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In Limbo With Her Boyfriend: Taurus Moon, Fixed Grand Cross
Dear Elsa,
My ex boyfriend and I have been in limbo for months. He went abroad for the year to Japan, and he called me a week after being there and said I wasn’t supporting him, which I hadn’t been all summer. And that we should take a break. I was a little overbearing texting him and things. He never wanted to talk to me it felt like but he always replied. I asked if he was seeing someone else and he said no. I finally broke it off a month later.
We agreed we’d be friends, but I ended up just messaging him, I finally sent him a video with my thoughts, and telling him that I am sorry for everything I couldn’t do for him. Unfortunately, next year we are gonna be living in the same dorm (long story), and I just wanna know if we will ever be able to fix this. Should I just move on? I really love him… it’s pathetic… but he is my first love.
What do I do? Wait a whole year for him to get back? Or just do what I have to do and see if destiny will ever bring us back to each other?
Wondering
Dear Wondering,
Actually, you and your boyfriend are not in limbo. I think you are totally and utterly broken up.
As for his replying when you contact him, it sounds as if he is a polite man. You know. His mama raised him right and he is trying to not be rude. You, on the other hand show him no such courtesy, and this is what needs to change.
Now you have a Taurus Moon that is involved in a FIXED grand cross and what you are is stubborn. And you can be stubborn for as long as you want but it is not going to alter what is real. This man does not want to be your man! It is you that is initiating everything at this point. It sound to me like he is responding begrudgingly so first love or no, if you have any class or consideration for him at all, you will relent.
So to answer your question, no. Don’t wait, because I think he’s already gone. If I am wrong, when you drop off, he’ll pursue you and then you’ll know.
Good luck.
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