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He Loves Another Woman - Virgo, Pisces and the 12th house
Dear Elsa.
There was this guy I worked with a few years ago. We worked well together, and then I left for other work. We ran into each other back in October, and he asked me out.
Things were wonderful, easy, joyful - a real connection. The problem is that now he’s saying he’s still in love with his ex-girlfriend of 8 years. The one that is psycho, married and has two young children by her current husband. Somewhere in the eight years he was with her, she divorced her first husband and and married her second. He didn’t know abouther first husband until 5 years into his relationship with her, and she didn’t tell him about the second husband until a year after the marriage!
I feel like I walked into the loony bin on this one. I really like him and feel in sync with him, but I know from my history that I tend to attract men that aren’t good for me. I wonder if it worth the wait or if he’s just “not good for me” in the long run.
Will he he stops dreaming of her and respect our relationship?
Standing By
Dear Standing,
When a man tells you he is in love with another woman, dreaming of another woman… well, this is your cue to leave. And it’s very of smart of you to be catching on to your propensity to attract these situations. So how about I try to help you with that?
First, regarding all these “not good for you” men you attract: you are not a victim. What happens is, stuations like this show up, and you choose to participate. And I believe the reason is, all this Virgo and Pisces / 12th house energy in your chart. You want to sacrifice. You want to hang on a cross, you just can’t help yourself.
And you know, I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. I think it is natural for a person with a chart like yours to want to serve, to want to sacrifice. But to who… and for what? Some random guy who loves someone else? That makes no sense. You need a better cause.
Kiss this guy goodbye. Look for another cause, one more deserving of your time, energy, and gifts. But even more importantly: if would help you greatly if you could find something larger and more universal than a mere “relationship” to focus on.
Because if you can do this, it will be very fulfilling for you, while simultaneously making you far more attractive to men. Because nothing is more appealing to a man than a woman with passion and a life of her own.
Good luck.
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