Dear Unsure,

How you proceed from here is entirely up to you - but I have to tell you that in my experience, liars lie. And since your man is a known liar, there is no telling what he is up to, even if he expressly tells you.

With Venus part of a stellium in Capricorn, your chart suggests the capacity for love relationship that is stable, supportive and real. That’s the potential, but the way you’re playing it is just about as opposite that as you can get.

Rather than working to ground a relationship in real life, and deriving a sense of self esteem through being a stellar partner… you are expressing the same energy in a wholly negative way. That is, you are settling for the tiniest of crumbs, out of the fear this is all you deserve.

Now if I were you, I would get my own man, in my own town, that I could put my hands on and so forth. I would also throw a liar back in two seconds, like some distasteful fish I caught on accident, and I would aim him so he landed on his fuckin’ head. But I am not you. You are you, so what is it that you want?

If you want to be in a relationship with a liar who lives in another country, well then you’ve got it! If you want something else, then lose this bastard like yesterday and fish another line.

Good luck.

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