Marly writes regarding the Salesman:

I don’t get it, frankly. When women write you letters about their obsessions with men who are unavailable, you read them the riot act. Then this guy is doing the same thing and you talk about how you understand because of the astrology. Who’s to say that these women who write to you are not similarly compelled by the astrology? And even if they and this salesman are compelled by the astrology, doesn’t there come a point when they all have to say, “You know what, it ain’t going to happen for whatever reason. This person is not available to me right now, let me move on”?

Marly, the women who write me are in pain. They have a complaint. This guy is not asking my advice, or even having a problem. In fact, he’s enjoying himself immensely and perhaps even having the time of his life.

As for his disrespecting my boundaries, I would say that cost him bad. Because the chemistry is there. And if he’d acted in a way that was respectful several months ago, we’d probably be dating right now. But he didn’t! So this is the turn the relationship has taken.

And he’s running his life and I’m running mine. And I don’t know what all he’s doing, but I am studying him. And I am trying to figure out God’s joke, to put this guy on a crosstrainer next to me in the first place, because this is what I do.

And what I don’t do is tell people how I feel they should run their life when my opinion has not been solicited!

So considering that, I think this situation is fine the way it is. And as a matter of fact, it benefits me because I get a better workout when he’s in the vicinity. His chart energizes my Mars, yes? It does. So I am exhilarated by his energy and channel this into my workout… and I am sure he does same. So this is something I was going to write about.

These two men have similar energy but it does not mean they use it in similar ways. The soldier respects boundaries without fail though he’s certainly capable of muscling his way into to anything, anytime, anywhere. And this is the whole point of this thread. To look at two people with like energy and note the similarities (and differences) of how they act (interact) with a control… that is, me!

And it just happens the interaction is very powerful, which is good. Because do we want something limp? Of course not! We’re trying to learn astrology here!

So these men have the same energy, but they are not the same people. They are not interchangeable! One of them is all about integrity and the other… not! But this is irrelevant to the fact I am energized by either of them while they find me compelling. And it is at this point, free will comes into the equation!

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