When I posted the two blogs on composite charts vs synastry between charts earlier this month, I’d actually written two others. I didn’t post them, though I’m not sure why. It didn’t feel right at the time and I have learned to honor that.

Perhaps it was because I hadn’t introduced the AMF. But in any case, it seems right now, so there they come. If you need to catch up, click here.

So I’ll tell you how this second composite chart works, out in the world in real life. Well, for one thing when I first met The AMF he was seeing a therapist. And he got into me very quickly which upset her. Now I think she had a little crush on him. Because she had no problem with him meeting women he didn’t like.

But boy oh boy, when he showed up happy, she lost it. Apparently, she got all agitated. She started tapping on her clipboard, clucking, admonishing him and so forth. He’d never seen her lose her composure before so this was telling. But it was also beside the point. Because guess what happened?

Nothing. He quit therapy! He never saw her again. Which was no great surprise. Because just look at that chart! If two people meet and the composite looks like that…well I can’t imagine anything is going to stop the relationship from forming which is exactly what she was trying to do. Impossible task.

And it wasn’t trying to form like some sort of vortex accident. Or like two trains destined to collide. Trines don’t work like that!

To me, a trine works like an intravenous feed. Get it? You lie there in the bed and the stuff just goes into your veins. You don’t have to work for it. You don’t have to do a dammed thing. Drip, drip, drip.

So when The AMF and I met, the relationship just constellated. In fact, it started for me, before I even saw him. I was meeting him at a park on a blind date. Being Scorpio, he arrived early to position himself so he could monitor me as I arrived. Knowing he was a Scorpio I arrived even earlier to stalk the stalker.

And I was standing there at the edge of the park scanning, when I saw the brake lights flash on a car parked across on the street and down a ways. As soon as I saw that, I knew it was him. Him, I mean. When he got out of the car and I saw him, I really knew. I started waving at him, all friendly like.

Later he told me, “I should have got right back in my car and drove away. Because you were standing there waving, like “Here I am, motherfucker. What took you so long? Come and get it, dumbass! I’m her, you stupid Mexican!!!”

::smiles::

But he didn’t get back in the car. He walked right into it and we’ve been there ever since.

So there you go. The relationship was a relationship before it was even a relationship. We saw each other coming and with the composite like that…WHOOSH.

And the synastry?

Well, you remember the Mars square Mars in the other relationship? In this relationship our Mars are conjunct. For newbies, that means they are TOGETHER. They are on top each other, rather than opposed. Isn’t that funny? Isn’t God funny?

Whew! ::wipes sweat:: We can move a couch! And I figure this indicates whatever I needed to learn from having all that difficulty has been mastered.

But I had one other point to make on this subject so I’m coming back with one more blog.

skip to part four…