Dear Girl In Love,

There is no choice. You have to just live. You have to let your life, and your love, and your future unfold. And I know you are a Capricorn. And I know you would like to control this situation because you are frightened. But you must continue to struggle against your urges because any tricks you pull will backfire in the long run.

So here’s what I would do: I would continue to love my man, if I loved him, because you can’t control that either, can you? And I would act with total integrity. This is just essential for Capricorn. Forget about his fear… you’re the one who is afraid. You’re afraid he’s going to leave, remember? And you can tell him this, you know. It is perfectly fine to be the way you are, and to talk to him about this… and if you do, listen carefully to what he says.

Because if he tells you repeatedly that this is what he wants to do, that he wants to have this adventure and he wants to have it alone… that he feels this is his destiny, then it’s your job as his lover and his friend to let him go. And if you do, he might just come back. And if he doesn’t?

Well you’ll be a class act, girl. And not that many are. And do you think a woman who is a class act - a stand-up and considerate friend and partner - has trouble finding a great man? She doesn’t.

So this is my advice. Just be honest and act in a way that makes you feel proud of yourself, and you really can’t go wrong. Good luck.

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