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Feeling Lonely Among Friends - Saturn Transit the 11th House
Dear Elsa,
I know I’m not exactly a social butterfly, but I do enjoy being out and around people. In fact, I rather crave the company. So why is it that, when I’m at parties in my friends’ homes, I still feel so lonely lately? It’s almost like I’m more lonely when I’m with friends than when I’m at home.
Why do I feel such a lack of fellowship and companionship among people I like and who like me?
Dissatisfied
Dear Dissatisfied,
You’re outgrowing some of your friends and I know, this sucks. If you don’t keep the friends you have, then what are you going to do for friends?
Well, I’ll tell you. You’re going to get new friends. Friends who fit a different sort of criteria and I have a story to illustrate. I once knew a man with a large group of friends. They were wild and drunk all the time. For example, once he was in Mexico and one of the pals broke his arm being an ass. Know what they did? They splinted his broken arm with a Playboy magazine and just kept on drinking!
Funny, right? Well it was funny until one day he woke up, looked around, and thought, “I’m getting too old for this shit.”
This is what is happening to you. With Saturn transiting your 11th house (friendship), you’re maturing beyond your friends. Your new friends will be Saturn-like. That means that they will support you - or teach you, which is the same thing. You will find friends who are wise, and who force you to grow. You’ll end up with fewer friendships, but they will be relationships worth investing in.
So this is what is happening to you. You want a new situation when it comes to your friends. And you’re going to get it.
Good luck!
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