to put it aside and develop some other philosophy about how things work in the world. You need a new story! Because the story you’re telling yourself is hideous! Think about it. According to you, anyone who associates with you is going to be harmed. I don’t agree!

According to me, you’re a double Taurus (love) conjunct Jupiter (generous) in the 7th house (love / relationships). Further, you’re a Libra rising (more love) and I don’t know…

I think this qualifies you as an expert when it comes to love and relating to others… that is waiting to happen. And the delay?

Well your Sun, Moon and rising are all Venus-ruled and sure enough, Saturn is squaring Venus and this is the problem. You think there is something inherently wrong with you. And this is you JOB to solve. I’m serious! Learning (Saturn) to partner (all the Venus stuff) is your job in this lifetime, and you are absolutely going to have to face your fear and get out there. And if you want some encouragement, start with this little fact about you:

You actually care what happens to the “other”! Can you see that? Read your post until you can.

Now that’s a wonderful quality and this is what is inherent to you to you. And when it comes to hooking up, I can’t of a more desirable quality a woman might want in a man.

One more thing:

“Whatever you may think, it’s never your age, your weight, your hair, your height, or your abstinence from gymnasia. It’s ALWAYS your attitude.”

Jack Fertig, Astrologer

Good luck.

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