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Pluto Transit To The Moon - Mine: Who Do You Love? Do You Have an Organic Attraction to a Physical Type? Why Is That?
Astrology in Real Life…
Catch up here.
So when my sister and I were discussing this… she also gravitates towards a certain physical type, we noted that although the men we choose are akin to our father, they are also very distinctly different from him. My type is also different from hers and we concluded that while the opposite sex parent may have some play, there is more than that to the story. She wondered about past lives for example while I just wondered in general.
Might you arrive in this world with the shred of an outline? Are we half-done puzzles looking for the missing pieces of ourselves and some subconscious knowledge of what they may look like? As always, I am an extreme example.
Not only do I go for a certain physical type, roughly 95% of the men I have ever been involved with have been either an artist or an engineer. And most times, they are both. They are artists with aptitude for engineering or they are engineers with art as a sideline.
And they say you find people who have qualities you have yet to discover in yourself. However I have no engineering ability. As a matter of fact, I am pretty sure I am missing that entire lobe of my brain, so then how is this explained?
And then there is the astrology. And it’s strange because it took me years to notice this. I was on to the artist / engineer thing in my 20’s but it was rather recently I realized again, that roughly 95% of men who have been significant in my life have either Moon in Scorpio, or Moon in Aquarius. Since high school, this is. Since I was 13, and I can see why. I am an intense eccentric!
However, this is still a very narrow focus. It’s extremely narrow. It is embarrassingly narrow except for the fact I’m sort of proud to me. 
::shakes head::
So I have a serious imprint. And I am not alone. According to the poll on this blog, 61% of you cop to being in a similar situation. Another 8% of you are considering joining this majority. So where do these imprints come from?
If you have a strong preference for a certain physical type, do you have any idea where it is rooted? How did it originate?
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The gentlemen I used to date were pretty similar in appearance to my dad…dark hair, lighter eyes, tending towards a lankier and taller build. That really freaked me out, maybe a result of a suppressed childhood pdsd (post divorce stress disorder). The last three years the men in my life have tended to be more stocky and outdoorsy looking…still artsy, creative and inspired though less intellectually eccentric…
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I have a definite type I like, sort of big bear men. But I didn’t marry one. And all the big bear men I’ve been with were really wrong for me as in we fought all the time. Too much bear in my ownself I suppose. But I married ‘an intellect’ because without that the relationship is over in a few montsh—-Venus in Aquarius likes lots of discussion and someone to tell me I am smart or I get bored and insecure.
I have a strong imprint too, (even though i rarely get to date the people I like), i think the imprint is problably from past lifes.
I do have a pattern, which I was shocked to notice. Three husbands, 2 serious boyfriends, all have R.E. for first and middle initials. For the life of me, I do not know how I managed this.
I’ve discovered, somewhat to my chagrin (being the bookworm that I am), that I’m a huge sucker for the blue-collar type. Manly men, doing manly things. Strong, rough hands = huge turn on.
I suspect it has to do with my 6th house capricorn mars opposing 12th house cancer venus.
hi Elsa
Yeah my preference changed when I began dating. I always prefered a blue-ish eyed, sandy haired guy. Then most everyone I ended up dating had brown eyes. No one in my family has brown eyes. My B. mother did but I only ever saw her for a day, so where did this come from? Could it be the dog I grew up with from an infant in foster care, and perhaps a tiny throwback to b.mother?
Then again I’ve had PL in Native american tribes, soo. To this day I have more trust for a brown eyed guy (as far as dating).
btw I love the sweater in the photo, super!
nyx
Bald! What the heck is up with that? I hate facial hair. It reminds me of my Dad, who I love, has a massive, bushy, black do. And a moustache. So I guess I am veered to “not-Dad.”
I like bear, as well! But I also lust after tall, lanky men and women.
Past lives? I think that my patterns there play out in a emotional, not physical way.
Oh, there are a few other patterns:
dead siblings or parent
drug or alcohol dependancy
stubbornness
shy
hmmm… past life patterns? possibly!
…and I have never dated a person who yells or argues in public.
i like gentleness.
Of course my idea of whatever my “type” is is probably bullshit or filler right now because it seems to be whatever is fashionable, since I like Aquarians so much, some whose birthday falls upon the same day as my mom, I possibly seek out men like my mom (Cancer). My dad’s a Capricorn and kind of a provider so I don’t know if I’ve gravitated towards people like that.
My physical type is lanky and dark-featured. Or TAP (tall and pointy) as my friend calls it.
I don’t know if it’s vicarious living, because I’m short, stocky and pink or just that the mix of genes would be the best. Those long limbs just look so elegant…
Emotionally, I tend to go for guys that ignore me half of the time- it’s what I’m used to. If a guy gave me the support and attention I needed I’ probably freak out and dump him.
I think I have had the most varied boyfriends/dates in terms of physical appearance. I have this type I am drawn to but I have dated only one who fit it and we were not fully compatiable. That type is tall dark-haired WASP/preppie (think Stephen Colbert, or Christian Bale in ‘American Psycho’). Maybe one day. Strong contrast to my appearance: petite, chubby, blonde curly hair, and takes after my German Jewish father. Ahem, this type does look a lot like my own mother (English & Scots-Irish, but pretty dark with blue-green eyes), to whom I am close. Step-father was also dark haired and blue-eyed, but not WASP-y.
I also find many racially mixed people very attractive. I guess, biologically, I think the wider the gene pool the better the specimen!
Emotionally, most of them have been the mellow type (my strongest emotional relationships have been to Tauruses, presumably because their suns opposed my Scorpio moon, and their Venusian earthiness appealed enormously to my Pisces sun).